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I get so jealous... - 10/16/2008 8:30:00 PM   
pinnipedster


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Status: offline 		Mainly of all the ads on this site, and some of the content of many bondage-oriented sites.

It just seems there are many, many kinds of bondage I will probably never get to experience, owing to not being female....

I could go on at some length with more detail, but that pretty well sums it up. :)  I am convinced that the Devil does not exist, because he would long ago have tried (and probably succeeded) in trading my soul for the chance to be one of the girls on the House of Gord site, for example....*sigh*
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RE: I get so jealous... - 10/16/2008 8:31:57 PM   
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RE: I get so jealous... - 10/16/2008 8:32:54 PM   
Rover


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RE: I get so jealous... - 10/16/2008 8:47:08 PM   
angelslave77


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Status: offline 		i agree with the previous posters, and things arent always as they appear. Get out there and do it. Oh and go and perve some of the kink sites that allow much more explicit pics of members, there are lots of real guys doing real hardcore stuff, you might be surprised.

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RE: I get so jealous... - 10/16/2008 9:05:13 PM   
OneMoreWaste


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Status: offline 		I hear ya, brother.

Male Dominants and female submissives giving their platitutes... ugh.  Y'all are in a whole different world, thank yer lucky charms.


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RE: I get so jealous... - 10/16/2008 9:14:22 PM   
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owing to not being female....


you can be female....but its an expensive surgery.


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RE: I get so jealous... - 10/16/2008 10:16:00 PM   
Owner4SexSlave


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Status: offline 		Don't feel bad, there are many types of bondage I've never done.  This actually leaves me some room to explore and try some new things out still.

There are a lot of things I did or started doing when I was younger.  In fact before I got laid and lost my virginity.   Wax Play, Knife Play, blood play using lancets, rope bondage, hell I even made a bed of nails, Rape play (without taking it all the way), Whip, Breath Play that ranged from choking, covering mouth and nose, and the use of friggen plastic bags.   A wide range of off the wall stuff before I was 15 years.

On the other hand, I've not got involved with heavy Bondage Equipment, Heavy suspension, Japanese rope bondage is something I want to explore more.  I have a few designs for St. Andrews crosses I might do one day. 

There are things that some people have done that I'm itching to do, including playing with TENS Units.  I actually want to ZAP myself for the Hell of it even.  I'm sadomaso. 

Anyways, I'm a bit Jealous at times myself.  I am a little shocked when somebody expresses that they are jealous of the things I've done or experienced.

This all is a good thing, it keeps things sort of new and refreshing,  Nice to have things on the yet to do list.

I've done some off the wall things, that well franky just ain't that common.  Nice to do things on impulse when you come up with an interesting idea.

One thing is for certain, there are certain activities I enjoy very much.  I'm just as happy as can be doing these things and coming up with new spins on it.

Besides I don't know if I'm ready to own a basement full of water torture equipment, racks, stockades and an endless list of other things.

I don't feel the burning desire to decorate the household all gothic and make it look like a photo from a "Home & Dungeon" magazine.  Sure that would be great to do for the thrill of it, but it would get old after awhile.  It really would not feel like a Home to me at all.

What KyttynTheMynx posted "What glitters isnt always gold"... really rings true for many things. 

The key is finding the things you love and enjoy the most and have the freedom to do them. 

It's not all about doing anything and everything there is to do.   There is very little about BDSM that does not interest me on some level.

I'm into BDSM for a number of reasons, beside play activities.  Sure, I'm in it for the Sex as well.  I'm also into having a functional relationship with somebody as well.

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RE: I get so jealous... - 10/17/2008 1:39:37 AM   
Ialdabaoth


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ORIGINAL: pinnipedster

Mainly of all the ads on this site, and some of the content of many bondage-oriented sites.

It just seems there are many, many kinds of bondage I will probably never get to experience, owing to not being female....

I could go on at some length with more detail, but that pretty well sums it up. :)  I am convinced that the Devil does not exist, because he would long ago have tried (and probably succeeded) in trading my soul for the chance to be one of the girls on the House of Gord site, for example....*sigh*



Well, speaking as someone who would easily trade his soul in exchange for the chance to be Gord, I hear where you're coming from.

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RE: I get so jealous... - 10/17/2008 1:50:55 AM   
SailingBum


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Status: offline 		Normally I would advise the OP to man up and quite whining, go out and do it.  In this case however my advice is quit acting like a whining bitch.  Go get your balls chopped off cuz your not using them anyway.

Hope this helps. BadOne

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RE: I get so jealous... - 10/17/2008 2:00:27 AM   
GabrielleSlave


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Status: offline 		Normally when i find something i am jealous of in wiitwd, it is simply because i have found something else i want to try!  i tell Master and if at all possible and if He fancies it Wwe try it - bingo!  Works the other way too, not just coz i have a pussy!  Nuff said.

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RE: I get so jealous... - 10/17/2008 2:11:02 AM   
Ialdabaoth


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ORIGINAL: SailingBum

Normally I would advise the OP to man up and quite whining, go out and do it.  In this case however my advice is quit acting like a whining bitch.  Go get your balls chopped off cuz your not using them anyway.

