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RE: Groovin' In A Groove - 6/24/2008 6:13:48 AM   
SinLee


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Status: offline 		I am single and plan to remain so for a time at least, and as such i'm perfectly content with the level of knowledge and activity in my life right now. (granted, i'm moving thursday so that could change, lol). Overall, i'm happy exploring what i can when i can. My sanity does restrict me (as i have multiple mood disorders), but it doesn't completely exempt me from continuing to play and learn at various times. For now, it's working out well for me. 

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    RE: Groovin' In A Groove - 6/24/2008 6:16:24 AM   
    bashfulhuck


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    Status: offline     		chiapet, I have to say, I absolutely just love you and your sense of humor. I'm going through some rough things right now on an emotional level, have spent the past 2 days crying most of the time, and I read your reply to this thread and just laughed.
    As for my life right now, it's rough as hell. I have a baby brother who is battling Stage 4 cancer, was in surgery all day yesterday (and is doing very well right now), have recently moved, am starting to build a new circle of friends, one that values me for me, and have been feeling rather vulnerable through it all.
    My exploration in the BDSM world right now is wide open, simply because up until a couple of months ago, I was out of the lifestyle for years, hiding away. And I've noticed that my so called "hard limits" have softened up quite a bit, and there is alot more things in the S/M side of it that I'm willing to try.
    Overall, I'm at least accepting of my life, I might not be overly happy about how things are going right now, but I accept it, and am able to look at it honestly and know there is alot of good stuff going on right now as well.

    Peace, serenity and big hugs,
    bashful

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    RE: Groovin' In A Groove - 6/24/2008 6:22:30 AM   
    ShiftedJewel


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    Status: offline     		Hugs bashful.... I wish you the very best hon.
     
    And chia? Where are you hiding every time I try and find someone to test my homemade floggers on????
     
    And yes, I'm pretty content where I am.
     
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    RE: Groovin' In A Groove - 6/24/2008 6:36:48 AM   
    mistoferin


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    Status: offline     		Life, and even "this" life is a summitless mountain and I don't ever want to stop climbing it for very long. Yes, I am perfectly happy at the spot I'm at...but I wouldn't be content here for long. I can hang out for awhile and enjoy the beauty of it...but tomorrow is another day, new experiences, growth and things to learn. I have no desire to become stagnant or lose the desire to continue the climb and see what lies around the next bend. Life's too short.

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    RE: Groovin' In A Groove - 6/24/2008 6:58:45 AM   
    chiaThePet


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    quote:

    ORIGINAL: bashfulhuck

    chiapet, I have to say, I absolutely just love you and your sense of humor. I'm going through some rough things right now on an emotional level, have spent the past 2 days crying most of the time, and I read your reply to this thread and just laughed.


    Hey bashful, thanks for the kind notice. Prayers for your baby bro, cause
    there's more up there than atmosphere. Remember, always take the
    manure life flings at you and use it to grow a beautiful garden.

    chia* (the pet)

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    RE: Groovin' In A Groove - 6/24/2008 7:03:15 AM   
    chiaThePet


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    And chia? Where are you hiding every time I try and find someone to test my homemade floggers on????



    Well Miss Jewel, I was trying to get your attention, but you kept knocking me
    across the room mumbling something about "damn dust bunnies".

    chia* (the pet)

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    RE: Groovin' In A Groove - 6/24/2008 7:06:45 AM   
    ShiftedJewel


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    chia... you've had my attention for a long time... the dust bunny thing... that would have been twicehappy... she's a cleaning fool, you know?
     
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    RE: Groovin' In A Groove - 6/24/2008 8:04:51 AM   
    LadyRainfire


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    Status: offline     		Bashful, we wish you and your brother our thoughts and prayers, may you find peace and healing in this difficult time. Speaking for myself, I can relate to just moving and making a new circle of friends. I just moved to be with Lumus 3 weeks ago, 2300 miles from my home, friends and family to a new country. I don't have a single regret and would do it all over again. Does that make it easier? No but Lumus is worth every bit of it. I place the higher value on him and our love than the difficulties of the move. I'm in the process of settling in to our new life and enjoying it.  

    As for hard limits, they do soften and change at times. Things that I insisted were set in stone and were offlimits on even discussing a few months ago have fallen away. I've been blessed to meet someone who will talk with me, help me learn, grow and be patient with me. Yes, we have our routine. Our day to day life. We'd probably disappoint some people if they showed up to find out that I'm not chained to the bed, naked. Do I crave more? No, I'm happy where we are, on this path together. But for that matter, I was happy where I was, before I met Lumus. I wasn't looking for anyone, looking forward to my monsters moving out later this year.

    And chia? LOVE your sense of humour!!!


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    RE: Groovin' In A Groove - 6/24/2008 11:19:37 AM   
    LadyHibiscus


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    Status: offline     		Huggy pets to Bashful!!  Been there, know the drill.......we are all rooting for you here!

    (and LRF, we know it's LUMUS who is chained to the bed, you can stop trying to fool us!)

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    RE: Groovin' In A Groove - 6/24/2008 11:37:00 AM   
    gypsygrl


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    Status: offline     		I'm very much into routines and rituals because I know from having spent most my life in school that it's that kind of discipline that supports learing in a sustainable way.    I'm not into novelty for its own sake, and don't like sudden shifts of attention especially in quick succession--mania wears me down, both my own and other's--but I'm not one to sit still for long, either.

