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different sexual ability with different partner - 7/1/2008 12:35:42 PM

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I have multiple sexual partners that are all aware of each other. I will call the Amy, Betty, and Carla.

with Amy, I am the pure definition of a "minuteman" cant control the orgasm and I seem to cum within seconds of penitration, then it seems to take an hour or more to be ready to go again.

with Betty, the minimum time for me to orgasm is 5 minutes or so. after I orgasm with her, it takes sometimes as little as 2 or 3 minutes to be ready to go again.

with Carla its an odd combination, better control, but longer wait time before I am erect and ready to go.

I have been with Amy for over 10 years, Betty for 6 months, and Carla I have only been with a couple times.

Does anyone have any ideas of how to improve my abilities with Amy?

I am physically and emotionally attracted to all 3. I cannot find a reason for the difference.

Thanks in advance.

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RE: different sexual ability with different partner - 7/1/2008 12:54:22 PM

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learn her bad habits. she will then be less sexy.

why would one set up a profile for this Q?

also be glad you are getting so much sex

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RE: different sexual ability with different partner - 7/1/2008 12:59:31 PM

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Can you have Amy wear a Carla or Betty mask?

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RE: different sexual ability with different partner - 7/1/2008 12:59:54 PM

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I'm with PA on this one. You need to control your hormonal level with her. So, get to know her a bit better.

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RE: different sexual ability with different partner - 7/1/2008 1:04:29 PM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: quickquestion

making an anonymous question, this profile will be deleted as soon as I post this.

I have multiple sexual partners that are all aware of each other. I will call the Amy, Betty, and Carla.

with Amy, I am the pure definition of a "minuteman" cant control the orgasm and I seem to cum within seconds of penitration, then it seems to take an hour or more to be ready to go again.

with Betty, the minimum time for me to orgasm is 5 minutes or so. after I orgasm with her, it takes sometimes as little as 2 or 3 minutes to be ready to go again.

with Carla its an odd combination, better control, but longer wait time before I am erect and ready to go.

I have been with Amy for over 10 years, Betty for 6 months, and Carla I have only been with a couple times.

Does anyone have any ideas of how to improve my abilities with Amy?

I am physically and emotionally attracted to all 3. I cannot find a reason for the difference.

Thanks in advance.

Why the need to sneak around like this?

I sure hope everyone's practicing safe sex.

I think sexual prowess is the least of your problems.

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P.S. Yes, I have responded to different lovers differently. I am not a robot.

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RE: different sexual ability with different partner - 7/1/2008 1:06:20 PM

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Put some topical lidocaine in the condom after you are hard. It will desensitize you and you will literally be able to plow Amy until she cant walk and is sore for three days thereafter. She will not only come back for more, but she will tell her sister who will just have to sample it for herself

Trust me I know.

The amy issue is because the novelty has worn off and you arent mentally trying to please her. With a new partner there is a certain performance anxiety where you want to "put on a good show".... Same reason that when I go out "on the prowl" so to speak I shower, brush my teeth, make sure every hair is in place, put on decent clothes, make sure the car is cleaned etc... However, when Britt comes over I will answer the door in my boxers and a t-shirt. with cigarette and coffee breath my hair combed with my pillow and dirty dishes in the sink LOL She has seen me at my worst so I dont have to impress her, and the same with her because I have held her hair back as she puked in enough toilets (and my reef tank) that she really has no place to say anything. LOL
Im in my comfort zone.

Thats why the 10 year chick makes you a minute man. Because you actually ARE a minute man, and you are being yourself instead of consciously trying to impress.... Dont be ashamed of it, its simply who you are. Deep down Im a slob, if it weren't for the robots and the cleaning lady I would have the CDC quarantining my house LOL

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RE: different sexual ability with different partner - 7/1/2008 1:13:21 PM

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its miserable, quickquestion, to be the partner to someone like this. ohhh he SAID it was a compliment to me, that it was "so good" he could only last a minute or so. no, its not. from THIS end, it feels like "god, get it over with".

its unsatisfying to the woman, its an insult to her....ESPECIALLY when she is friends with his other partners and finds out that the things he wont do at all with her? he happily does with woman #2. or #3. or so on. hearing that he can last for up to an hour with pretty much every other woman he's with? fucking heartbreaking.

yes, this is personal to me (no, i dont think the OP is my soon-to-be ex.) and i have hurt feelings still. obviously each person you're with is going to inspire different feelings, and each person is going to do different things with different reactions.

get yourself (and your hormones) under control and make sure its all good for your partner also. unless, of course, you get off on your getting off and leaving her frustrated.

kitten, happy to no longer have that sort of sexual frustration.

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RE: different sexual ability with different partner - 7/1/2008 1:17:01 PM

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I've never seen a post before that so thoroughly reminds me of a logic problem..... (goes off to draw out the solution grid...

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RE: different sexual ability with different partner - 7/1/2008 1:26:57 PM

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Minute man... five minute man... whats the difference in the long run? I don't care how many one minutes or five minutes I can get within a few minutes or an hour... a minute man belongs in a history book, not my bed. When a man's cum is more important than trying to please his partner so that both are pleased, I believe there is a serious problem. Three strokes and you're out belongs in the game of baseball, not the game of lovin.

Don't get me wrong... I love a quicky, but not if that's all I get.

Do a search and a google... I am sure you can find a way to prolong things with all the women.

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RE: different sexual ability with different partner - 7/1/2008 1:28:52 PM

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One day (hopefully) the OP will learn that pleasing a woman isn't all about his erection (or lack thereof)

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RE: different sexual ability with different partner - 7/1/2008 1:51:46 PM

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If one submissive leaves Boston going West at thirty miles per hour while another submissive leaves Chicago going East at twenty five miles per hour, and a third submissive leaves New Orleans going north at eighty miles an hour, who will get to quickquestion first? Will he have sufficient time to boink her until submissive #2 gets there?

(NOTE - this is known as "train"ing submissives.)

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RE: different sexual ability with different partner - 7/1/2008 2:42:56 PM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: DarkSteven

If one submissive leaves Boston going West at thirty miles per hour while another submissive leaves Chicago going East at twenty five miles per hour, and a third submissive leaves New Orleans going north at eighty miles an hour, who will get to quickquestion first? Will he have sufficient time to boink her until submissive #2 gets there?

(NOTE - this is known as "train"ing submissives.)

Depending on which train he was riding, it is quite possible that he would be ready for all 3 upon arrival.

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RE: different sexual ability with different partner - 7/1/2008 3:16:08 PM

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Easier Answer.

The Vaginal Canal Tecture is different so is the ability to lubricate the canal. Because of this Friction is different, Friction causes the spongy tissue in the tip of your penis to ejaculate so the more firction the faster you will come and the longer it will take to recouperate after.

Stamina can be increased by using a numbing cream and a change in your diet cutting out unnecessary red meat because it does cause the recovery time to lengthen.

and finally you need to understand that Phermones have much more to do with your recovery time then anything else you may enjoy sex with all of them but the one you find easiest to recover from is most likely the one who has the most arractive Pheremone signature.

If you are having sex with all three at different times I would suggest one thing that would help Ask them all to shower before you have sex and you should shower seperatly and equally as close to sexual intercourse because it will help you only relate to the person and not the Phermones, it will help at least with the first time however once you start sweating it will start again.

Enjoy and get tested regularly. Seriously get tested as often as you can once ever 6 months with that many partners is not enough try every other month and try to remember which sexual activites you engage in with which partner because certain types of intercourse give greater rick for sertain STD's and VD's

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RE: different sexual ability with different partner - 7/1/2008 3:18:31 PM

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LMAO