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Music to Dominate (or submit) to? - 10/23/2008 1:17:26 PM   
raveonette


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Status: offline 		I apologize beforehand if this has already been discussed and I just couldn't find it.

Music is very, very important to me and I constantly make mix "tapes" for almost every situation and most of my close friends. I've been thinking about doing one for BDSM (when silence isn't implemented) but the results have been kind of all over the place. Beyond playing what my Dom would want (let's say He ordered me to choose), do you have any recommendations if you ever mix music with your sessions? Do you ever use it to alter the mood or ambiance of the scene(s)? Do you usually go by what would make the Dom feel more powerful or intimdating, or to influence the sub specifically (or both?) For some reason I would LOVE to see someone using Slayer for those purposes...

Also, for all the hilarious responses ("Speed polka, definitely!" "That 'Rawhide' song!") a 'real' one would be aces. :) I would love to make a compilation from the suggestions and offer it to anyone who would be interested.
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RE: Music to Dominate (or submit) to? - 10/23/2008 1:24:27 PM   
SteelofUtah


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Status: offline 		Check the Music Thread in Polls and Random Stupidity this subject was brought up there ALOT.

As for my Usual Answers

I like German Techo, Scandanavian Death Metal (Which is actually really Pop and Electronica), And Savage Gardens To the Moon and Back. I also like Techno Mixed Classical Like Pacabel's Canon or Vivaldi's Four Seasons Specially the Summer and Winter Movements which are most commonly confussed with Classical Gas which is the Guitar Portion of those movements.

And Finally when all else Fails I really like using The Hampster Dance but you shoud be careful it has been known to cause insanity.

Industrial Music is nice too I really like Wolfsheim

Steel

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RE: Music to Dominate (or submit) to? - 10/23/2008 1:31:54 PM   
raveonette


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Status: offline 		Ah, I never go into that forum so now I feel like an idiot. Sorry everybody! Let's just let this one day a quick and shameful death, I suppose. Thanks for the answers, BTW.

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RE: Music to Dominate (or submit) to? - 10/23/2008 1:36:14 PM   
cinmin


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Status: offline 		i'll just toss this in here since i don't ever check that other forum either...i love the music that is in the movie From Dusk til Dawn. It is played by Tito and Tarantula and i can really get lost in it while scening/playing.

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RE: Music to Dominate (or submit) to? - 10/23/2008 1:40:50 PM   
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Scandanavian Death Metal (Which is actually really Pop and Electronica)


LOL  try At the Gates or anything Gothenburg style...you will think twice to call scandinavian death metal pop or electronica  
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Scandinavian_death_metal

(unless you mean a band with that name of course...still..it would hurt me :(  )


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RE: Music to Dominate (or submit) to? - 10/23/2008 2:15:05 PM   
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Status: offline 		The second it I hit send I knew I had made a mistake. You are correct and I am rather Mistaken. Scandinavian Death Metal is far from Pop and Electronica. But it has a very good beat, what I was thinking was J-Rock or Japanese Rock. Please forgive the mistake I was wrong.

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RE: Music to Dominate (or submit) to? - 10/23/2008 2:20:15 PM   
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Status: offline 		jazz, smooth jazz music is he best for anything intimate in my view, i guess thats why when i go to clubs i get thrown by the usual concoction of pop and dance music

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RE: Music to Dominate (or submit) to? - 10/23/2008 4:47:35 PM   
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Try Nightwish, who do astonishing tracks and awe inspiring videos that form a splendid backdrop for serious bondage and whipping stuff, drowns everything out nicely too.
Love song for a vampire by annie lennox could have been written for bondage scenes.

