Collarspace Discussion Forums


Home  Login  Search 

its too late tonight to drag the past into the light


View related threads: (in this forum | in all forums)

Logged in as: Guest
 
All Forums >> [Casual Banter] >> Off the Grid >> its too late tonight to drag the past into the light Page: [1] 2   next >   >>
Login
Message << Older Topic   Newer Topic >>
its too late tonight to drag the past into the light - 6/12/2008 7:16:44 PM   
JohnSteed1967


Posts: 304
Joined: 5/29/2005
From: Columbia SC
Status: offline
Tonight at my house has been another rousing chorus, of Monday Morning Quarterbacking about my exwife and our divorce.

with out going into a lot of details, I 100% believe that my exwife's parents were guilty as sin when it came to getting her to divorce me. Not that she didn't have a hand in it but that they were sure there acting as the cheerleaders and the financiers.

My questions is this to the reader Do you believe that, God, Karma, The Universe, or other supreme deity that you believe in will render a Judgement on her parents, and pay them back for their deeds????

_____________________________


"The bomb will never go off. I speak as an expert in explosives." -- Admiral William Leahy , US Atomic Bomb Project
Profile   Post #: 1
RE: its too late tonight to drag the past into the light - 6/12/2008 7:17:22 PM   
kittinSol


Posts: 16926
Status: offline
No.

_____________________________



(in reply to JohnSteed1967)
Profile   Post #: 2
RE: its too late tonight to drag the past into the light - 6/12/2008 7:47:26 PM   
MissMagnolia


Posts: 3636
Status: offline


_____________________________

if at first you dont succeed..then skydiving isnt for you

Resident Whip Cracker AND Resident Orbs Of Joy.


(in reply to kittinSol)
Profile   Post #: 3
RE: its too late tonight to drag the past into the light - 6/12/2008 7:50:10 PM   
celticlord2112


Posts: 5732
Status: offline
I believe that we are all Karma's bitch.

I also believe I'll have another beer....care to join me Miss Magnolia?


_____________________________



(in reply to JohnSteed1967)
Profile   Post #: 4
RE: its too late tonight to drag the past into the light - 6/12/2008 7:50:46 PM   
DiurnalVampire


Posts: 8125
Joined: 1/19/2006
From: Nashville, TN
Status: offline
Nope. Parents will always do what they believe is best for their kids. Whether or not that benefitted you or not nonwithstanding they had her best interests in mind. And she obviously agreed, or she wouldnt have gone.
So, honestly, get over it. Dont worry about if God or Zeus or anyone else is going to command devine retribution becasue you broke up. Just move on and stop dwelling.

DV


_____________________________

I will be your Dominate if you will be my submit - Fox

Snarko Ergo Sum
If you cannot change your mind, how are you so sure you still have one? -proverb

*Owner of Fox - collared 10/13/07*
VampiresLair

(in reply to MissMagnolia)
Profile   Post #: 5
RE: its too late tonight to drag the past into the light - 6/12/2008 7:55:09 PM   
popeye1250


Posts: 18104
Joined: 1/27/2006
From: New Hampshire
Status: offline
quote:

ORIGINAL: celticlord2112

I believe that we are all Karma's bitch.

I also believe I'll have another beer....care to join me Miss Magnolia?



Yeah, that's the order of things!

_____________________________

"But Your Honor, this is not a Jury of my Peers, these people are all decent, honest, law-abiding citizens!"

(in reply to celticlord2112)
Profile   Post #: 6
RE: its too late tonight to drag the past into the light - 6/12/2008 7:58:28 PM   
Irishknight


Posts: 2016
Joined: 9/30/2007
Status: offline
quote:

ORIGINAL: popeye1250

quote:

ORIGINAL: celticlord2112

I believe that we are all Karma's bitch.

I also believe I'll have another beer....care to join me Miss Magnolia?



Yeah, that's the order of things!

Umm .. I believe that order was for beer.

As for the OP, unless they did it out of a desire to hurt you more than a desire for what was good for their daughter, karma will probably let it slide.  Sad but true.

(in reply to popeye1250)
Profile   Post #: 7
RE: its too late tonight to drag the past into the light - 6/12/2008 8:00:50 PM   
JulieorSarah


Posts: 552
Joined: 8/25/2007
Status: offline
no
and while you're hoping it happens, you're looking back ... let it go and move forward for what's best for you ...
while we all love to hate (or love) in the heat of the moment ... while you hang on to the hatred and hostility, you'll only attract others with negatives and repel those that could be positive to you ..

(for the science buffs i know i got the science wrong in the metaphor, however i think i got the message across)

(in reply to popeye1250)
Profile   Post #: 8
RE: its too late tonight to drag the past into the light - 6/12/2008 8:01:43 PM   
kittinSol


Posts: 16926
Status: offline
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=BggXhzUhZ94

C'est comme ça

< Message edited by kittinSol -- 6/12/2008 8:02:57 PM >


_____________________________



(in reply to Irishknight)
Profile   Post #: 9
RE: its too late tonight to drag the past into the light - 6/12/2008 8:03:09 PM   
faerytattoodgirl


Posts: 5824
Status: offline
Karma karma karma karma karma chameleon
You come and go
You come and go
Loving would be easy if your colors were like my dream
Red, gold and green
Red, gold and green


_____________________________

I did not reply to your cmail.
I am flawed.
Imperfect.
MUST SPANK!!!
SPAAAAAAAANK!!!

(in reply to kittinSol)
Profile   Post #: 10
RE: its too late tonight to drag the past into the light - 6/12/2008 8:04:39 PM   
Irishknight


Posts: 2016
Joined: 9/30/2007
Status: offline
quote:

ORIGINAL: faerytattoodgirl

Karma karma karma karma karma chameleon
You come and go
You come and go
Loving would be easy if your colors were like my dream
Red, gold and green
Red, gold and green


Now that song is gonna be stuck in my head all night.

