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sfdrew -> RE: So many female domme? (8/1/2008 7:25:03 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: thetammyjo Why exactly is this an issue for you, sfdrew? I care because it is dishonest. I care because I believe that a lot of honest, well-intentioned, passionate lesbian female slaves are being subjected to an environment where they cannot trust anybody they meet because the market is flooded with men who are trying to abuse them for their own purposes. I am almost certian that everybody sees through the fake prince$$ profiles looking for money (and maybe some don't and that is sad). Nobody ever mentions this other problem. I shouldn't have to be directed connected to this to blow the whistle. I cannot even be certian that this is happening for sure but I have presented my best effort to look into the matter at the moment for the discussion of the group on these boards. I am sorry that you don't have anything to contribute other than to question my motives.

LadyHibiscus -> RE: So many female domme? (8/1/2008 7:32:56 AM)
I applaud you for wanting to protect others from dishonest people. Why do you think that there are a plethora of lesbian slaves being subjected to unwanted male attention? Do you not think they can figure out for themselves who is genuine and who is not? This is the internet. We have all had our time wasted by those who present themselves as something other than they are to have their own agenda satisfied. There is truly NO WAY of knowing who is a man masquerading as a hot young thing without approaching each person individually and testing them in the only way that works--setting up a realtime meeting.

Maynard -> RE: So many female domme? (8/1/2008 8:00:09 AM)
Please do keep in mind that there are flaws in studies on human sexual behavior. "Certain types" of participents, more than others, tend to volunteer for such studies. The sample used might not be realistic for the entire population. Statistics can also be warped making analysis of the data hard/confusing or even make it show something else entirely. Although unethical, it does happen. Don't believe everything you read. All that stuff is interesting though.

sfdrew -> RE: So many female domme? (8/1/2008 8:07:11 AM)
I am sure that many people are able to figure all types of fraud on their own. However this type of dishonesty seems to be less (forgive the expression) sexy. It's easy to condem people who run money scams. It seems to be the largest problem in the lesbian Domme area. I simply refuse to believe that such are large number of lesbian Domme actually exist on this site by a large margin. To me this is even more of a problem than the money scams because it should be obvious that a person asking for money could have questionable motives. A lot of people on this site get "fed up with wankers and fakes" and talk about people wasting their time, and etc... (you get the idea). This is exactly the sort of thing that ruins this site for the rest of us. Again I would like to say that even though any studies and polls aren't reliable they do give a rough outline and the reality is soo far out of whack that it demands an explination in my opinion and I have given my thoughts on what that explination is.

LaTigresse -> RE: So many female domme? (8/1/2008 8:10:12 AM)
Okay sfdrew............ after all your whining, pissing and moaning.......I want to know WHY you care how many lesbian dominant women are anywhere??? Your a guy. I mean......what difference does it make to you anyway? Colour me confused. Oh yeah........I am one of those lesbianbitchfromhell broads that seem to be haunting your nightmares.[:D] But I still am really curious as to what difference it makes to you......big picture and all.

Leatherist -> RE: So many female domme? (8/1/2008 8:11:19 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: CruelDesires quote: ORIGINAL: sailorfrank hmmm try basing your findings on more fact by going to more sites other than CM as well. I know of one site that is much larger than here with double the people easily. Yes it is very hard in any type of poll to know how much is real and accurate and how much is all fiction. You talking about alt.com? That place went into the toilet way before penthouse productions bought them. CM is one of the last bastions for the thrifty perverts of the world. C-D Only about 40% of the profiles on alt or bondage.com are active,they keep them to puff up thier advertizing propaganda.

sfdrew -> RE: So many female domme? (8/1/2008 8:12:47 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: LaTigresse Okay sfdrew............ after all your whining, pissing and moaning.......I want to know WHY you care how many lesbian dominant women are anywhere??? Your a guy. I mean......what difference does it make to you anyway? Colour me confused. Oh yeah........I am one of those lesbianbitchfromhell broads that seem to be haunting your nightmares.[:D] But I still am really curious as to what difference it makes to you......big picture and all. I don't care how many actual lesbian Domme are anyway and if you had read this entire thread you would realize that this is about people commiting fraud to trick other people and how it ruins the integrity of this site.

Leatherist -> RE: So many female domme? (8/1/2008 8:14:14 AM)
The site is free-none of the admins has time or desire to weed out fakes. You will have to do your own filtering.

LaTigresse -> RE: So many female domme? (8/1/2008 8:20:28 AM)
sfdrew, your ASS Uming I didn't read it. I did. You still are not answering my question. So, as punishment I will ask my second question. If you are questioning all of us lesbian dominants and using it as a ruse of wanting to be the big bad protector of all lesbian/bi female slaves/subs that are looking for a lesbian dominant......are you saying that the females slave/submissives are so helpless that they cannot take care of themselves? I mean, where are you going with this? What is your motivation? Because, trust me, I've not met a female slave or submissive, worth her salt, that wasn't quite intelligent and quite capable of weeding through all the wankers online. They certainly don't need a male slave to do it for them. [Mod Note: TOS violation removed]

LadyHibiscus -> RE: So many female domme? (8/1/2008 8:21:36 AM)
I love you, LeeAnn. Just sayin'. [:)]

sfdrew -> RE: So many female domme? (8/1/2008 8:21:48 AM)
A lot of you seem to be falling into the trap of thinking that just because something is a certian way that it is perfectly acceptable. Why is it ok for people to trick and commit fraud and abuse other people online? Why should we need an administraion to regulate each other? Of course things aren't going to change, but we don't have to be happy about it. I have no idea why I am getting such resistance in this matter. I guess the rest of you enjoy taking one step forward and two steps back.

