Lockit
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ORIGINAL: Wickad (fast reply) Aside from all the tongue in cheek and number things .... I have to say I'm sorta tired of people trying to justify their actions as either natural or unnatural. Using nature in this way simply helps one to not have to be responsible for their choices. (ie: if it is natural to be heterosexual, and homosexuality is unnatural, then it is okay to discriminate against gays and lesbians - right?) How about we ( the collective we here ) start making choices that are based on our needs and wants. Using your head, rather than solely your heart or loins, to make decisions might just lead to a lot more stable relationships and more fulfilled people. I guess the downside would be that all of us might have to stop for a moment and actually think about what we really want or need - lol. To the OP, you might want to determine what you want and need and make that decision a reality in your life. If you need or want polygamy and someone you are really stuck on doesn't ....I guess you'll have to decide if giving up your need for polygamy is worth having that person in your life. If it is, then be prepared to have feelings for other people and not act on them. ... and of course visa versa if you are a fan of monogamy. Something tells me I might get crucified for this one .... he he he. Wickad Crucified... no... I liked it! Thank you!
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