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WhiplashSmile2 -> RE: Thoughts? (9/29/2008 4:25:23 AM)
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I know my advice here might be a little off the beaten path compared to what other people are suggesting.
First and foremost, since he's agreed to explore this. You need to be patient with him and understand that he has to work past some social conditioning about it being wrong to slap girls, pull their hair and call them dirty names.
He needs to take one step at a time in a pace he's comfortable with. I think it would be fair of you to give him and chance with this, be patient and do a lot of communicating.
You have to see where everything goes, one day at a time. He's going to want some feedback and reassurance from you in the process.
There's only one way to find out, and that is to give it a try and don't give up easy about it. It might take some time and a little work, he just might suprise you. It's difficult to tell, nobody honestly owns a crystal ball. Nobody on this website honestly knows him nor you well enough to be able to pass a judgement about what is right/wrong.
I'm just expressing a positive two thumbs up and I support you guys making a go of this. However, don't get discouraged too quickly or have super high expectations that add pressure to things. Take things one step at a time, and let the journey begin.
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