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DesFIP -> RE: I'm an idiot. (10/11/2008 6:44:15 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: NuevaVida You were invited in. If she wants to be upset about people entering, she can direct it toward the one inviting other people in. A misunderstanding does not make you an ass, although I can imagine you feel awkward. But I'd suggest letting it go - you did not intentionally interfere, and took it upon good faith that the man beside her, who invited you, was authorized to do so. What she said. You were invited in, how were you to know the guy standing next to her didn't have the right to do so? Next time she ought to tell the guy she's with that she doesn't want anybody coming close in.

NumberSix -> RE: I'm an idiot. (10/11/2008 6:50:01 PM)
Young teacher the subject Of schoolgirl fantasy She wants him so badly Knows what she wants to be Inside her there's longing This girl's an open page Book marking She's so close now This girl is half his age Don't stand to close to me Her friends are so jealous You know how bad girls get Sometimes it's not so easy To be the teacher's pet Temptation, frustration So bad it makes him cry Wet bus stop, whe's waiting His car is warm and dry Don't stand so close to me Loose talk in the classroom To hurt they try and try Strong words in the staffroom The accusations fly It's no use He sees her He starts to shake he starts to cough Just like the old man in That famous book by Nabakov Don't stand so close to me you may be an idiot, but you got potential, kid. The Cops edited the picture, got in there by mistake

slaveluci -> RE: I'm an idiot. (10/11/2008 7:25:31 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Evility Someone playing in public said all the people ruined the scene. I love it. Dontcha now? "Well, we would play in private but all these damn bothersome people wouldn't get to see." [image]http://www.collarchat.com/upfiles/smiley/gaah.gif[/image] [image]http://www.collarchat.com/upfiles/smiley/wtf.gif[/image] luci

zakkan -> RE: I'm an idiot. (10/11/2008 9:45:17 PM)
Maybe she should get a blindfold [:D]

Viridana -> RE: I'm an idiot. (10/11/2008 11:43:26 PM)
If people are doing things publicly, be prepared that other people are going to watch. If you find it bothersome in some way that people are watching, then don't f*cking do it in public.

ResidentSadist -> RE: I'm an idiot. (10/12/2008 1:50:35 AM)
From what you say in the OP, I don’t think you did anything that violated protocol imo. I think I would have asked the Dom for permission to give the sub some cheese with that whine. Complaining about the presence of the public in a public scene,,,, seriously, you are joking? I suppose if they were on stage the sub would have complained about the applause? I understand the set up and that you said “semi private rooms” but that is what they got, semi private. They were not on view to the whole club. If they wanted private they should have gone to a hotel or stayed home.

stella41b -> RE: I'm an idiot. (10/12/2008 3:00:35 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Evility Someone playing in public said all the people ruined the scene. I love it. My take too. No further comment.

tweedydaddy -> RE: I'm an idiot. (10/12/2008 3:05:02 AM)
If she didn't want to play in public, why was she playing in front of other people? You don't shower in a phone box do you?

DarkSteven -> RE: I'm an idiot. (10/12/2008 4:33:49 AM)
She's a whiner. Someone with a better attitude would have said, "I learned something today. Scenes are better for me with fewer people watching."

SoulPiercer -> RE: I'm an idiot. (10/12/2008 4:45:55 AM)
After much thought (all of 3 seconds), I agree with the general consensus. You shouldn't feel like an idiot. Is a "scene" still a scene if no one is there to see it? Thus a scene with no audience would be no scene at all and therefore ruined.

myotherself -> RE: I'm an idiot. (10/12/2008 4:57:40 AM)
I've only played in public once, and yes I was slightly put off by people watching. BUT I did expect it, and if I was worried at all about it then it's my problem to deal with! Some things I wasn't prepared to do in front of an audience and my Top knew that and stuck to the boundaries. This woman clearly either doesn't understand public play and how it works, or she doesn't ever talk to her Top....or both! Forget it - you did nothing wrong. [:)]

WhiplashSmile2 -> RE: I'm an idiot. (10/12/2008 6:40:20 AM)
Lynnxz, thank god there's a big difference between feeling like a jackass and being one. In all honestly, you're probally one of the last people on this message board I'd ever think would be a jackass. Then again, we all have jackass potential. You had no idea that it was ruining the scene. The guy who invited you into the room is the responsible party, he should feel like a jackass. If anything, they should have had somebody watching the door and playing bouncer and keeping people out of the room. It's just the common sense thing to do, to have safeguards and measures in place. You had no idea that you were violating somebody's private space. You were waved and motioned to enter. You were invited to come on in. No need to kick yourself in the ass and feel aweful about this.

stella41b -> RE: I'm an idiot. (10/12/2008 7:15:57 AM)
A domme at night, and subbie boy Playing in public space with kinksters all round And plenty of toys Clothes too tight, something not right Not happy with people watching, but no fights No place for beginners or people to watch Common sense is left to chance They blame the audience but still they start No need to ask These are rude operators Rude operators Rude operators Rude operators Coast to coast, Domcon to Chicago Folsom again Across the North and down to Key Largo At every scene Face to face, public play space A dragon's tail from the toybox Just misses someone's face Inhibitions come up, and nothing more works They turn and call the audience all jerks But they themselves look like prize berks No need to ask They are rude operators Rude operators Rude operators Rude operators Coast to coast, Domcon to Chicago Folsom again Across the North and down to Key Largo At every scene Rude operators Rude operators Rude operators Rude operators (repeat to fade) apologies to Sade.

DarkSteven -> RE: I'm an idiot. (10/12/2008 9:36:05 AM)
Stella, you have talent. Lots.

NuevaVida -> RE: I'm an idiot. (10/12/2008 10:44:19 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: DarkSteven Stella, you have talent. Lots. Seconds this.

ResidentSadist -> RE: I'm an idiot. (10/12/2008 1:12:40 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: tweedydaddy You don't shower in a phone box do you? [sm=writing.gif] adding this to my bucket list.

auburnvixen -> RE: I'm an idiot. (10/12/2008 6:17:37 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: stella41b These are rude operators Rude operators Rude operators Rude operators Kudos to stella!

LATEXBABY64 -> RE: I'm an idiot. (10/12/2008 7:18:58 PM)
ok this is stupid public is public what part of that is hard to get shrugs i guess some people need prozac

RCdc -> RE: I'm an idiot. (10/13/2008 2:20:16 AM)
The s-type was the one in the wrong, not you Lynn She should have arranged her boundaries before the play. You have nothing to feel an idiot about. the.dark.

kyraofMists -> RE: I'm an idiot. (10/13/2008 9:59:56 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Lynnxz but later we overheard her saying all the people in the room ruined the scene. I think there were maybe 8-9 people total who came in and out. Lynnxz, I have to agree with the others, that you did not do anything wrong. In regards to the idea that the other girl was in the wrong, it is my opinion that we don't have near enough information to make that kind of judgement. It was an overheard comment without any context. I love playing in public. I enjoy the energy of the space the different furniture that we get to play on. However, despite how much I enjoy it there are times that the people around the area fuck up my headspace or send it in a direction that I don't enjoy. The times this has happened, I don't know until I am in the middle of it and sometimes I am not cognizant enough to clearly communicate what the issue is. As long as these people are not violating the rules of the dungeon then they have done nothing wrong, but neither have I. It isn't a matter of blame; it is just the consequences of playing. Somethings things go fantastic and other times they don't. Sometimes things outside of our control fuck up the experience for us and other times they add to it. It doesn't make it anyone's fault. Knight's Kyra

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