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LadyKatheryn -> RE: Curious about OnLine Slavery (10/7/2008 9:13:58 AM)

I agree with CP.  I have both online and r/t slaves and what works for one does not work with another.  It works for getting to know who you are dealing with and get an idea of what to work on with the D/s relationship.  It is also a good way to get started and "feel" each other out and see if there is a connection.  It is also a good way to determine if the s is psycho (which has actually happened - guy offered to off his wife, sell everything and move from the UK to Canada to be a 24/7 r/t for me...this after only a few discussions and I gave him a chastity task to complete for me; I would have to say off his rocker!!! Glad I never agreed to an r/t session cause it could have ended up badly).  I have had a number of slaves approach me saying that they have had bad experiences with previous Dommes so this is a good way for them to build up a trust before the r/t begins.  It just depends on the D and the s that are involved in the relationship.  What works for one may not work for another!

Lady Kathryn



masterforRT -> RE: Curious about OnLine Slavery (10/7/2008 10:09:10 AM)

I think that slavery is a state of mind for some. Those people can become online slaves easily.



IrishMist -> RE: Curious about OnLine Slavery (10/7/2008 10:26:18 AM)

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ORIGINAL: tweedydaddy

If online slavery works for you, why not cut out the middle man and just buy a dominant computer programme? I'm sure there is one somewhere.

fuck

I spit coffee and food everywhere

A little warning next time please [8D]



softness -> RE: Curious about OnLine Slavery (10/7/2008 10:34:33 AM)

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ORIGINAL: tweedydaddy

If online slavery works for you, why not cut out the middle man and just buy a dominant computer programme? I'm sure there is one somewhere.


If mass sweaping and ignorant statements work for you ... try writing for the Daily Mail ... I hear they are recruiting this time of year




missturbation -> RE: Curious about OnLine Slavery (10/7/2008 10:39:27 AM)

Sheesh, coffee spilling and spittage much.
Now i have to get up and dressed, my pjs are wet [:'(]
 
Good girl, my ass !!



HotMistress22 -> RE: Curious about OnLine Slavery (10/7/2008 10:41:37 AM)

I think online is a great way to start.  Time reveals much about a person.  In the end, I prefer hands-on, up close and personal.  Everyone is different and it works for some, maybe because that's all they can have at the time.  I have a few close subs/slaves that I have never met in person but we are the best of friends and share a special connection.  It would be fabulous to meet them someday.  We'll see.  Good luck to you.

HM



softness -> RE: Curious about OnLine Slavery (10/7/2008 10:42:11 AM)

I *am* a good girl ... I have a certificate somewhere saying so!



leadership527 -> RE: Curious about OnLine Slavery (10/7/2008 10:43:58 AM)

*laughs*  In any given conversation, someone, somehow, will pop up with the one twu way attitude.  "online slavery" is a favorite whipping post for this site.  Everyone has to have someone else to demean in order to feel good about themselves and, well, there ya go.

The truth of the matter is that there is no virtual reality.  There is only reality.  The internet is nothing more than a communication medium across which certain types of data are transmitted... much like snail mail, the telephone system, or just plain old atmosphere for those up close and personal types.  Each communication medium has it's own strengths and weaknesses.  They are all 100% real.  Understanding the tools at your disposal and maximizing their strengths while minimizing their weaknesses is really all that matters.



IrishMist -> RE: Curious about OnLine Slavery (10/7/2008 10:43:59 AM)

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ORIGINAL: softness

I *am* a good girl ... I have a certificate somewhere saying so!


Ahhh...BUT...did you get your certificate at the 'Good Girl School'? AND, is it....notarized?

[:o]



missturbation -> RE: Curious about OnLine Slavery (10/7/2008 10:46:41 AM)

Ahhh...BUT...did you get your certificate at the 'Good Girl School'? AND, is it....notarized?


She's lieing and nope she didn't as i'd remember her.
I have after all been enrolled there for oh about 30 years. Just can't quite seem to graduate with honours [;)]



IrishMist -> RE: Curious about OnLine Slavery (10/7/2008 10:50:40 AM)

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Just can't quite seem to graduate with honours [;)]

LMAO that's because you are minoring in Bad Girl Techniques [:D]



softness -> RE: Curious about OnLine Slavery (10/7/2008 10:51:33 AM)

Graduate with honours? ... pah! .... you're still trying to find Time Keeping 101



sailorfrank -> RE: Curious about OnLine Slavery (10/7/2008 12:41:23 PM)

   on-line stuff does give you a warm fuzzy feeling but it doesnt give you what you need and want.   We all need/want a human touch to make it complete!

  As for me I get so damn frustrated flogging my Monitor. It doesnt re-act properly!??[:D]



shewhoserves -> RE: Curious about OnLine Slavery (10/7/2008 5:34:50 PM)

good girl certificate? where can i get one of those?
i only graduated in the badgirl academy..........with honors[8|]



lilmisssubmiss -> RE: Curious about OnLine Slavery (10/7/2008 6:25:29 PM)

Lol like the sims, that's funny but true to a point.
Sure, it can. Just like how any long distance relationship works if a husband goes to war etc.
Being online is great it gives you a true foundation and you have so much to build on when you actually meet them, if you get to know them well enough you know what eachother want and in the long run might be saving time so you know you aren't wasting eachothers time. It's a lot easier to get to know someone online and figure out you aren't compatiable than figure it out irl sometimes.
Then again some relationships hwere you are totally compatible online don't work once you meet irl....it really depends on the situation and relationship the  people hold.



shewhoserves -> RE: Curious about OnLine Slavery (10/9/2008 1:36:54 AM)

Again  thank You All for Your taughts on this matter, [:)]



shewhoserves -> RE: Curious about OnLine Slavery (10/10/2008 5:53:23 AM)

i was in a chatroom a lil while ago and a Dom was whipping a sub, now how can that be? she was typing the 'ouch' and all that, hmmm  did she actually feel the whip? i cant understand at all!



CookieSlave -> RE: Curious about OnLine Slavery (10/10/2008 10:41:31 AM)

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ORIGINAL: shewhoserves

i was in a chatroom a lil while ago and a Dom was whipping a sub, now how can that be? she was typing the 'ouch' and all that, hmmm  did she actually feel the whip? i cant understand at all!

Well.. I try not to be judgemental, because I don't know what goes on with someone's specific situation.  I would think that a certain level of  roleplay is involved.  As far as whether or not she actually felt the whip.. hypnosis, guided imagery, or just a damn good imagination could certainly substitute for the lack of physical proximity.  And really, depending on the individual, I don't see why they couldn't exist within the same mental/emotional state. 

It aggravates me when people assume that "online" isn't real.  I beg to differ.  Having been "online" for 20years or so, I have made friends, met significant others, held down a full-time job, shopped, paid bills - all online!  The fact that I've done these things online doesn't lessen their significance or their impact, it just changes the methods. The fact that I pay my car insurance online doesn't devalue my payment, and it doesn't make it "fake" or a "fantasy payment" - it's just another payment. ;-)

I have a friend who moved far out of the area, and we don't see each other anymore.  We now keep in touch mostly through emails and phone.  This doesn't lessen how I feel about his friendship or change my affection for him, just because he's now "online".   Sometimes "online" is a stepping stone to other things, sometimes it just is whatever it  is.  Granted, when you're talking about some of the things we are talking about here, the water gets a little muddier.  Less physical, more mental but it's still the same lifestyle.  And no, I don't expect everyone to agree with me. ;-)

--cs



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