OmegaG
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Joined: 10/23/2007 Status: offline
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FR my personal expereince with welfare: When I was pregnant and left to fend for myself, I applied and was approved same day. Time goes by, I have the kid, I stay home with kid for a while. I think to myself "self, it's time to get a job" so I call my case worker and ask about signing up for child care assistance (which is less money then I was recieving) to go back to work. He suggests that I stay home with my kid until he goes to school since kids need their moms. In a perfect world maybe, but my kids need to know how to be self-relient too, so I say no, I want to day care assistance. It took 3 weeks to get approved, hours spend in the welfare office, documents proving that I could have a job (were I not sitting in their office) bla bla bla. And for the 4 years after that I had to take a day off work every other month to go continue to prove that I needed the day care, a day I had to take without pay and they would not make an appointment timeframe so that I could get any work in that day. Essentially, our system sucks. It is designed to be attractive to those that don't wish to achieve any amount of independence, it's frustrating to those that are trying to gain even semi-independence and it breeds the people that IK speaks of. It was designed with the best of intentions but it's now become a self-prepetuating beurocratic clog of a system that is way too big. The entire systems main focus is keeping their own cushy jobs intact. Yeah, government can cut.
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Regret for the things we did can be tempered by time; it is regret for the things we did not do that is inconsolable. Sydney J. Harris Sex without pain is like food without taste. - de Sade
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