Hope this helps. BadOne


Well, that's certainly... civil.

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RE: I get so jealous... - 10/17/2008 2:21:50 AM   
SailingBum


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ORIGINAL: Ialdabaoth

quote:

ORIGINAL: SailingBum

Normally I would advise the OP to man up and quite whining, go out and do it.  In this case however my advice is quit acting like a whining bitch.  Go get your balls chopped off cuz your not using them anyway.

Hope this helps. BadOne


Well, that's certainly... civil.



Yanno all this "poor me" crap is enuff to blow a bowl and mellow out.  Ppl that complain Im to fat. thin. short. tall, my mom dress me funny.  Heres a thought get up off your ass and do something about it.  Whatever the issue is.  DO something even if it's wrong you can figure it out along the way.

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RE: I get so jealous... - 10/17/2008 2:34:54 AM   
colouredin


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Status: offline 		oh for crying out loud, sob stories wont endeer you to the opposite sex, do as others have dne get out there and do it

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RE: I get so jealous... - 10/17/2008 3:41:38 AM   
stella41b


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Status: offline 		I hear you pinnipedster, I really do.

I just won Second Prize in some 'Madonna Look A Like' competition which was won by this Nigerian lady.

Sure there's lots of things I'd like to try, but there's also a lot of things I am trying.

John earlier did make a point of getting out more in your local community. What stops you? Are you tied up or something? Maybe if you try someone might rope you in for a bit of bondage.

If you can get to us in Battersea in London I'm sure we can stick fluffy ears on you and make you our bondage bunny. We don't have one. For the next one I did have this idea of draping some pieces of string over a sleeping cat but the cat has disappeared. You can't have everything you want in life.

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RE: I get so jealous... - 10/17/2008 4:21:48 AM   
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RE: I get so jealous... - 10/17/2008 4:57:08 AM   
LATEXBABY64


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Status: offline 		i get jealous cause they have more cars then i have

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RE: I get so jealous... - 10/17/2008 5:26:00 AM   
Chi


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Status: offline 		I make every attempt to be as sensitive as I can in my comments and I hope I am successful in the following. All of life is about challenge and the difficulty of the challenge gives it both substance and reward. The challenge you are facing, is yourself and the question logically following is, do you have substance and deserve reward. If so, action determination and perseverance will grant you what you seek, if not, you will continue soliciting and complaining on the internet. However, you won’t be along, a lot of dommes especially those with gang like mentalities do nothing more the complain on the internet

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RE: I get so jealous... - 10/17/2008 5:26:00 AM   
RedMagic1


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Status: offline 		The question, "What is stopping you from getting into the community and doing it?" is one to consider, and if you try to answer it, posters might be able to help you.  There are serious, material issues, like money for gas if you live in the boonies.  But there are also fantasy-world obstacles we put in our own way sometimes.  For example (and I hope this doesn't drop a nuclear bomb on the thread), pinnipedster, are you willing to be tied up by a woman who weighs more than you do?  A lot of guys are not.

It's a vicious cycle: some guy wants something he's seen online, the reality is that the woman who is interested in providing at least parts of it does not look like the hot chick in the fantasy, so he doesn't engage in real life, and engrosses himself more in online.

Then there's the fact that if a woman loves you or cares about you, and is at all kinky, she'll do an awful lot of things to please you, even if she's a dom.  Cuz, ya know, even doms feel good when they please people they care about.  Focus on the relationship, and the wacky experimental bodage will arrive like a Christmas present.


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RE: I get so jealous... - 10/17/2008 5:42:14 AM   
OttersSwim


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Status: offline 		Yea, I wonder if the OPs intent was bemoaning the fact that he was not female?  Was it only the bondage that you are missing?

There are realities in this world, and we have to acknowledge them and not let them stop us from doing whatever we can to be happy.

I will NEVER look like Brittney Spears - even with surgery.  Neither will most women on the planet, and they typically face down this fact by the time they are 13.  They go on to be the best darn female (OMG, I'm Sara Palin! ) they can - in spite of the magazine models and society pressures to be thin and beautiful and blonde and and and ad nausea...

And so, that is the least we can do too, IMO.  Be the best darn female/male/whatever we identify as and take life by the horns and make it give us what we want!  So if you want to be a pony, then go out there and be the best pony you can be!  Hit the gym, loose weight, get surgery if you feel so called, and find what you want!  If you want special types of bondage, then do what you need to do to attract the person who is also into that!

Sit down, make a list, and set some goals!  You too, can be happy...oh ya! 


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RE: I get so jealous... - 10/17/2008 5:43:42 AM   
chamberqueen


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Status: offline 		I had to smile at the post because sometimes women feel jealous of men for the same basic reason.  While man think that gender doesn't matter between top and bottom, I have found (having been a Domme) that there is a very special relationship between male subs and their Dommes, and that they get spoiled in a way that most female subs don't.  Look for those positives, and chin up.  : )

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