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RE: Horror stories! - 7/8/2008 3:47:10 PM   
SteelofUtah


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Status: offline 		I have never had a horror story from a BDSM encounter I do have some stupid and annoying stories like being sued by a former submissive and having them thrown in jail for purjury. And having a Former renters new Master try to fight me in a parking lot all because he thought I should continue paying for things even though I no longer lived there all because neither of them could afford them, I informed him I rented a room I was never a submissive and if she needed cash she should sell a Kidney.

As for NON -Kink Horror I got PLENTY these two stand at the top however.

I had dated this girl for like three weeks, I wasn't feeling it but she was VERY attached, so after explaining to her that I wanted to end it I guess she snapped, one day I came home waiting for my cat Sterling to come to the door to get his daily treat and when he didn't come I went looking for him eventually I found my bedroom door closed which it never is and assumed he was in there. Instead I found a about a dozen Poloroids of this girl Naked in my bed with a note saying if I wanted my pussy back I would have to keep her pussy happy. Since she had broken in, and kidnapped my Cat I called the police and nealy $2000.00 later I finally got a judge to agree that the girl was crazy that this wasn't just a lovers quarrel and I recieved a No Contact Order and she did 6 months in jail. Plus as a part of her Probation was required to get Psycological help. When I got my cat back it was afraid any time any girl and I had sex as soon as the clothes came off Sterling would run into another room I always wondered what she did to him.

The Worst Situation was the girl who tried to shoot me. I was always into Porn, it is just something I enjoy, I don't need it to get me hard just to screw the one I am with but I do enjoy my porn. Due to the this relationship I now try to keep this loveaffair with porn out in the open. As this girl I was dating for a few months one day found my porn collection and accused me of Screwing around on her. Now I have done some very fucked up things but the one and only time I ever slept around I told the girl about it the same day and also knew I was dumped but I could not live with the disgust I felt having had cheated, so to be accused of it when I'm not cheating is kind of a blow back. She came into the office with my 9mm and a two or three magazines I kept hidden in the bathroom for when I am taking my morning constitutional. Like a Crazy Banchee Bitch from hell she starts screaming "How long have you been fucking around on me with these bitches, then point the gun at my head and pulled the trigger, she blew a very calliber hole into the sheetrock of an apartment that was next door to a Police Detective who within 5 minutes was in my house arresting ...ME!!! Well more like Detaining because I was never officially arrested.

After the cops got both of our stories 3 times and mine never changed and her did all 3 times I was finally released after 48 hours in holding (NOT A FUN PLACE TO BE FOR 2 DAYS) then when we all went to court my Attorney convinced me a Deal was the best way to get things done so she spent one year in a Minimum Security Facility just outsied of Las Vegas in Jean and 5 years Probation and the Loss of the right to Vote or Legally carry a fire arm for the rest of her life as a convicted Felon

For a long time there I thought if a woman liked me she was going to turn Psycho on me and try to kill me.

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RE: Horror stories! - 7/8/2008 4:27:18 PM   
Missokyst


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Status: offline 		Wowie... I hope your skills of judging people has improved!  I worked for about 6 months as a hostess/bouncer/troubleshooter in a bar which had criminal ties.  I can honestly say no one ever came at me with a gun (which was not part of what we were doing erotically).  I have been robbed 4 times, with guns and knives (knives are scary), but I don't find those sort of men attractive.  I have put myself in danger deliberately at times to see if I can figure my way out (and have been successful at it!).  LOL but.. except for my one online stalker I have never met someone who had that much temper that they could not control themselves.  Holey smokes!
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RE: Horror stories! - 7/8/2008 9:19:25 PM   
daddysliloneds


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Status: offline 		he flew in from washington, d.c. to meet me at a local eatery for dinner; he claimed to be a dominant. prior to dinner he was telling me how much he hated brocolli and i was telling him how much i loved it...

when our food came, my salmon had brocolli on the side, along with some rice pilaf.  he got up and like a two year old having a temper tantrum, started yelling at me for ordering brocolli when i knew how much he hated it...

it was a friday night and the place was packed and noisey as per the norm, yet when he started throwing his tissy fit, the place got silent and all eyes were on us.

i was sooooooooooo embarrassed that i got up to leave and he had the nerve to grab me by the wrist and tell me i wasn't going anywhere, to which i replied by serving him my dinner to his lap and my coffee to his face...

i got a standing ovation from the crowd yet i still haven't managed to make myself walk into that place again in the last seven years since that incident.

