The Magic of Love that transforms through BDSM

Collarspace Discussion Forums

Home Login Search

The Magic of Love that transforms through BDSM

View related threads: (in this forum | in all forums)

Logged in as: Guest

All Forums >> [Community Discussions] >> General BDSM Discussion >> The Magic of Love that transforms through BDSM

Page: [1] 2 next > >>

Login

Message

<< Older Topic Newer Topic >>

The Magic of Love that transforms through BDSM - 11/4/2008 7:06:01 AM

MissEnchanted

Posts: 510
Status: offline

This is what I believe:

The Magic of Love

Magic transforms one thing into another: lead into gold.
Love is the deepest magic: transforming who we are.
It is the caterpillar becoming a butterfly.
Love takes what we are, and inspires us to be better.
Love takes what we do and gives it purpose.
Love takes what we feel and gives it meaning.
Love takes individuals and unites them.
Love takes away our freedom to be uninspired, without purpose or meaning, to be lonely.
We lose the freedom to think only of ourselves, to be selfish, to be cruel.
Love takes from us the satisfaction of being "good enough". In Love we are always striving to be better than we were ... to find more within us to give to those we love.
In Love another's happiness comes before our own.
To be more than we were, we must let go of that which held us back. Love takes from us the fear and sadness, and gives us hope and joy.
We are altogether transformed in the deep magic of Love.
Love removes the dross from the gold, the chaff from the wheat ...
... only in Love can we achieve our full potential, for only through Love are we inspired to be selfless.

Love is the magic that transforms pain into positive energy.

I am all about 24/7 D/s. That is how I live my life and it brings me joy and pain.
What do you think?

Please, no sniping.

Me

Post #: 1

RE: The Magic of Love that transforms through BDSM - 11/4/2008 7:15:29 AM

antipode

Posts: 1787
Joined: 4/19/2004
Status: offline

quote:

What do you think?

I think you are a romantic, probably incurable...

(in reply to MissEnchanted)

Post #: 2

RE: The Magic of Love that transforms through BDSM - 11/4/2008 7:43:03 AM

mc1234

Posts: 683
Joined: 10/4/2008
Status: offline

I take a much more pragmatic view of life. I have a lot of love in my life, through family and friends, but haven't been 'in love' in a long time. I think all the things you mention are things that I do as a decent person - being in love doesn't make me a decent person - having a strong character does. And I do believe being a strong, decent person with a good character will lead me to positive energies throughout my life.

Romantic love would be a nice surprise ... but I'm really not counting on it to lead me to the better things in life.

(in reply to MissEnchanted)

Post #: 3

RE: The Magic of Love that transforms through BDSM - 11/4/2008 7:57:47 AM

MissEnchanted

Posts: 510
Status: offline

mc1234,

I also take a very pragmatic view of life.

I also have not been 'in-love' in a long time.

I love on my friends, my pets, and my D/s partners.

And, yes, it is about being decent.

Having a strong character is paramount and my whole life experiences have helped to shape me into a strong, independent person, woman and domme.

A lot of people are stressed out right now and the purpose of this thread is to regenerate some of that good energy, to remind us of what really matters deep down.

To shine a light on some of that magic that makes life flow, instead of bumping along...

ME

quote:

ORIGINAL: mc1234

I take a much more pragmatic view of life. I have a lot of love in my life, through family and friends, but haven't been 'in love' in a long time. I think all the things you mention are things that I do as a decent person - being in love doesn't make me a decent person - having a strong character does. And I do believe being a strong, decent person with a good character will lead me to positive energies throughout my life.

Romantic love would be a nice surprise ... but I'm really not counting on it to lead me to the better things in life.

I lead with it. That's what works for me. To see everyone grow and meet their goals, and have a lot of fun along the way.

< Message edited by MissEnchanted -- 11/4/2008 8:21:10 AM >

(in reply to mc1234)

Post #: 4

RE: The Magic of Love that transforms through BDSM - 11/4/2008 8:02:08 AM

leadership527

Posts: 5026
Joined: 6/2/2008
Status: offline

Don't get me wrong, I'm big on love. For me, it is the only real purpose to a lifelong partnership and anything else is simply wasting my time.

That being said, in my best ability to understand what I see in "the scene", I've come to think that love is only a critical ingredient for those like me that, well, find it a critical ingredient. In the relationship recipe's I make, love is what makes it special. But other people have their own recipes and love may or may not be a part of it.

At least, that's what my head tells me. My heart, honestly, cannot even remotely grasp that concept.

