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Snailie -> Men pretending to be Women? (7/31/2008 8:57:44 AM)
How can I tell if someone online is an actual woman or a man posing as one? - Sometimes when I chat with someone something just doesn't seem right, should I trust my instincts? I'm weary of profiles without photos, or with glamour photos or even just photos of very attractive women, because they look like they might have been stolen off the net somewhere. (And also I find it a bit unbelievable that someone like that would want to talk to me lol.) Does anyone know, how often do men do this? And why do they do it? BTW I don't hate men at all, I like them very much, I'm just looking for a woman.

Leatherist -> RE: Men pretending to be Women? (7/31/2008 9:00:05 AM)
A picture of them, holding up today's newspaper. Drives off the 400 pound women who post pictures of themselves as 100 pound teens too.

RedMagic1 -> RE: Men pretending to be Women? (7/31/2008 9:02:30 AM)
Meeting in real life. It's a problem for everyone, but your profile talks exclusively about an online relationship, which will attract people who cannot meet in real, because they don't exist. Maybe check out the video chatrooms? I refuse to go in there, myself, but at least then you can see who you're talking to.

TwoNYCDommes -> RE: Men pretending to be Women? (7/31/2008 9:09:50 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Snailie How can I tell if someone online is an actual woman or a man posing as one? - Meet her in person (though I suppose that wouldn't rule out a passable cd).

Missokyst -> RE: Men pretending to be Women? (7/31/2008 9:12:41 AM)
I once knew a guy online for 2 yrs before discovering one of his other "identities" was also chatting in a lesbian ds chat room. He was very good at deception, and had a voice which could go either way. Trust what you see with your eyes, believe what you can grasp in your hands. Kyst

TwoNYCDommes -> RE: Men pretending to be Women? (7/31/2008 9:13:01 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Leatherist A picture of them, holding up today's newspaper. Drives off the 400 pound women who post pictures of themselves as 100 pound teens too. At least those not clever or social enough to find someone else to pose for such a photo. [edited to correct typo]

Madame4a -> RE: Men pretending to be Women? (7/31/2008 9:13:11 AM)
As a lesbian who's been around online communities for a really long time, I can tell you.. they do it a lot. There are several ways to tell, most of them are about my gut instincts, so I can't help you. But, if it seems too good to be true, it probably is.

housesub4you -> RE: Men pretending to be Women? (7/31/2008 9:17:47 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Madame4a But, if it seems too good to be true, it probably is. True're words have never been spoken.

TwoNYCDommes -> RE: Men pretending to be Women? (7/31/2008 9:18:31 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Snailie Does anyone know, how often do men do this? And why do they do it? I have no idea how often they do it, and I can only speculate on why. For some, it may fulfill a type of crossdressing desire, while for others, it may help them live out lesbian fantasies in some way. For many, I suspect it is simply that they want attention, and women apparently attract far more attention here than men do.

igor2003 -> RE: Men pretending to be Women? (7/31/2008 9:21:25 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Snailie How can I tell if someone online is an actual woman or a man posing as one? - Sometimes when I chat with someone something just doesn't seem right, should I trust my instincts? I'm weary of profiles without photos, or with glamour photos or even just photos of very attractive women, because they look like they might have been stolen off the net somewhere. (And also I find it a bit unbelievable that someone like that would want to talk to me lol.) Does anyone know, how often do men do this? And why do they do it? BTW I don't hate men at all, I like them very much, I'm just looking for a woman. One way to tell is to ask to see them on cam. Why do they do it? Several reasons. One reason is that they are simply trying to work a scam for money. Often they won't ask for money for a week or two, other times they will ask on the very first chat session. Another reason they will pose as women is that they are hoping to get you to perform on cam for them so they can get their jollies. There are probably many more reasons as well.

littlesarbonn -> RE: Men pretending to be Women? (7/31/2008 9:25:24 AM)
I once had a "woman" (I suspect it was one, but who knows) tell me she needed me to prove I was a male while having an online conversation. That one threw me for a loop. It felt a lot like having someone say he or she needs proof that someone claiming to be from the heartland of Texas is, in fact, a Republican. I thought, who pretends to be a guy?

Thadius -> RE: Men pretending to be Women? (7/31/2008 9:41:52 AM)
Since you already got some decent advice, I will only add a quick joke.. To the internet... Where the men are men The women are men, and those under the age of majority are FBI agents..

sirsholly -> RE: Men pretending to be Women? (7/31/2008 9:46:40 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Thadius Since you already got some decent advice, I will only add a quick joke.. To the internet... Where the men are men The women are men, and those under the age of majority are FBI agents.. or Chris Hansen and crew...

faerytattoodgirl -> RE: Men pretending to be Women? (7/31/2008 10:00:50 AM)
crap....dont anyone tell snailie that im really a 350 lb male that looks like santa.

happypervert -> RE: Men pretending to be Women? (7/31/2008 10:06:15 AM)
quote: Trust what you see with your eyes, believe what you can grasp in your hands. . . . or stick your finger into, when you don't want something you can grasp in your hands.

pahunkboy -> RE: Men pretending to be Women? (7/31/2008 11:10:21 AM)
Why does it matter? It is just words on the screen. It isnt like the woman of your dreams is here. There are types who do this. Woman who want to see what else a guy will say- or if he is looking at other woman. Gay/bi men who havent reached the maturity to get past that. I had phone sex as a woman a few times. [comliments of a voice changer] what did it hurt? A good many are here for a orgasm.... not actual real time. RT is unworkable cos no one is local. Think. If your metro has 1 million people, that is 500,000 females- and if none of them suit then there is something wrong with YOU. In early years online, gays and woman did this type of mascerading. But @ 2006, men equalled or surppased that group. I was one of those so called woman. In fact- I was 5 of those so called woman. Well maybe 5 isnt a good number."You" men are jerks to the ladies. Like a shark in a feeding pool. It is words on a screen. Find a better outlet. cyber life is not real life. [even if you put must be real in profile, and no games] Frankly a good many of men - get what they deserve. They dish it out, and then cry when they recieve it. See you on the other side hun.

FatDomDaddy -> RE: Men pretending to be Women? (7/31/2008 2:50:23 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: faerytattoodgirl crap....dont anyone tell snailie that im really a 350 lb male that looks like santa. Stealing MY idenity are you!!!! (actually now 275 but I still look good in my red union suit)

kittinSol -> RE: Men pretending to be Women? (7/31/2008 2:52:52 PM)
Hunky... hilarious (and slightly worrying lol) post.

Politesub53 -> RE: Men pretending to be Women? (7/31/2008 2:56:59 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: sirsholly quote: ORIGINAL: Thadius Since you already got some decent advice, I will only add a quick joke.. To the internet... Where the men are men The women are men, and those under the age of majority are FBI agents.. or Chris Hansen and crew... Odd you mention him. I saw his show on cable here in the UK last night. One of the perverts even said " I knew that it would be dateline " Hansen asked him why he still went and the guy said he didnt know. Fair play to the show for doing a good job.

faerytattoodgirl -> RE: Men pretending to be Women? (7/31/2008 2:58:36 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: FatDomDaddy quote: ORIGINAL: faerytattoodgirl crap....dont anyone tell snailie that im really a 350 lb male that looks like santa. Stealing MY idenity are you!!!! (actually now 275 but I still look good in my red union suit) sorry your hair isnt long enough to pass for a santa. and while i dont have facial hair i can get a clip on.

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