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RE: Horror stories! - 7/8/2008 9:21:10 PM   
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ORIGINAL: daddysliloneds
i got a standing ovation from the crowd yet i still haven't managed to make myself walk into that place again in the last seven years since that incident.

You should.

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RE: Horror stories! - 7/8/2008 9:33:32 PM   
Missokyst


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Status: offline 		LOL that was priceless!  I once saw a similar thing happen in an italian restaurant when the man started sprinkling parmesan cheese on his spaghetti.  His date freaked out!  LOL I have never heard the words S T I N K Y  C H E E S E dragged out into so many syllables.  LOL she could have been an opera star.
It is amazing what sets people off.
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RE: Horror stories! - 7/8/2008 9:51:23 PM   
daddysliloneds


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Status: offline 		if you liked that one, you'll love this one...

he flew in from vermont for a first time meeting.  i was kind enough to pick him up at the airport and take him to his hotel to save him car rental fare.  we were planning a daytrip to mexico for the next day in which i was driving. i told him what i felt was appropriate clothing and shoes, etc., since i traveled there often...

so next day comes along and we're walking along the muddy and rainy red-dirt roads of progresso mexico and he falls and busts his ass; a 6'7", 285 lb man whose feet flew out in front of him so fast i barely had time to see him hit the dirt...

the first thing i ask, of course, is 'are you okay' and the second thing i said was, 'i can't believe you wore patent leather loafers for walking shoes, let alone in mexico!' 

i had a great day filled with dancing in the streets to the local mariaches, haggling on merchandise and getting great deals, and eating one of the best meals i've had in awhile...

now he, on the other hand, didn't like the mariaches, nor dancing, nor anything about the place even though he asked me to take him there, and, he ordered the one and only thing i told him he shouldn't order to eat.  he ended up getting the back door trots as well as being charged 25 cents just to use the free public bathroom, and to top it all of, on the four hour drive home, he bitched and pissed and whined and moaned and argued with me so much that i told him he should really keep a lid on it and grow up; it's a statement that he chose to ignore...

soooooooo, at the next restroom visit, close to the sarita checkpoint but still on the mexican side of the border, i  let him out of the car, running for the can once again, only this time, instead of waiting patiently outside and being nice through gritted teeth to the asshole i had to suffer with, i pulled my car out onto the road never looking back and leaving his ass there.  it felt really, really good and empowering; does that mean i'm a sadist

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RE: Horror stories! - 7/8/2008 10:08:50 PM   
MisterBeast


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Status: offline 		Valentines day 2005, I was running around with a Georgia girl who really liked spankins, and who really liked to be humiliated, so I had her with both hands on the dash of my KW while I whacked her ass, anyone could walk by and see what was happening, well she got really into it, made some awesome noises, and thus I got really into it, threw out my damn shoulder. It really sucked for the next week trying to shift that 18 speed transmission!

I have had 2 stalkers thus far, had to change my phone number with one. Started referring to herself with my last name after having known me for less than 2 days.