_____________________________

~Jeff

I didn't so much "enslave" Carol as I did "enlove" her. - Me
I want a joyous, loving, respectful relationship where the male is in charge and deserves to be. - DavanKael

(in reply to MissEnchanted)

Post #: 5

RE: The Magic of Love that transforms through BDSM - 11/4/2008 8:09:06 AM

MissEnchanted

Posts: 510
Status: offline

antipode,

I'm a throwback. My adult son calls me a

quote:

ORIGINAL: antipode

quote:

What do you think?

I think you are a romantic, probably incurable...

(in reply to antipode)

Post #: 6

RE: The Magic of Love that transforms through BDSM - 11/4/2008 8:13:51 AM

MissEnchanted

Posts: 510
Status: offline

Exactly!

That's why I asked for no sniping here.

Everyone has their own way of viewing life and how they choose to enjoy it, including their BDSM proclivities.

I am sending out a positive sweet-whip and doing this has cheered me up immensely this morning.

I have at least two sides:

Pardon the emoticons please. I needed this today.

quote:

ORIGINAL: leadership527

Don't get me wrong, I'm big on love. For me, it is the only real purpose to a lifelong partnership and anything else is simply wasting my time.

That being said, in my best ability to understand what I see in "the scene", I've come to think that love is only a critical ingredient for those like me that, well, find it a critical ingredient. In the relationship recipe's I make, love is what makes it special. But other people have their own recipes and love may or may not be a part of it.

At least, that's what my head tells me. My heart, honestly, cannot even remotely grasp that concept.

(in reply to leadership527)

Post #: 7

RE: The Magic of Love that transforms through BDSM - 11/4/2008 8:29:04 AM

RCdc

Posts: 8674
Status: offline

I love, love.
I adore, love.
I don't believe that it is the be and end all for everyone. I do believe that one can do all of the above without love.
But for me... I thirve surrounded by love.

the.dark.

_____________________________

RC&dc

love isnt gazing into each others eyes - it's looking forward in the same direction

(in reply to MissEnchanted)

Post #: 8

RE: The Magic of Love that transforms through BDSM - 11/4/2008 8:33:07 AM

SailingBum

Posts: 3225
Joined: 12/10/2007
From: Sailin the stormy sea
Status: offline

Oh boy can in get any more sappy in here.

BadOne

_____________________________

The beatings will continue until morale improves.

According to SwithNSpanky
We are all so very lucky to have you with us to impart your great wisdom.

(in reply to RCdc)

Post #: 9

RE: The Magic of Love that transforms through BDSM - 11/4/2008 8:33:46 AM

stella41b

Posts: 4258
Joined: 10/16/2007
From: SW London (UK)
Status: offline

I am the same as you but different, and love may or may not exist in what lies between. The key is discovery.

_____________________________

CM's Resident Lyricist
also Facebook
http://stella.baker.tripod.com/
50NZpoints
Q2
Simply Q

(in reply to MissEnchanted)

Post #: 10

RE: The Magic of Love that transforms through BDSM - 11/4/2008 8:45:45 AM

MissEnchanted

Posts: 510
Status: offline

Darcyand the dark,

Me too!

quote:

ORIGINAL: Darcyandthedark

I love, love.
I adore, love.
I don't believe that it is the be and end all for everyone. I do believe that one can do all of the above without love.
But for me... I thrive surrounded by love.

the.dark.

< Message edited by MissEnchanted -- 11/4/2008 8:48:39 AM >

(in reply to RCdc)

Post #: 11

RE: The Magic of Love that transforms through BDSM - 11/4/2008 8:48:07 AM

MissEnchanted

Posts: 510
Status: offline

Stella,

I agree with you and there are many fun experiences of discovery that do not include love.

quote:

ORIGINAL: stella41b

I am the same as you but different, and love may or may not exist in what lies between. The key is discovery.

Off to vote, see you all later!

ME

< Message edited by MissEnchanted -- 11/4/2008 8:49:28 AM >

(in reply to stella41b)

Post #: 12

RE: The Magic of Love that transforms through BDSM - 11/4/2008 9:01:48 AM

mc1234

Posts: 683
Joined: 10/4/2008
Status: offline

quote:

ORIGINAL: MissEnchanted
A lot of people are stressed out right now and the purpose of this thread is to regenerate some of that good energy, to remind us of what really matters deep down.

To shine a light on some of that magic that makes life flow, instead of bumping along...

That's cool - I won't step on your toes.

I get my re-energizing from the surprising emotional moments that just kinda happen in life - like last night when I watched a friend's daughter shine in a performance and made me so proud of her. It's things like that, from those who surround me, that make my life worthwhile.