RedMagic1 -> RE: So many female domme? (8/1/2008 8:22:52 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: sfdrew A lot of people on this site get "fed up with wankers and fakes" and talk about people wasting their time, and etc... (you get the idea). This is exactly the sort of thing that ruins this site for the rest of us. The vast majority of those "fed-uppers" are people with poor personal responsibility skills, who cannot accept that they were talking with a real-life human being who rejected them for whatever reason. So the person who rejected them is "fake," instead of them being not-right for someone, or, worse, "undesirable." It is not true that there are "so many" fake or scammer profiles. They are more visible on certain searches, because they (1) have pics, (2) have professionally-generated hotttt pics, (3) weigh around 107 pounds, (4) are often on the New Users list because their previous scam profiles have been deleted by the site. The owners of the site are committed to having an online BDSM community that anyone can join. Look at the price of anything else in your life. Going up, right? Keeping the site free is a big fucking deal. The entire place is staffed by a handful of volunteers. Frankly, I think it's amazing. Use "Report" to report abusive profiles, and make friends! I have had a WONDERFUL time on this site, and I know many many people who would say the same. Fakes don't ruin life for me. Fakes make it easier for people to recognize me as legit.

LaTigresse -> RE: So many female domme? (8/1/2008 8:23:07 AM)
On second thought, I am the one being a snarky bitch.... the unowned comment was uncalled for and not applicable at all. My appologies.

DiurnalVampire -> RE: So many female domme? (8/1/2008 8:24:06 AM)
It isnt just the lesbian dommes who do this.The husbands parading as 24/7 no limits slaves until wifey gets home, the Dominant men who have to ask their wifes permission to use the somputer for an hour to order their slaves around... whe poor hapless little slave girls who have more life experience than any of the ean old masters that try and help them see tings clearly. The slaves who are a virgin for the 20th time looking for the one to take it from them (again). Online its everywhere. Youve picked one subject to look at. I see tons. Just the emails I get from boys overseas who are thrilled to bits to hve the chance to slave for me in front of their cams... seriously. Its fantasy for some, and this is how they go about doing it. Some of the lesbian domme profiles are probably men. Some are probably straight women looking for a kick, or who dont get any closer to bicurious then playing it online. I am sure most are really bi dommes. But regardless, you cant protect anyone from them... simply becasue you do not know which is which. Just like protecting us female dommes from the hoardes of fake male slaves... just becasue they are numerous doesnt mean in the midst of al the chaff there isnt someone worth finding. DV

Leatherist -> RE: So many female domme? (8/1/2008 8:24:22 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: sfdrew A lot of you seem to be falling into the trap of thinking that just because something is a certian way that it is perfectly acceptable. Why is it ok for people to trick and commit fraud and abuse other people online? Why should we need an administraion to regulate each other? Of course things aren't going to change, but we don't have to be happy about it. I have no idea why I am getting such resistance in this matter. I guess the rest of you enjoy taking one step forward and two steps back. I will repeat. The site is run by volunteers. They have no time or energy to make this your "happy place". If that is unnaceptable, go set up your own site, and you can keep it squeaky clean and be ecstatically happy with the other three people there.

faerytattoodgirl -> RE: So many female domme? (8/1/2008 8:25:46 AM)
quote: Oh yeah........I am one of those lesbianbitchfromhell broads that seem to be haunting your nightmares. god your hot!!! quote: I am almost certian that everybody sees through the fake prince$$ crap...you got me..im a natural blonde...not a natural red head.

LaTigresse -> RE: So many female domme? (8/1/2008 8:25:52 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: LadyHibiscus I love you, LeeAnn. Just sayin'. [:)] Awww, thank you!!

LaTigresse -> RE: So many female domme? (8/1/2008 8:34:23 AM)
And thank you faery!

ModeratorEleven -> RE: So many female domme? (8/1/2008 8:45:26 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: sfdrew I have no idea why I am getting such resistance in this matter. I guess the rest of you enjoy taking one step forward and two steps back. Welcome to the internet. There are always going to be people online trying to deceive others. Short of meeting every user in person and verifying their ID, there is no way to guarantee a user's identity. This isn't just an issue here, it's true of every site on the web. While your desire to protect people from such deception is admirable, you might want to put your efforts into a task which has a slightly higher chance of success, like emptying the Atlantic ocean with an eyedropper. XI

Madame4a -> RE: So many female domme? (8/1/2008 8:47:33 AM)
oh gosh.. its a free site.. get over it already... this is starting to sound like you have a very personal vendetta against a small group of people... there are lots of people out there who are not what they claim to be online -- no worries, I tend to ignore them

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