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Destiny2nite -> RE: Long distance punishments (9/3/2008 6:35:28 AM)
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Thank you all for your kind responses to my special subbie jtutors!
Please allow me to explain about the post he made, his “crime”, and Our/our quest for a suitable punishment.
“Evasiveness”: Have you ever asked someone a question, only to be given a response that has nothing to do with the question at hand? Or, have you ever asked someone “what time is it?” only to be told how to build a clock? LOL This is the kind of evasiveness for which I am seeking punishment suggestions.
My sub, jtutors, is very important to me. I care about him. He makes every attempt to make me happy, and I, in return, seek nothing but happiness for him as well. With this in mind, I find very little, if any fault with jtutors. I really have to work to find something to punish him for! Evasiveness was the only “crime-of-the moment” that I could use as an excuse to give him the punishment he so enjoys receiving! Therefore, my delimma is, finding a suitable (and perhaps, enjoyable) punishment that can be accomplished at a distance!
Also, please know that I am not interested in harming him, or punishing in the strictest sense of the word. This was meant to be a part of his punishment assignment. Our/our conversation about this started with Me saying something like: “Oh you brat! Now I’ll have to punish you for being such a brat! You need to as others what might be suitable punishment for your behavior. Please compile a list and I’ll decide how best to deal with you.”
To MAMandslave: Thank you for your post. Although, the hot pepper may be an interesting idea, but not applicable here.
To justLady: jtutors has always been forthright in his answers regarding feelings or emotions. The evasive situation occurred during a routine conversation where I asked as simple question, and expected a simple answer that turned out to be excruciatingly long, and not necessarily to the point! Thank you for your post, as well.
To DesFIP: I’ve asked jtutors to respond to your post.
To Stella41b: “ Why is she so sort of ideas? Does she work in television?” LOL : Thank you for your post and your humor!
To BiteGirl: I thank you for your post as well! Cutting off communication with my sub would be punishment for me, as well, however! I like my j-sub, and want to communicate with him! He’s an amazing person, and no communication would be punishment for BOTH of us!
To Allondra: Hopefully, this post will help satisfy your inquiring mind! Thank you for inquiring!
To Tysgalilah: The communication between j and myself is ongoing throughout the day. Hopefully, I’ve never given him any reason not to be open to me, nor has he given me any reason to think that he has been anything less than honest with me. Further, I have always been able to be open and honest with him. He puts me on a pedestal which I adore, but I keep one toe touching the ground! Ty for your post!
To SiennaDiamond: jtutors is the consummate sub! I reach to find things for which to “reprimand” him and to me. His punishments are meant to be “enjoyable” and entertaining to him. For example, at this very moment, he and I are on voice chat, analyzing the responses to his post. What a wonderful exercise in not only communication, but also in task completion. He teaches me more than I teach him….. but I make him blush! **smiles**
Thanks to all for your responses. I look forward to hearing more from everyone!
Ms Des
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