(in reply to MissEnchanted)

Post #: 13

RE: The Magic of Love that transforms through BDSM - 11/4/2008 9:09:59 AM

oceanwynds

Posts: 1044
Joined: 8/24/2006
Status: offline

All you need is love, love, love
I am in love with myself, and love to offer that to Sir.
I am in love with life, and love to offer that to Sir.
I love to be contagious in love.
Romantic love blows away after the pretty colors fade away, love of thy self stays and generates outwards.
I am the oceanwynds 24/7 and that covers so many things.
I am love that reachs out and smiles on many.
With or without Sir, I still am love. It is who I am.
So be it!
oceanwynds

(in reply to MissEnchanted)

Post #: 14

RE: The Magic of Love that transforms through BDSM - 11/4/2008 9:34:07 AM

WinsomeDefiance

Posts: 6719
Joined: 8/7/2007
Status: offline

Hi MissEnchanted,

I think.....ummm.....

Marry Me?

(in reply to oceanwynds)

Post #: 15

RE: The Magic of Love that transforms through BDSM - 11/4/2008 9:50:53 AM

suhlut

Posts: 622
Joined: 7/20/2007
Status: offline

*vomits*

_____________________________

That girl is pretty kinky
The girl's a super freak

SUPERFREAK ~by Rick James

(in reply to MissEnchanted)

Post #: 16

RE: The Magic of Love that transforms through BDSM - 11/4/2008 11:26:56 AM

LuckyAlbatross

Posts: 19224
Joined: 10/25/2005
Status: offline

quote:

ORIGINAL: MissEnchanted

This is what I believe:

The Magic of Love

Magic transforms one thing into another: lead into gold.
Love is the deepest magic: transforming who we are.
It is the caterpillar becoming a butterfly.
Love takes what we are, and inspires us to be better.
Love takes what we do and gives it purpose.
Love takes what we feel and gives it meaning.
Love takes individuals and unites them.
Love takes away our freedom to be uninspired, without purpose or meaning, to be lonely.
We lose the freedom to think only of ourselves, to be selfish, to be cruel.
Love takes from us the satisfaction of being "good enough". In Love we are always striving to be better than we were ... to find more within us to give to those we love.
In Love another's happiness comes before our own.
To be more than we were, we must let go of that which held us back. Love takes from us the fear and sadness, and gives us hope and joy.
We are altogether transformed in the deep magic of Love.
Love removes the dross from the gold, the chaff from the wheat ...
... only in Love can we achieve our full potential, for only through Love are we inspired to be selfless.

Love is the magic that transforms pain into positive energy.

I am all about 24/7 D/s. That is how I live my life and it brings me joy and pain.
What do you think?

Please, no sniping.

Me

Your subject line says bdsm, your post says Ds, which are you talking about?

Like Dark, love rocks, but I don't treat it or expect it to be what you do.

_____________________________

Find stable partners, not a stable of partners.

"Sometimes my whore logic gets all fuzzy"- Californication

(in reply to MissEnchanted)

Post #: 17

RE: The Magic of Love that transforms through BDSM - 11/4/2008 2:16:51 PM

DavanKael

Posts: 3072
Joined: 10/6/2007
Status: offline

I think that is beautifully said, MissEnchanted. :>
Davan

_____________________________

May you live as long as you wish & love as long as you live
-Robert A Heinlein

It's about the person & the bond,not the bondage
-Me

Waiting is

170NZ (Aka:Sex God Du Jour) pts

Jesus,I've ALWAYS been a deviant
-Leadership527,Jeff

(in reply to LuckyAlbatross)

Post #: 18

RE: The Magic of Love that transforms through BDSM - 11/7/2008 2:11:32 AM

MissEnchanted

Posts: 510
Status: offline

quote:

ORIGINAL: WinsomeDefiance

Hi MissEnchanted,

I think.....ummm.....

Marry Me?

Winsome,

I privated you on the other side. Really interesting profile by the way. I am in the mood for sitting by the river under the stars, want to come along?

(in reply to WinsomeDefiance)

Post #: 19

RE: The Magic of Love that transforms through BDSM - 11/7/2008 2:18:47 AM

MissEnchanted

Posts: 510
Status: offline

quote:

ORIGINAL: DavanKael

I think that is beautifully said, MissEnchanted. :>
Davan

Thank you DavanKae and I hope you havea delightful weekend.

(in reply to DavanKael)

Post #: 20

Page: [1] 2 next > >>

All Forums >> [Community Discussions] >> General BDSM Discussion >> The Magic of Love that transforms through BDSM

Page: [1] 2 next > >>

Jump to:

New Messages	No New Messages
Hot Topic w/ New Messages	Hot Topic w/o New Messages
Locked w/ New Messages	Locked w/o New Messages

Post New Thread

Reply to Message

Post New Poll

Submit Vote

Delete My Own Post

Delete My Own Thread

Rate Posts

Collarchat.com © 2025

Terms of Service

0.110