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sistermargaret -> talk dirty to me (9/4/2008 10:17:25 AM)

i'm new to the world of D/s and i'm having the very best time of my life. Some of you might remember what it is like to be in your very first RT (hopefully last) D/s relationship and know i'm not really such a dork, but some stuff i just don't know.
i love it when Master talks dirty to me. No one has ever done that with me and i think He'd like me to respond in kind. Well, i can't be a parrot and just repeat what He says, lol. But i am totally clueless on what to say to Him.  i get all quiet and shy, and sometimes i studder, but i'd love to just blert out something totally HOT.
Any suggestions? What would a dignified, confident, sexy, sadistic Master like to hear? What would you say in the heat of the moment?
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All it takes is absolute surrender




AquaticSub -> RE: talk dirty to me (9/4/2008 10:27:45 AM)

Ask him to show you his favorite porn that has dirty talk and pay close attention to what the women say. Also, you can mirror what he says till you are more confident. If he calls you a dirty slut, say "That's right, I'm just a dirty slut". I've been there myself and you warm up to it sooner or later. [:)]




LadyPact -> RE: talk dirty to me (9/4/2008 10:54:22 AM)

Here's some things that have worked for Me from the other side of the kneel.

My lil slut is an expression that gets Me going.  I tend to like that one better than My little whore.  Anything related to My strap on is big with Me, especially if I get to call him My lil cocksucker.  Huge turn on for Me anytime I get to say anything related to him being on the other end of My 'cock'.  How good he looks sucking Me off, telling him to wrap his lips around it, suck harder, or what a hungry lil thing he is for it.  Ok, that one might not work for you, but it does a hell of a lot for Me.

Saying anything that involves My sadistic nature will do the trick.  Especially if it involves Me grabbing him and making him do what I want him to do.  A good example would be something to the effect of, "I'm going to grab your hair, shove your face between My legs and have you lick Me properly."

For your side of things, the phrase "I can't wait to <insert activity here>" will probably ring your Master's bells.  Depending on how it works for you, there's always the options of things like talking about wanting to please.  If it's your particular kink, talk about be forced because you submit only to him.  How your body is his to control.  That you crave him or your body aches wanting him.  There's lots more, but I'm sure others will have great ideas, too.

From your friend Lady Pact, who's now off to take a cold shower.




GabrielleSlave -> RE: talk dirty to me (9/4/2008 11:00:48 AM)

Oh i just love it when Sir talks filth to me (every kind of everything comes out of His mouth, just love it!!)  But He has asked me to start doing it too and i just freeze lol!  i panic, can't think of anything to say...  However, it turns out that He loves to hear me say things like "i love to serve You Master"  "i exist just be Your slut Sir"  "i love it when You use me like a whore"  "Hurt me Master please?" etc etc.  i love that too and so saying that does not make it sound like i am an extra from a film (thought they may say things like that...) because it comes from my heart and i think that makes it hotter for Him as He knows i mean every word!

Hope that helps some?

Hugs

Gabrielle x




Prinsexx -> RE: talk dirty to me (9/4/2008 11:01:35 AM)

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GabrielleSlave -> RE: talk dirty to me (9/4/2008 11:13:05 AM)

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i bet it is *giggles*

Tell Uus more!!!!!!!!!




Prinsexx -> RE: talk dirty to me (9/4/2008 11:16:36 AM)

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ORIGINAL: GabrielleSlave

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ORIGINAL: Prinsexx

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i bet it is *giggles*

Tell Uus more!!!!!!!!!

twist my arm and i might......




GabrielleSlave -> RE: talk dirty to me (9/4/2008 11:26:30 AM)

You've heard about my switch side haven't you?!




Prinsexx -> RE: talk dirty to me (9/4/2008 11:29:11 AM)

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ORIGINAL: GabrielleSlave

You've heard about my switch side haven't you?!

i got a sixth sense for a  switchy bitchy




CalifChick -> RE: talk dirty to me (9/4/2008 11:29:56 AM)

Lower your voice, a bit husky... then...

It feels so good when you bite my (ear/neck/shoulder/ass).
I can't think straight when you lick my (neck/nipples/hot wet pussy).
I need the hurt, please, spank my (nipples/hot ass/feet).
Please let me have it, please let me have your (fingers/tongue/throbbing cock) in my (mouth/dripping cunt/hot tight ass).

That ought to get you started.



Cali
(who thinks she got herself started)




DelightnDevotion -> RE: talk dirty to me (9/4/2008 11:34:23 AM)

I 100% agree with Gabrielle:  start with things that aren't necessarily "dirty" as you might feel more comfy with that. Focus instead on the dynamic in your relationship: "I love belonging to you";  "Use me any way you want"; "I love giving myself totally to you". 

Then, move up a step to including a few dirty words into those phrases:  "I love being your slut".

