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RE: Thankyou SimplyMicheal - 9/29/2008 3:06:01 PM

Lockit

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I didn't realize that being dominant entitled one to taste of anyone we wanted to bite or lick! What utter foolishness! Now, there is a passive aggressive ego if I ever saw one! To be denied and then to lash out, finding fault with the one so desired. lol People never fail to amaze me... thank the powers that be... that some of those amazements are good! lol

As for the misunderstanding Simply Michael... that could be understood, but still, I think it would take a bit more before one would go from what was said, to actually doing it. Granted, I have never played publically and I doubt I ever will... but... I would assume that it should take a bit more communication before someone jumped in and actually took over and if not allowed, attacked with words. No matter how I see this... the dominant, no matter how well versed in things, was out of order and proves that just because one is good at some kink or other, isn't always a great person with honor intact.

This is in some way, why I got out of the swingers groups I was around many years ago. Just because I liked things that we did, didn't mean I liked them with anyone and those ego's... more like... men who just wanted sex in any form they could get it with anyone they could get it from... were a major turn off and have kept me sickened at the thought of running into those types again. Thus... my hesitancy to get involved with bdsm groups.

It is nice to see people who stand up for what is right. There seem to be a number of those people around here... But still always nice to see!

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RE: Thankyou SimplyMicheal - 9/29/2008 3:31:33 PM

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ORIGINAL: DesFIP

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its not that much better if you *are* bisexual. then you get "then why dont you wanna do me and my g/f?" um, cause i am not attracted to just anything that breathes?

or as the great saying goes, "i'm poly and bi. that still doesnt mean i'm going to sleep with you!"

kitten

I'm straight. That doesn't mean I do anything in pants. Some people just wouldn't get a clue if you hit them over the head with it.

~thank you for much for the laughter, I swear I am ordering this t-shirt for the next time I attend a dungeon party. People can be incredibly rude, even with posted rules hanging in the dungeon that state--DO NOT TOUCH WITHOUT PERMISSION-- I have been pawed and cornered many a time. Reporting them just means you are not playing the new meat game and you are a tattletale.

So, I finally just asked the new husband to hover and to growl whenever a pushy dominant gets in my personal space. It's amazing how quickly they back off when someone points out their rudeness. So, whatever works. We are newly weds and we have decided that being monogamous works just fine for us.

be well,
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RE: Thankyou SimplyMicheal - 9/29/2008 4:10:20 PM

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This is also why I stopped actively seeking in the BDSM community. I've reached a point where I just got tired of having to explain myself, and so now I just don't bother.

Dear sister....
i'm EXHAUSTED by having to explain myself. At the moment i'm a straight monogamous slave. i say this because of course what i am is up to my Master.
i think i'll just repeat that once more; what i am is decided by my master. Not a playing out of roles. Not a fantasy but yes what i am is p to Him. How's that for a lifestyle choice?
Just last might i was trying (yet again) to explain myself to some very very dear friends. Two women i have known through some pretty difficult times of theirs; south Africans who have gone through bitter divorces both of them and they both want to go back to South Africa. their preferred culture and preferred orientations are not in any way similar to mine. But there was a point during the conversation where they both needed to pigeon-hole me and tie me to a reference that made sense to them in their terms.
i did suddenly realise that for them it would be a total; travesty if any man came near them with a whip or a cane. i did realise that they want 'equal partners': to be making decisions jointly on all issues in or out of the bedroom. i just got to that point where, in trying to explain myself sounded a bit crazy in my own ears and then really had to stop. because explaining oneself to others so that they understand is one thing, but changing what one says about oneself so that others are all in agreement that it is ok is quite another.
i am not concerned if it's ok to others. i answer to one person at the moment.
so; i am a monogamous straight female slave....is that ok everyone???
PS i'll come and fix your bathroom ceiling, it's something i'm also good at doing despite the stereotype.

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