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RE: talk dirty to me - 9/4/2008 12:48:50 PM

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RE: talk dirty to me - 9/4/2008 1:51:25 PM

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It's always made me feel good to hear things like the following:

"Use me, my Sir...fuck your cunt or your mouth or your ass...just USE me, please." Then, with her voice dropping to a softer level "I need you to..."

When she has come to me and smiled and whispered in my ear "please Daddy...i want to suck your cock and make it big and hard so it fills my mouth".

When she's come to me and looked me in the eyes, smiling as she begins to undo my belt and said "I need a good beltwhipping, Sir...please, could you whip your girl? I've been sooooooooo bad lately..." Then, if I have agreed and have positioned her and have started, that first groan and statement such as "Godddddddd! yes...again, please Sir..." and while she is still there and not off in "floatsville", she looks back with that kind of hazy but still aware look and says "Oh God, thank you Sir...i am sooooooooo glad you agreed i needed this. More...please, please, please? i've been very bad...". (Now, thanks to LAs thread yesterday, I can now think of this as "funishment" for a naughty girl )

That's the key right there for Me. That little pronoun makes all of the difference in the world. Saying he's a slut does nothing for Me. Saying he's MY slut, that's a whole new ballgame.

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RE: talk dirty to me - 9/4/2008 2:12:16 PM

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pant pant :p Yes! Yessssssssssssssssss! More! i need more!
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RE: talk dirty to me - 9/4/2008 2:17:02 PM

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I've had a sweet young girl say some stuff that was so vile it stopped me in my tracks.

There was a prepositional phrase that included the words 'ground beef'. The sheer randomness of her...request took away from me being turned on and made me question the poetic imagry being used.

While the unexpected and...exotic can be good, it can also be quite distracting and - well, bewildering.

I'd suggest you keep your dirty talking to the more common phrases because the more creative they get, the more of a chance they will confuse your partner rather than stimulate him...at least until he knows to expect it.

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RE: talk dirty to me - 9/4/2008 4:29:42 PM

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C'mon, there's got to be more of you out there with suggestions, or do I just keep reading my own contribution?

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RE: talk dirty to me - 9/4/2008 4:34:20 PM

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sistermargaret, just a suggestion. Check with him before assuming he wants dirty talk from you.

Some of us Doms don't like the usual. For example, I prefer unshaven genitals, and do not like piercings and tattoos.

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RE: talk dirty to me - 9/4/2008 4:56:18 PM

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Oh MY!! ...... It suddenly got very warm in here, Creative Sir!

I love to hear The Voice....describing what he's going to do to me...in great nasty detail......
LOL...i think i'll come back to this thread later....i feel the need for a "personal" moment"

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ORIGINAL: CreativeDominant

It's always made me feel good to hear things like the following:

"Use me, my Sir...fuck your cunt or your mouth or your ass...just USE me, please." Then, with her voice dropping to a softer level "I need you to..."

When she has come to me and smiled and whispered in my ear "please Daddy...i want to suck your cock and make it big and hard so it fills my mouth".

When she's come to me and looked me in the eyes, smiling as she begins to undo my belt and said "I need a good beltwhipping, Sir...please, could you whip your girl? I've been sooooooooo bad lately..." Then, if I have agreed and have positioned her and have started, that first groan and statement such as "Godddddddd! yes...again, please Sir..." and while she is still there and not off in "floatsville", she looks back with that kind of hazy but still aware look and says "Oh God, thank you Sir...i am sooooooooo glad you agreed i needed this. More...please, please, please? i've been very bad...". (Now, thanks to LAs thread yesterday, I can now think of this as "funishment" for a naughty girl )

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RE: talk dirty to me - 9/4/2008 5:35:08 PM

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This was a great and very helpful thread for me . . . i have a similar problem. Except for me it's not so much not knowing what to say (well, that's part of it), but more that i feel incredibly stupid when i talk dirty. Up to now, Master has asked me questions and then made me repeat the answer (like "do you like My Big Black Cock?", "Yes Master, i love Your Big Black Cock"), but Master has recently told me that He wishes i would say things more spontaneously without having to be told to say them. i do know this is a mental block i'm having, i just don't really know how to get over it . . . any help would be appreciated, thanks

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RE: talk dirty to me - 9/4/2008 6:16:46 PM

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just a suggestion. Check with him before assuming he wants dirty talk from you.

i understand what You are saying. One of the things He likes best about me is that i'm not a potty mouth. i'm PG all the time, out of habit. He says i'm just a little girl, but, ya know, sometimes a well placed phrase is nice and might dispell the idea that i'm a prude, for me i suppose, rather than for Him. He's saying all this hot sexy stuff and i just giggle and blush. i'd love to respond with something hot & sexy once in a while. Thanks everyone, these are wonderful suggestions and most helpful for all!
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RE: talk dirty to me - 9/4/2008 6:19:28 PM

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Amazing, isn't it? Especially when so many folks who belong to this site have a great affinity to cyber and phone sex.

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ORIGINAL: CalifChick

C'mon, there's got to be more of you out there with suggestions, or do I just keep reading my own contribution?

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RE: talk dirty to me - 9/4/2008 7:05:37 PM

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(buzzzzzzzzz) Oops, sorry, was that too loud? *looks around innocently.....*

But seriously......if He likes you to be PG- then see if He does like those words coming out of your sweet lips in a softer tone? Or does He want the protest "But Sir, i am not a dirty slut.......i am good for You". :)

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RE: talk dirty to me - 9/4/2008 8:00:30 PM

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What are your dirtiest, most perverse, unspoken fantasies? The ones you are sure that if you ever told another living soul you'd be exiled from the human race...
Tell him about those.. Not during sex but during an intimate conversation.. Don't be afraid to let him know that these are not necessarily things you'd like to make come true.. Another thing to try is to weave a tale for him.. Describe in vivid detail the entire scenario from your perspective and maybe from his...
You will be amazed at what good practice these two things can be when it's "game time".

