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shewhoserves -> Curious about OnLine Slavery (10/6/2008 2:18:12 AM)

hello

  i been here a few weeks now, and i was wondering how online slavery works, can one truly be a slave without the Human contact?  just curious! 
                                                                       thank You




MasterFireMaam -> RE: Curious about OnLine Slavery (10/6/2008 2:21:34 AM)

Depends on the person. If this is purely a mental/emotional activity for you, then yes. If it needs to include some sort of physical interaction, then no.

Master Fire




mypassion -> RE: Curious about OnLine Slavery (10/6/2008 2:46:03 AM)

Personally I feel that for any healthy relationship to exist there has to be at least some sort of physical contact. So, no I don't believe so.

But hey, thats just me.




marieToo -> RE: Curious about OnLine Slavery (10/6/2008 2:58:11 AM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: shewhoserves

hello

i been here a few weeks now, and i was wondering how online slavery works, can one truly be a slave without the Human contact?  just curious! 
                                                                      thank You



It isn't my thing, but sure, I think people can and do enjoy relationships of this nature, without the physical touch.




RCdc -> RE: Curious about OnLine Slavery (10/6/2008 3:05:08 AM)

Plenty of slaves existed before without any contact with their owners.
Meh.
 
the.dark.




Aileen1968 -> RE: Curious about OnLine Slavery (10/6/2008 3:44:15 AM)

It's kind of a little like Sims.  If that's your thing...




SrchngCpl73112 -> RE: Curious about OnLine Slavery (10/6/2008 7:23:50 AM)

It's definitely not for me.  I have to have some kind of physical interaction, but to each his/her own.  It happens alot apparantly.




bound4more -> RE: Curious about OnLine Slavery (10/6/2008 9:08:33 AM)

I think we can be anything at all we want to be as long as we accept its limitations. For me, online would never be enough.




UmbraDomina -> RE: Curious about OnLine Slavery (10/6/2008 9:10:53 AM)

for me online is not a releationship, but more interactive erotica. It would never work for me, I expect a slave to serve me coffee in the mornings, not type about serving me.




RealSub58 -> RE: Curious about OnLine Slavery (10/6/2008 9:17:11 AM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: shewhoserves

hello

i been here a few weeks now, and i was wondering how online slavery works, can one truly be a slave without the Human contact?  just curious! 
                                                                      thank You


"Seeking more the mental, emotional side of Domination".

Mental and emotional domination/control can be acheived other than on line without any of the other human touch thrown in.  Control cannot happen unless there is trust and alot of honesty, which I, personally, feel is quite ambiguous on line.   JMHO 




softness -> RE: Curious about OnLine Slavery (10/6/2008 11:00:10 AM)

online ... or cyber?

in a world where consensul slavery is an abstract notion made concrete between individuals .... slavery can actually be anything two people agree it is ... and no one else's opinion really matters unless the people involved want it to.




CallaFirestormBW -> RE: Curious about OnLine Slavery (10/6/2008 12:08:25 PM)

I can't speak in general, but I can tell you that I don't keep online servants specifically because my kink is blood -- and I can't smell/taste/touch/draw blood on a computer screen, so I am completely not interested.

Firestorm




Stroke -> RE: Curious about OnLine Slavery (10/6/2008 12:18:15 PM)

It depends completely upon those involved in the "relationship". If it is treated as simply online then it has distinct limitations which does work for some. If it is viewed as a long distance relationship then it leaves open the possibility of being together for visits, thereby taking the relationship to another level.




justgemmie -> RE: Curious about OnLine Slavery (10/6/2008 12:31:11 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: shewhoserves

hello

i been here a few weeks now, and i was wondering how online slavery works, can one truly be a slave without the Human contact?  just curious! 
                                                                     thank You


greetings she :)

it won't work if what people think on a message board makes a difference to the online slave (or Master for that matter).  folks can get pretty mean in their response to *i have a question/problem/dilemna* and after reading all about it, finding out that person is "online only" and not "real."  lots (not all) of folks will eat them alive for that.

well wishes,
gemmie




CelticPrince -> RE: Curious about OnLine Slavery (10/6/2008 12:48:12 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: shewhoserves

hello

i been here a few weeks now, and i was wondering how online slavery works, can one truly be a slave without the Human contact?  just curious! 
                                                                      thank You


she,

it works best as a precursor for real time. One gets a glimpse at what drives the other side of the slash and saves time when real time.

There are those that must stay on line only for their own reasons and thus it is the mind that is what enjoys the nourishment.

CP




shewhoserves -> RE: Curious about OnLine Slavery (10/7/2008 1:47:15 AM)

thank You All,
i feel the same as most here, without the Human contact too much would be missing. i guess some are ok with this type of relationship. chat email is a bit of a small gateway for 'the get to know eachother stage' as long as a real meet is the Goal for both,      thanx again [:)]




tweedydaddy -> RE: Curious about OnLine Slavery (10/7/2008 2:08:57 AM)

If online slavery works for you, why not cut out the middle man and just buy a dominant computer programme? I'm sure there is one somewhere.




Stroke -> RE: Curious about OnLine Slavery (10/7/2008 6:42:04 AM)

For many, online is how they first became familiar with slavery. There is alot of good information that you can gather while experimenting with what online has to offer. Good luck on your journey. 




leadership527 -> RE: Curious about OnLine Slavery (10/7/2008 6:50:21 AM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: shewhoserves
i been here a few weeks now, and i was wondering how online slavery works, can one truly be a slave without the Human contact?  just curious! 
                                                                      thank You


Here's my take.  Individuals, of course, will never fit into any generic sort of statements such as these. 

There is no definition for the word "slave".  So yes, you can be "something" without direct human contact.  Being a little more specific let's look at the 3 elements of BDSM.

BD:  Yup, this carries to some degree over an indirect communication channel.  With some fair amount of attenuation, you can do this over the internet or telephone.
SM:  Nope, not at all.  No current communication technology carries the right sort of data... pain impulses, the smell of the sub's sweat, etc.
DS:  The mental parts of this carry quite well over the internet.  The physical parts less well.

OK, so the bottom line is that you can explore D/s pretty thoroughly (assuming you can find a non-flake partner to do so with) over the internet.  You can only explore BD a bit.  You can't really explore SM at all.  Also, of important note is that even on the D/s thing, you can only go as far as the trust levels allow and it's really hard to see how I could trust someone I've never met face to face who has an entire life outside of what I know and interact with as much as I trust the woman who's lived with me for 13 years.  There's a natural limiting factor there.




ranja -> RE: Curious about OnLine Slavery (10/7/2008 7:12:19 AM)

in reply to leadership, i like your take on this not many people really understand the possibilities.
Pain can be a part too, the slave has to be quite careful with itself though as their safetynet is limited obviously
Most people who play this way need video link or at least photographs but not all.
It all depends on which two people play the game; their imagination, trust and interaction can make it mind blowing or a total dissapointment...just like rt really
Some people have no choice but to play in cyber only, some are very very skilled at it indeed.




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