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RE: Solving Issues with your sub/slave! - 7/12/2008 7:16:59 AM

Lordandmaster

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Ummm...

What?

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Gas has historically increased when either a Democrate or Republician has been in office.

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RE: Solving Issues with your sub/slave! - 7/12/2008 7:24:27 AM

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Gas has historically increased when either a Democrate or Republician has been in office.

See... my mother was right -- she always said politicians were full of beans... that's why gas has historically increased whenever there are politicians of either party around.

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RE: Solving Issues with your sub/slave! - 7/12/2008 7:57:01 AM

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You cannot be silent with my slave. He is very vocal. lol Didn't I menion I was perfect? Oh yes.
Like peppermint says, it is over in four months.
One thing for sure is that neither one of the candidates are going to be able to do a lot soon. It is going to have to run its course.
I know one I won't vote for.

Geeze.

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RE: Solving Issues with your sub/slave! - 7/12/2008 5:51:23 PM

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Work on him lowering your voice. If he starts to drown you out, raise your hand in a stop signal. Tellhim the conversation is now over until he can talk and not yell. Whenever he tells you that your beliefs are wrong, again with the stop sign. If you cut him off immediately each and every time, he will get the message.

Beyond that, walk out of the room or send him out. He can be with you or he can yell and try to browbeat the walls. He can't do both.

However if your beliefs are opposed and political beliefs for you are a reflection of your morals and ethical values, I'm not sure you can make things work long term, should you be looking for that. I find that differing morals just isn't something you can get over. YMMV

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RE: Solving Issues with your sub/slave! - 7/12/2008 6:05:40 PM

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What is it that your sub/slave does all the time that drives you nuts?

Master says that I don't do them "all the time" but that there's three things that aren't His favorite

1- Listen to "horrible" 1970's pop music
2-Disagree with Him strongly about gun control/right to bear arms
3-Lose my cool when the checkbook doesn't balance

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What do you do to solve these kinds of issues?

1- He has me change the station
2- We discuss it fairly calmly and still end up differing
3-He tells me to chill the f**k out and let Him balance it

Yep, that's about the extent of our disagreements

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RE: Solving Issues with your sub/slave! - 7/12/2008 7:22:48 PM

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Daddy and I generally agree on politics its the subject of parenting our two toddlers that gets us fighting. We have slightly different views on how the boys should be brought up. Thankfully they are 3 and 4 years old I fear the fights that will come up with the baby thats on the way. 5 more months!!

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RE: Solving Issues with your sub/slave! - 7/12/2008 7:28:22 PM

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Master and i agree politically which helps. But He has strong views on some other things that i don't necessarily share. Early on i found it a problem when He tried to shout down my ideas, so i made sure We had a chat at a time when all was calm about agreeing to disagree! And what constitutes good rules for contentious discussions. That helped a lot. (The Dominant doesn't have to be the source of all wisdom!). So We have debated them fairly vigorously and while We came together on some, on others, We have agreed to disagree. Most times they don't get regularly resurrected, every now and then one does and i just let Him have His rant. i figure we all need that sometimes. And end with saying something like "i'm glad You feel so passionately about things Master ... and that You allow me to hold different views". And He does, He lets me have my rants too!

Good luck MissSCD.
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RE: Solving Issues with your sub/slave! - 7/12/2008 7:39:10 PM

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I have rather strong political views, and I am happy to engage in a discussion with many people. Frenchy has very few political opinions, and refuses to vote. This is something I find bothersome, but since politics play such little part in they way he thinks and conducts his life, his vote just kind of wouldn't matter. In terms of the day-to-day stuff that couples niggle about - I have reached this conclusion: In terms of the little stuff - there is very little of it that matters enough that i want to make him feel crummy, and if we don't mostly agree on the big stuff, we shouldn't be together. That said, I do not have the experience of trying to raise a child with anyone. I tend to think that the old adage "If Mama ain't happy, ain't nobody happy" applies more often than not.

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