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RE: talk dirty to me - 9/4/2008 8:41:03 PM

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To the OP...If you find words difficult..you could simply go for the intonation..You could make something as prosaic as "I need to do the laundry tonight" sound highly erotic if it is said with with a breathless voice, lips moist and parted, eyes at half mast, with an occasional catch in your delivery...or you could try the wide innocent eyes, with your lips in a slight pout and then your tongue going slowly over your own mouth..and say something as simple as "Oh Sir!"...trust me, sometimes its not the words but the delivery ......Tempting

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RE: talk dirty to me - 9/5/2008 12:55:23 PM

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RE: talk dirty to me - 9/5/2008 1:09:35 PM

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Does he want you to talk dirty to him? Some like a woman that can handle them talking dirty but is still a complete lady. If he is that type then when he says something like, "you're my little whore and that ass is mine", he will likely enjoy a "yes Master" more than a "I like it when you fuck me like you own me". Anything involving and supporting his dominance even if it is not "dirty" will likely make him happy.

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I just realized that this was broached. I didn't notice a second page. Anyway, still good advice I think.

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RE: talk dirty to me - 9/5/2008 1:20:37 PM

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i'm new to the world of D/s and i'm having the very best time of my life. Some of you might remember what it is like to be in your very first RT (hopefully last) D/s relationship and know i'm not really such a dork, but some stuff i just don't know.
i love it when Master talks dirty to me. No one has ever done that with me and i think He'd like me to respond in kind. Well, i can't be a parrot and just repeat what He says, lol. But i am totally clueless on what to say to Him. i get all quiet and shy, and sometimes i studder, but i'd love to just blert out something totally HOT.
Any suggestions? What would a dignified, confident, sexy, sadistic Master like to hear? What would you say in the heat of the moment?
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If you are naturally shy and/or reserved - and he likes that about you - he may not respond the way you want or expect, if you change too drastically.

Just be yourself, but be transparent in an honest open way that expresses what you need or desire from him. So as not to step outside of his vision of you as a little girl,

Try confessing to him things like,

I was so embarassed today Master. I thought about you at (work/the restraurant etc.) and when I stood up there was a wet spot on the chair.

Or asking him out of the blue questions like,
Is it normal for my clit (Or word you would normally use) to throb just thinking about you?

Or blurting out in a quiet shy voice,
Oh Master, I'm so horny right now.
Oh Master, I'm so hungry for you right now.

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RE: talk dirty to me - 9/5/2008 1:21:26 PM

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the best sex organ is not whats between your legs it what is found between your ears .For me i love to be whispered to , more so if bound and in some form of deprivation removing some ability like sight or smell .My other weakness would be a foreign language , i do not speak fluent German or french but if a woman whispers that to me i seem to turn into Gomez from the Adams family and can so relate to him saying Ooooh Mortishia Moi Cheri .

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RE: talk dirty to me - 9/5/2008 10:36:59 PM

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Neither My Domme nor sub side is heavily into talking dirty ... but it's all about to whom it belongs. As a Domme I love to say "My" ... and hear him use the word "Your" as in "i am Your boy/slut/servant/fucktoy" or "this is Your nipple/cock/ass/mouth" (that's about as dirty as I get!). Master's not a big dirty talker either, but again, it's all about belonging. So He might call me His little slutgirl, or just say "Come here slut" and i will say "mmmm i love being Your slut Master" or "i'm only a slut for You", 'i'm all Yours", "i'm ready for anything" or "any hole You want!". We also tend to have expressions that sound innocent but aren't ... one of my many nicknames is "ever-ready" ... because i'm always wet for Him! i'm also the "energiser bunny" because i can go on and on and on ... hmmm it's sounding like We have a battery fetish LMAO! He does say my mind is always in the gutter, so i also get called "gutter girl".

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I do second what someone said about the wrong words being distracting. One time, after some particularly passionate lovemaking, i expressed the wish that His chest had a zipper so i could open Him up and just crawl right in and become one with Him. This did NOT have the intended effect LOL! I guess knowing that i have worked with cadavers in the past took Him entirely to the wrong place in His mind, and i had some explaining to do to a rather green around the gills Master. Nowadays, when i just crawl half on top of Him and hug Him tight, He just whispers "another zipper moment My pet?" and We giggle a bit.

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RE: talk dirty to me - 9/6/2008 11:12:24 AM

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let see, I'll yell just about anything that comes to mind during the dirty if it strikes me as sexy..........and yes i have laughed my ass off after the fact from some of the things that have come out of my mouth.
All though " hurt/spank/use/fuck/ me make me cry/scream/beg/, im your slut/whore/dirty bitch...........though after a bit of that i tend to forget what im traying to say and disolve into moaning Master over and over and over and over again.....

Like i did about 20 minutes ago....mwahahahahhaah

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RE: talk dirty to me - 9/6/2008 7:50:09 PM

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To the OP:

Well, there's always the good old "oh god, [name/sir/Master], please fuck me, I want you so much". Or, for a more subby touch, something about how you want to make him feel so good. Stoke his ego as much as his libido with those. ;)

I'm glad you started this thread, though, I'm getting some wonderfully wicked ideas here!