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    RE: Groovin' In A Groove - 6/25/2008 4:11:42 AM   
    LadyRainfire


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    quote:

    ORIGINAL: LadyHibiscus

    Huggy pets to Bashful!!  Been there, know the drill.......we are all rooting for you here!

    (and LRF, we know it's LUMUS who is chained to the bed, you can stop trying to fool us!)


      Ya trying to get me spanked (again!) or something, LH?

    (and you'd chain Him too if you could see scrumptious He is.....NOT that He's chained, right, Daddy?!?)




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    RE: Groovin' In A Groove - 6/25/2008 8:07:21 AM   
    LadyHibiscus


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    ORIGINAL: LadyRainfire



    (and you'd chain Him too if you could see scrumptious He is.....NOT that He's chained, right, Daddy?!?)





    Heh!  That's what I was driving at!  But I bet he has no problems staying right where you want him!

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    RE: Groovin' In A Groove - 6/25/2008 8:51:50 AM   
    DesFIP


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    Status: offline     		You appear to be describing us. The focus of our life is not checking off as many things on a checklist as possible. It's raising our children, doing our jobs, and penciling time to have fun. Which is quite often nothing bdsm related, we can enjoy going minigolfing just as much as dragging out the toy bag. We're multifaceted people and we need to do things to satisfy all those hats; parent, business owner, child, sibling, baseball fan etc.

    Honestly, I don't understand people who only have one obsessive interest. They never get caught up in a pennant/Nascar/football race? They never go to visit a relative in the hospital? They never have dinner with their family? Not me. Those things are just as important to me.

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    RE: Groovin' In A Groove - 6/25/2008 11:09:52 AM   
    LadyRainfire


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    quote:

    ORIGINAL: LadyHibiscus
    Heh!  That's what I was driving at!  But I bet he has no problems staying right where you want him!


    Uhhhhhhh, try the other way around.....

    Where he's at, is usually where I am..... (except work!)


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    RE: Groovin' In A Groove - 6/25/2008 1:46:54 PM   
    LadyHibiscus


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    Status: offline     		Now ISN'T that the same thing? 

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    RE: Groovin' In A Groove - 6/25/2008 1:58:20 PM   
    Skully7000


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    Status: offline     		Lumus, that was a great post, and I'm completely happy for you. Just as I'm completely happy for my friend who is my age, married to his highschool sweetheart and KNOWS that he will never be happier with anyone else in his life. he feels complete in the romance department.

    personally, I'm the opposite, I'm proud of the fact that i'm never satisfied. My tag line: "i'm a reaction Junkie and experience whore"  I want to experience new things. I love getting reactions out of people. My thirst for knowledge compliments both of those. I want to know how grow and expand on my bag of tricks, I want to be able to figure out how to push the buttons of my play partner in all the right ways... and if the usual buttons don't work...I will know where the hidden less common buttons are.

    I can tie up 100 people the exact same way.. but because its a different person each time, I just had 100 different experiences. and i got REALLY good at doing that one rope tie.

    but what if: 101 can't have his legs tied that way... well I will have to break out another tie...
    So while I wish you luck and respect your happines(perhaps even a bit envious of it) I am quite happy knowing that I will never be content I will never be satisfied. I will never reach my destination. Its all one big journey and I'm loving the view.

    Cheers
    Skully

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    RE: Groovin' In A Groove - 6/25/2008 7:33:09 PM   
    LadyRainfire


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    ORIGINAL: LadyHibiscus

    Now ISN'T that the same thing? 


    Yes, but wouldn't that mean I'm chained to HIM?

    (and NO, that is NOT a complaint! I wouldn't have it any other way....)

    I know, boring for some, but fun for us.....




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    RE: Groovin' In A Groove - 6/25/2008 7:54:50 PM   
    MaamJay


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    Status: offline     		It's a good thread, ty Lumus. And congrats to You and LRF on a new life together. And huggss to bashful and best wishes to your brother.

    violet is happy, very much in love with Master, 4 years after getting together 24/7 and 2 years after my collaring to Him. Despite having moved twice across Australia in that time, and still being short of cash, though He has got a new job this week! YAY Master! Just hoping He's over the Ross River Virus enough to cope with it as He still gets very fatigued. It means very little play at the moment, and not a whole lot of sex as He's so tired, and yes, that is frustrating, but He's worth waiting for.

    Jay ... well My Domme side is frustrated, still wanting to find a sub. Not quite in Domme frenzy *grin* ... but really needing to be complete by having a sub in My life. Very hard to find the right person who is accessible to Me in a rural town, one I have been talking with for a few months may not work out due to distance and schedules which is incredibly disappointing. The search continues ...

    I have in the past earnestly wished that I could be completely fulfilled being EITHER sub OR Domme ... it would make life so much easier! But the truth is that I can't, both sides are equally strong and I cannot submerge one or the other totally. So I live in hope that Jay will soon find the one who will fulfill that side of Her as much as Master fulfills violet. Even if it is just to live a pretty everyday life like the rest of you

    Maam Jay aka violet[A]

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