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RE: Music to Dominate (or submit) to? - 10/23/2008 4:54:02 PM   
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Status: offline 		I like to scene to cheesey pop ... the following are some examples

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=sshGc66Cq6k
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=H25lz7gchaw
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=_bsniYwSaWg

I find they act as another layer of torture .. therefore having intellectual, emotional and physical pain

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RE: Music to Dominate (or submit) to? - 10/23/2008 5:24:17 PM   
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Status: offline 		What was your search word?  Try "music"

http://www.collarchat.com/m_605631/mpage_2/key_music/tm.htm#608226
Scene music...whats yours

http://www.collarchat.com/m_222141/mpage_1/key_music%252Cscene/tm.htm#222187
Does anyone use music during a scene?

http://www.collarchat.com/m_314952/mpage_1/key_music/tm.htm#314953
D/s tunes

http://www.collarchat.com/m_324140/mpage_1/key_music/tm.htm#324148
Scene music

http://www.collarchat.com/m_351059/mpage_1/key_music/tm.htm#352244
fave music for playtime

http://www.collarchat.com/m_354630/mpage_1/key_music/tm.htm#354696
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RE: Music to Dominate (or submit) to? - 10/23/2008 5:34:05 PM   
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Status: offline 		Personally the only music I could ever really get into headspace with is Juno Reactor (or anything similar) If you dont know who they are...they did the music for The Matrix.

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RE: Music to Dominate (or submit) to? - 10/23/2008 6:00:53 PM   
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RE: Music to Dominate (or submit) to? - 10/23/2008 6:46:38 PM   
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Status: offline 		Rhapsody in Blue, many elements in there do great things for Me.

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RE: Music to Dominate (or submit) to? - 10/23/2008 7:38:54 PM   
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Status: offline 		Nickelback always works for me during a good flogging session

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RE: Music to Dominate (or submit) to? - 10/23/2008 8:20:09 PM   
WestBaySlave


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Status: offline 		I'd love to do a scene to The Kills' first two albums Keep Me On Your Mean Side and No Wow. Or, in that vein, something like The Archie Bronson Outfit's Derdang Derdang or The Hive's Veni Vedi Vicious.

Unfortunately, I've yet to come across a gay dom who likes rock, let alone indie punk bands like The Kills.

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RE: Music to Dominate (or submit) to? - 10/23/2008 8:54:58 PM   
ladyacquiesce


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RE: Music to Dominate (or submit) to? - 10/24/2008 1:34:14 AM   
DelilahDeb


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Status: offline 		I don't generally mess with it. What comes to mind, though, is classical: Ravel's "Bolero". Forty-odd minutes from warm-up to climax. I'd hate to be limited to a premixed session, though, and every play partner is a different relationship with its own pace. Hell, every scene is different, with the pace and the mood an interactive mix of what both parties bring to it.

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RE: Music to Dominate (or submit) to? - 10/24/2008 3:10:17 AM   
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ORIGINAL: SteelofUtah

The second it I hit send I knew I had made a mistake. You are correct and I am rather Mistaken. Scandinavian Death Metal is far from Pop and Electronica. But it has a very good beat, what I was thinking was J-Rock or Japanese Rock. Please forgive the mistake I was wrong.

Steel




oh no problem...no need for forgiveness and such.
Death metal can be very "stimualting because of the fast drums and guitar rifs.
J-rock....yeah that is nice indeed....


I normal don't care so much for music while Domming ...as I don't plan my Domination. Normal a radio plays in the background...or what ever cd is in the player.
My music is not often liked by subs...beeing deathmetal/blackmetal..or doom. But I do listen to it..while I drive to them. 


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RE: Music to Dominate (or submit) to? - 10/24/2008 4:55:48 AM   
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Status: offline 		Carl Orff's "Carmina Burana" if you want music for a scenethat builds to something fairly violent! You probably know it from loads of movies and TV ads, but the inspriration for it was something fairly perverted anyway :)

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RE: Music to Dominate (or submit) to? - 10/24/2008 6:51:45 AM   
Lordi71


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Status: offline 		Nine inch nails, either closer or the hand that feeds.... both excellent tracks to Dom to.

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