sistermargaret
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Joined: 8/8/2008 Status: offline
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i like the cookbook idea, so i Googled 'apple pie'. There are 6,850,000 sites for apple pie, so without looking any of them up (i already make a mean apple pie, thank you) i'm pretty sure there are a few million more ways of making BDSM. Not everyone is going to bother with internal enslavement as a whole, 'that's all i'm gonna do' sort of thing, and everyone who dabbles in it is going to put their own flair on it. Master A might only want to do parts 2 &3, Master B may only like parts 1&2. And i won't even bother to mention the SAMs and Brats who flat out won't do any of it that they don't want. (See threads devoted to 'Why can't i control my subbie?') Like all the rest of the 'how to' stuff, take what you need and dump the rest. As to the ethics of it, the REAL abusers already do this and a whole lot more that we ethical kinksters couldn't even come up with. So, arguing about the ethics of it is just a lot of typing, IMO. Abusers will abuse, victims will be victimized and each seeks the other, with or without kink. sm All it takes is absolute surrender
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