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RE: Horror stories! - 7/8/2008 10:08:57 PM   
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ETA - I found out later that the whole meeting had started as a joke between this person and a friend. Supposedly the woman had fallen in "love" (sick love, huh?) with me and didn't know how to tell me the truth. What a joke......
  My first very long term sub and husband ended our relationship in the following manner:

Announced that he had been pretending to be a woman on-line (this was before webcams were heard of, and barely anyone had digital pics.)  He had fallen in love with another woman, who believe HE was a woman.  He moved to Georgia to be with her, and she had a child by him before he and I were divorced.  Of course, she kicked his ass out too, eventually, but was apparently undetered by his lack of pussy.  As an aside, the man complained about my weight as long as we were together, but his new woman, from what I have heard, weighs 400 lbs.  (I, of course, still wear the same dress size I did in 1992.)

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RE: Horror stories! - 7/8/2008 10:15:19 PM   
MisterBeast


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ORIGINAL: daddysliloneds

he flew in from washington, d.c. to meet me at a local eatery for dinner; he claimed to be a dominant. prior to dinner he was telling me how much he hated brocolli and i was telling him how much i loved it...

when our food came, my salmon had brocolli on the side, along with some rice pilaf.  he got up and like a two year old having a temper tantrum, started yelling at me for ordering brocolli when i knew how much he hated it...

it was a friday night and the place was packed and noisey as per the norm, yet when he started throwing his tissy fit, the place got silent and all eyes were on us.

i was sooooooooooo embarrassed that i got up to leave and he had the nerve to grab me by the wrist and tell me i wasn't going anywhere, to which i replied by serving him my dinner to his lap and my coffee to his face...

i got a standing ovation from the crowd yet i still haven't managed to make myself walk into that place again in the last seven years since that incident.


quote:

s sooooooooooo embarrassed that i got up to leave and he had the nerve to grab me by the wrist and tell me i wasn't going anywhere, to which i replied by serving him my dinner to his lap and my coffee to his face...


That definately counts as a "It puts the lotion on its skin" moment!



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RE: Horror stories! - 7/8/2008 10:53:32 PM   
Missokyst


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Status: offline 		OMG!  LOL the guy I knew who did that stuff lived in GA.
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RE: Horror stories! - 7/8/2008 10:54:34 PM   
Missokyst


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RE: Horror stories! - 7/8/2008 10:55:40 PM   
Missokyst


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Status: offline 		I forgot to ask about being detained.  Did the cops assume you did the shooting?
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RE: Horror stories! - 7/8/2008 11:04:51 PM   
MisterBeast


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ORIGINAL: Missokyst

OMG!  LOL the guy I knew who did that stuff lived in GA.
Kyst


Weird things happen in georgia.

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RE: Horror stories! - 7/8/2008 11:36:33 PM   
MstrssScarlet


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Status: offline 		My first marriage was sooo vanilla and my ex never let me do anything except watch the kids and show up at business affairs hanging off his arm and looking prim and proper.  We moved so many times that I didn't have many friends.  When I finally got the nerve to leave, I had very little knowledge of what the "outside world" was like.  I was basically in a D/s relationship for 20 years but without the benefits.
I've already admitted it once on here, so one more time for the thread.  I started out dating vanillas.  I hadn't discovered the wonderful wide web yet.  I was raped by one date and almost raped by another.  That made me drop back and re-evaluate.  After that, I never went anyplace with anyone unless I'd seen their driver's license and called my one and only friend for a safety call.  It was something I came up with on my own.  She said I was scaring her the first time I did it, but I explained that I was only doing it to keep myself out of trouble.  Eventually I started figuring people out and after long enough it became second nature to know who was safe and who wasn't.  I even played around with manipulating my dates.  Fortunately, I never became a man hater.  I am, however, very determined never to allow any man to put me under his thumb....except for my husband.  He has my best interests at heart though, so I trust him implicityly.  He's never let me down during 7 years of marriage.
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RE: Horror stories! - 7/9/2008 8:52:54 AM   
SteelofUtah


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ORIGINAL: Missokyst

I forgot to ask about being detained.  Did the cops assume you did the shooting?
Kyst


Yes actually when the Detective came bursting through the door I was on Top of the Psycho Bitch and she was screaming STOP STOP STOP and when he questioned her she told him that I tried to kill her and tried to turn the story around to which they took me into Custody as they called it and put me in a holding cell for 2 days to which I was questioned 2 more times and after two days they just let me go and told me she was arrested and it was obvious that she was the one who fired at me after they looked at the height in which the bullet entered the wall.

