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RE: How vanilla lol - 9/2/2008 4:43:34 PM

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It's great how intimacy really does come in all flavors :) At a party recently, my partner got greeted with a "Oh hey, you're really kinky dressing vanilla tonight!" (he meant it as a tease/compliment). My partner was wearing black slacks, a white button-up shirt and a red leather tie. I like formal wear and I'd asked him for that.

I told the guy "Formal wear IS my fetish" and we moved on. But in my head I couldn't help thinking that my partner looked a heck of a lot nicer than the dudes faded black jeans and old traditional black kink tshirt.

Kinky does not mean better :) 90% of Ms relationships look like any vanilla relationship 90% of the time.

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RE: How vanilla lol - 9/2/2008 4:57:40 PM

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misst...

Congratulations!!!!

Everyone said it better than i could....other than i didnt see anyone squeal out...Yippey Skippy!!!!!

Good for you....more and more to come.

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RE: How vanilla lol - 9/2/2008 5:51:58 PM

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Yay!! It sounds like you are entering a relationship that involves spending time together as people inclusive of your chosen power dynamic, but not excluding all else.
I like this..

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I don't know maybe i'm just a kid in a candy store right now lol. I also accept before anyone says it that it is early days and may be all gone before i know it. But i tell ya experiencing the emotional side of things again, i'll never be sorry and i'll never regret it.

I love that feeling, those emotions, the adrenaline and endorphins that pump along with them. My personal philosophy on love is this: The possibility of a great love is worth the probability of great sorrow.

Enjoy the ride, it just might last.

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RE: How vanilla lol - 9/3/2008 3:01:39 AM

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A little love and respect shown in vanilla ways never hurt anyone. Keep the warm and fuzzies coming. They only enhance the D/s.

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RE: How vanilla lol - 9/3/2008 4:03:55 AM

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The important question: who won the poker ?

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RE: How vanilla lol - 9/3/2008 5:19:16 AM

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I did

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RE: How vanilla lol - 9/3/2008 10:44:56 AM

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Most of our interactions could be perceived as very mainstream, but that doesn't mean that they are. The undercurrent of all of them is that he is in charge.

A funny story from this past weekend, his mom, dad, brother and his family were in the area camping at a lake just outside of town. We spent the days with them and it was quite obvious that Alandra and I do a lot of things for him. His brother, who I was meeting for the first time, has quite a few of the same mannerisms. They both have this air of authority and confidence that makes me want to obey.

We were sitting around the fire and he tells me to get up and get something for him. Just as I start to stand up, his brother says "Kyra, sit down." in a very direct tone. Automatically I sit, then I realize, fuck I don't have to obey him. I am not sure how many people there noticed my confusion, but they spoke so similarly that to obey one felt like disobeying my Lord.

Camping with family is a very mainstream activity and yet it didn't change who had the authority in our relationship, even if his brother was trying to muddy the waters. *g*

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RE: How vanilla lol - 9/3/2008 1:31:00 PM

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Ahhh, misst, I have to admit to reading your OP with a bit of longing. I would love to have an emotional D/s relationship but I am too busy to lose focus of my studies and he is too busy to lose focus of his career. Maybe some day. Then again, maybe not. I wish you the very best, at any rate.

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