As AquaticSub said you can always kind of "echo" what he says--that works well as you know what he's saying turns him on. 

After you get more "into" it and comfy then you can let loose and say whatever comes to mind.  Pretty soon you'll be screaming "Fuck me in the ass with your big monster dick NOW, Master"...or something like that, lol! 




Prinsexx -> RE: talk dirty to me (9/4/2008 11:40:14 AM)

it's a bit difficult to say anything whilst wearing a tightly laced rubber hood with (god what is that) something seeping through the air holes.....




GabrielleSlave -> RE: talk dirty to me (9/4/2008 11:40:24 AM)

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ORIGINAL: CalifChick

Lower your voice, a bit husky... then...

It feels so good when you bite my (ear/neck/shoulder/ass).
I can't think straight when you lick my (neck/nipples/hot wet pussy).
I need the hurt, please, spank my (nipples/hot ass/feet).
Please let me have it, please let me have your (fingers/tongue/throbbing cock) in my (mouth/dripping cunt/hot tight ass).

That ought to get you started.



Cali
(who thinks she got herself started)



ummm................where's the fan...getting awfully hot in here!




GabrielleSlave -> RE: talk dirty to me (9/4/2008 11:43:06 AM)

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ORIGINAL: DelightnDevotion

Pretty soon you'll be screaming "Fuck me in the ass with your big monster dick NOW, Master"...or something like that, lol! 


Right!  That's not fair - you can't get me all hot and bothered like this on a night when Master is not here GODDAMMIT!!!!!!!




cjan -> RE: talk dirty to me (9/4/2008 11:46:59 AM)

I'm not sure if these apply to the OP, but...

Once I was ordering pizza with a lady friend who distains mushrooms ( yea, I know, a major flaw ). She was commenting, in a rather loud voice, that she doesn't "eat fungus". I replied, "So you won't eat mushrooms but you'll happily eat my ass" ? We were overheard by the ladies in the adjacent booth who tittered and turned to see who had spoken. We went home and fucked like minks.

There are other examples of such "overheard" conversations. In all cases, I ( and my companions ) have found them to be great fodder for minking.




CalifChick -> RE: talk dirty to me (9/4/2008 11:48:36 AM)

[sm=writing.gif] New euphemism... minking.



Cali




cjan -> RE: talk dirty to me (9/4/2008 11:55:32 AM)

I got a million of 'em Cali. Now if I only had a nickel for each one..., ummm, how much would that come to ?




CalifChick -> RE: talk dirty to me (9/4/2008 12:11:22 PM)

I dunno, but come and growl them into my ear... talk dirty to me.


Cali




CreativeDominant -> RE: talk dirty to me (9/4/2008 12:27:01 PM)

It's always made me feel good to hear things like the following:

"Use me, my Sir...fuck your cunt or your mouth or your ass...just USE me, please."  Then, with her voice dropping to a softer level "I need you to..."

When she has come to me and smiled and whispered in my ear "please Daddy...i want to suck your cock and make it big and hard so it fills my mouth".

When she's come to me and looked me in the eyes, smiling as she begins to undo my belt and said "I need a good beltwhipping, Sir...please, could you whip your girl?  I've been sooooooooo bad lately..."  Then, if I have agreed and have positioned her and have started, that first groan and statement such as "Godddddddd! yes...again, please Sir..." and while she is still there and not off in "floatsville", she looks back with that kind of hazy but still aware look and says "Oh God, thank you Sir...i am sooooooooo glad you agreed i needed this.  More...please, please, please?  i've been very bad...".  (Now, thanks to LAs thread yesterday, I can now think of this as "funishment" for a naughty girl  [&:])




GabrielleSlave -> RE: talk dirty to me (9/4/2008 12:31:57 PM)

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ORIGINAL: CreativeDominant

It's always made me feel good to hear things like the following:

"Use me, my Sir...fuck your cunt or your mouth or your ass...just USE me, please."  Then, with her voice dropping to a softer level "I need you to..."

When she has come to me and smiled and whispered in my ear "please Daddy...i want to suck your cock and make it big and hard so it fills my mouth".

When she's come to me and looked me in the eyes, smiling as she begins to undo my belt and said "I need a good beltwhipping, Sir...please, could you whip your girl?  I've been sooooooooo bad lately..."  Then, if I have agreed and have positioned her and have started, that first groan and statement such as "Godddddddd! yes...again, please Sir..." and while she is still there and not off in "floatsville", she looks back with that kind of hazy but still aware look and says "Oh God, thank you Sir...i am sooooooooo glad you agreed i needed this.  More...please, please, please?  i've been very bad...".  (Now, thanks to LAs thread yesterday, I can now think of this as "funishment" for a naughty girl  [&:])



*....in floatsville.....*




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