The problem is when it involves a Man and a Woman it is usually a good bet to detain the Man as statistically it is usually the Male who is the agressor so although I was and in a way still am Pissed off at the ordeal I understand why they took me in and let her stay in the house for two days.

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RE: Horror stories! - 7/9/2008 9:23:44 AM   
Missokyst


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Status: offline 		Grrrrrrrrr that always pisses me off. LOL though I can see that they might assume it considering you were on top.
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RE: Horror stories! - 7/9/2008 12:25:09 PM   
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Status: offline 		Reading this is the exact reason why I am SO put off. I have a baby at home that I have to think about and I can't really afford to make a bad call. If something were to happen to her because of a bad judgement call on my part, I couldn't live with myself.

Very enlightning thread indeed.

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RE: Horror stories! - 7/9/2008 1:27:22 PM   
Missokyst


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Status: offline 		You might notice that most of the horror stories involves more nilla things than bdsm'y ones.  And they were for the most part not a first time meeting. 
My point in bringing this up was to show that the average person is not going to run into a serial killer.  Most people are just like us.  They can be assholes, saints, sinners, liars, cheats, good samaritans, helpers, sensualists, ect.  Most people we meet are not serial killers.  And they should be judged by a reasoning, logical, intuitive mind rather than the heat seeking function that does not look beyond a role.
For me, my offspring always came before my needs.   Most people though, have learned to use the skills they develop in normal life, to get an idea of what is good and what is stupid.
Baring the doors to living does not teach us anything.
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RE: Horror stories! - 7/9/2008 4:59:01 PM   
MadRabbit


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Status: offline 		Closed thing I have to horror stories is two different girls who I figured out were lying cunts within two weeks. One was just bullshit lying and the other was "Rabbit go to jail" kind of lying.

I still had a great time before I found out they were lying cunts, so I prefer to remember the enjoyment I had with them as opposed to the lying cunt part.

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RE: Horror stories! - 7/9/2008 6:38:11 PM   
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Status: offline 		Hmm..lets see..non bdsm one..

I was dating a guy off and on for about 2 years who was 5 years older then I was.  We both loved each other (or so I thought) and I would have done anything in the world for him.  He had been in a long relationship with a girl that he was living with but kicked out and had gotten together with me shortly after.  She kept coming over his house and eventually got my phone number and started calling me all hours of the night and threatening me.  It eventually got to the point where she figured out where I lived and drove 2 hours to my house to try and hurt me.  I called the cops on her and when they arrested her she had a knife on her.  I eventually found out that he was still dating her and she still lived with him and he was just playing me to make her jealous.


BDSM story..

I met a Dom on one of these sites, we met in public quite a few times, talked online for several months, and I finally got up the nerve to play with him.  My first mistake was telling him I didn't know what my limits were because this was my first time with a Dom and I didn't know anything much.  We went over safewords and everything which eventually led to me being dumb enough to let him tie me up.  So now that I'm suspended from the ceiling by my wrists he proceeds to use paddles, canes, floggers, etc. on me.  So things get to the point where I can't take them any more and I safeword..well he stops what he's doing and switches to something worse so I started making up my own words (stop..red..quit..fuck you quit hitting me..) and nothing worked.  So he untied me and moved me to a table and continued hitting me.  By the time every thing was done and over I could barely stand..my nipples and surrounding areas were purple and black and my butt had welps and bruises all over it.  Now I know to some people this would sound like the perfect scene and to each their own, but to me, being new and not knowing anything that was a horrible experience.  The few good things that came out of that experience is that I know I need to be more careful and I'm actually a pain slut now (go figure). 

**edited for typo**

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