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A big part of why I trust DV to train and shape me, to reconstruct how and why I think about certain things ... is that He has been trained and paid to do that professionally. I trust a man that has helped thousands of people reshape their lives and thinking for the better to do the same for me, the woman He Owns.

Some random dude with a cane, a hard-on and SM 101 in his hand .... no chance am I putting my psyche in those sweaty hands ... mostly because he is going to have far less clue that I ave

too damn right people entrust delicate matters to people who have no business managing them - how many D types wade into a weight or medical health issue with no basis at all to make an informed decision any better than the S type ... and how much added upset and drama does that cause

~ goes back to my brainwashing tape ~

So no one else is capable unless they do it for a living? Lucky you to have the ONLY qualified Master. The rest of us, well I guess we are just smegma anyway. But please let me know the criteria for the one true Master and the one true sub?

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ORIGINAL: lusciouslips19

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A big part of why I trust DV to train and shape me, to reconstruct how and why I think about certain things ... is that He has been trained and paid to do that professionally. I trust a man that has helped thousands of people reshape their lives and thinking for the better to do the same for me, the woman He Owns.

Some random dude with a cane, a hard-on and SM 101 in his hand .... no chance am I putting my psyche in those sweaty hands ... mostly because he is going to have far less clue that I ave

too damn right people entrust delicate matters to people who have no business managing them - how many D types wade into a weight or medical health issue with no basis at all to make an informed decision any better than the S type ... and how much added upset and drama does that cause

~ goes back to my brainwashing tape ~

So no one else is capable unless they do it for a living? Lucky you to have the ONLY qualified Master. The rest of us, well I guess we are just smegma anyway. But please let me know the criteria for the one true Master and the one true sub?

*sighs*
Did I say mine was the ONLY qualified Master? .... nope
Did I say everyone else was smegma? .... nope
Did I say *only* someone who is qualified is capable? .... nope
Did I say anything about one true Master/slave? ... nope

Did in fact I just say that *I* trust DV to do what He does with me because *He* has done it for a living. Did I in fact state that some clueless random dude without a clue wouldn't have my trust to do that? I have been in the hands of clueless fucktards .. and I didn't like it. So now I seek out  people who have a basis of experience for what they wish to do.

But yanno ... feel free to continue having a huff about things I didn't say.

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You are very welcome. It was my pleasure.  

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Like luscious said, he probably showed signs of his idiocy beforehand. She ignored those signs at her own risk. I sincerely doubt that up until that time he was the model of a clear communicator, giving her the chance to explain her thinking and how she got into trouble. She accepted mistreatment from the beginning, not having healthy boundaries. I'm sorry for her present ills, but until she learns to screen people better, to set healthy limits, she can only expect to attract people who want someone without strong boundaries, who are willing to accept blame for things they are not responsible for. We teach people how to treat us in this world.

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