NorthernGent
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Nothing unusual there, slaveboy....that's us in a nutshell. We don't even begin to broach the subject of sex.....and we prefer the company of rats over humans......how we manage to reproduce is one of the great mysteries of the Western world. I think that's common in all Anglo-Saxon culture. I was raised in a non-practicing Methodist, Anglo-Saxon family. I never had the "birds and bees" discussion with my parents, and it makes me uncomfortable to this day to watch a film with any degree of sexuality with my mother or other female relatives. We didn't hug or show affection for one another. But alcohol consumption is a must for any occasion. I don't consider it a healthy way of living, but it is what it is. I can relate to some of that, slaveboy. My family are methodists, too. Yet English Protestantism is quintessentially English. It's short on dogma, and long on "just keep your nose clean and it should pan out fine". In actual fact, we're sexually liberal over here.......I mean, Dogging is just catching on in other parts of the world, but in England we've been turning up in car parks and fucking strangers since the invention of cars. When one of our politicians is caught in some brothel or dungeon, it's only to be expected. With the English, it's more a case of 'a time and a place' and we're obsessed with privacy. I agree that sex and family do not mix.......but that doesn't equate to sexual repression....as said, it's more a case of 'a time and a place', privacy and respect for your family. Everything has its order; including sex. To add, my family are very close and very affectionate...and my Mother doesn't touch alcohol, nor do my Grandparents......"Mother's ruin" is the phrase over here, and my family adhere to that. Furthermore, Methodism, English style, was actually formed in part as a solution to the alcoholism of the 18th century; the idea was that inner salvation lies in a pious, controlled lifestyle rather than the waste and spiral of self-destruction that was alcohol.
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