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RE: How to pick Dom/mes - 11/3/2008 11:14:47 AM

moonvine

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ORIGINAL: antipode

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dominant who also wants to open an animal sanctuary

Would those not be findable in the vast realm of animal lovers? But I suppose it is then hard to ask all of 'em if they're dom, and looking.

Working with animals is kind of like working with children in that you don't want to let all the vanillas know about this stuff, although as I have aged I have gotten to where I care less who knows, but not to the point where I don't care at all. And I have had very poor results with trying to find dominants in vanilla land. I have several vanillas pursuing me right now and not a one of them is dominant. (How do I know this? Because I direct them to my OKCupid profile which states I am a masochist, and they all go "ewwww." ) I've let more than one good guy pass me by because of this incompatibility. So I'm still here, even though I don't feel like I exactly belong here either, better fit than most other places