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RE: Equality - 11/3/2008 5:54:17 AM

candystripper

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No, I don't want the same dynamic I once *thought* I did. missturbation. I'm past feeling I need to open doors or some shit 50% of the time or I'm being disrespected.

I agree with you, the dynamic between a submissive and a Dom is supposed to be one of unequality...how else is it any different from a vanilla relationship?

There should be mutual respect, etc., but I don't think respect and equality are sysnonymns.

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RE: Equality - 11/3/2008 6:23:02 AM

alianora

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So where and how does equality fit in for you?

Equality between myself and a partner fits no where within the type of dynamic that I wish for in a relationship

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Do you believe there are times you have equal rights and a time when you do not?

Do I believe that I have equal rights in the relationship? Yes. However, I choose instead, to pass along to him the right to choose what rights I will and will not have.

This does not, however, insinuate that my opinions and thoughts are not of equal value; or that my contributions to the relationship are not of equal value. Only that my rights as an individual would be removed and given back at his discretion

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