(in reply to faerytattoodgirl)
Profile   Post #: 11
RE: its too late tonight to drag the past into the light - 6/12/2008 8:11:22 PM   
BitaTruble


Posts: 9779
Joined: 1/12/2006
From: Texas
Status: offline
quote:

ORIGINAL: JohnSteed1967
When I was in College I was living in the Dorms and my personal devil was a kid by the name of Costa. Costa was a prankster and a General Asshole. One night he pushed we way too far and I quite literally grabbed him by the throat and picked him up in the air, held him suspended and threw him against the wall.




Yeah, that karma things a real bitch.



_____________________________

"Oh, so it's just like
Rock, paper, scissors."

He laughed. "You are the wisest woman I know."


(in reply to JohnSteed1967)
Profile   Post #: 12
RE: its too late tonight to drag the past into the light - 6/12/2008 8:17:13 PM   
celticlord2112


Posts: 5732
Status: offline
quote:

Umm .. I believe that order was for beer.

Yes it was....you in?

(of course you are...you're Irish....silly question.....Guiness or Young's Double Chocolate?)

It will help wash that song away


_____________________________



(in reply to Irishknight)
Profile   Post #: 13
RE: its too late tonight to drag the past into the light - 6/12/2008 8:18:57 PM   
KatyLied


Posts: 13029
Joined: 2/24/2005
From: Pennsylvania
Status: offline
Who signed the divorce papers?  I highly doubt her parents forged her name.  She's an adult, it was her decision to divorce you.  For all we know they may have had good reasons for supporting her decision.  You know he says; she says.

_____________________________

“If you want to live a happy life, tie it to a goal, not to people or things.”
- Albert Einstein

(in reply to JohnSteed1967)
Profile   Post #: 14
RE: its too late tonight to drag the past into the light - 6/12/2008 8:21:31 PM   
slvemike4u


Posts: 17896
Joined: 1/15/2008
From: United States
Status: offline
Any chance I can get in on the beer....by the way I loved and still do my in-laws,fully understanding that when push came to shove they were still my future ex's parents....we are still friends and I make it a habit to talk to my ex-father in law...besides I have this sneaky feeling that pisses off my ex...win-win all the way

(in reply to celticlord2112)
Profile   Post #: 15
RE: its too late tonight to drag the past into the light - 6/12/2008 8:24:48 PM   
MissMagnolia


Posts: 3636
Status: offline
Why thankee most kindly CL.

OO yum, I've never tried Youngs double chocolate. Never heard of it either, but it's called chocolate so I'm in!!

_____________________________

if at first you dont succeed..then skydiving isnt for you

Resident Whip Cracker AND Resident Orbs Of Joy.


(in reply to slvemike4u)
Profile   Post #: 16
RE: its too late tonight to drag the past into the light - 6/12/2008 8:30:42 PM   
celticlord2112


Posts: 5732
Status: offline
quote:

ORIGINAL: slvemike4u

Any chance I can get in on the beer....by the way I loved and still do my in-laws,fully understanding that when push came to shove they were still my future ex's parents....we are still friends and I make it a habit to talk to my ex-father in law...besides I have this sneaky feeling that pisses off my ex...win-win all the way


Of course.  Karma's not nearly as painful when there's beer.


_____________________________



(in reply to slvemike4u)
Profile   Post #: 17
RE: its too late tonight to drag the past into the light - 6/12/2008 8:33:02 PM   
slvemike4u


Posts: 17896
Joined: 1/15/2008
From: United States
Status: offline
Yay Beer  

(in reply to celticlord2112)
Profile   Post #: 18
RE: its too late tonight to drag the past into the light - 6/13/2008 2:27:52 AM   
pinksugarsub


Posts: 1224
Status: offline
quote:

ORIGINAL: JohnSteed1967

Tonight at my house has been another rousing chorus, of Monday Morning Quarterbacking about my exwife and our divorce.

with out going into a lot of details, I 100% believe that my exwife's parents were guilty as sin when it came to getting her to divorce me. Not that she didn't have a hand in it but that they were sure there acting as the cheerleaders and the financiers.

My questions is this to the reader Do you believe that, God, Karma, The Universe, or other supreme deity that you believe in will render a Judgement on her parents, and pay them back for their deeds????


i'm sorry for the distress You're experiencing, JohnSteed.
 
To answer Your question: i'm a catholic.  Under my dogma, i believe if you die with a mortal sin on your soul, you will be forever damned to hell.
 
As an individual, i believe there's no truth to the axiom 'what goes around comes around'.  i've seen far too many P/pl commit evil acts and go on to prosper. 
 
What i do think is that every evil act W/we commit accumulates in U/us like garbage.  One day, some P/pl will wake up and realise T/they are nothing but trash containers -- that T/their humanity has all been spent.  Maybe it won't bother T/them, but to me it'd be a living death.
 
pinksugarsub

< Message edited by pinksugarsub -- 6/13/2008 2:32:45 AM >


_____________________________





(in reply to JohnSteed1967)
Profile   Post #: 19
RE: its too late tonight to drag the past into the light - 6/13/2008 2:33:26 AM   
meatcleaver


Posts: 9030
Joined: 3/13/2006
Status: offline
No. But it also sounds like you married her parents as well as your wife which means you are better out of it.

_____________________________

There are fascists who consider themselves humanitarians, like cannibals on a health kick, eating only vegetarians.

(in reply to JohnSteed1967)
Profile   Post #: 20
Page:   [1] 2   next >   >>
All Forums >> [Casual Banter] >> Off the Grid >> its too late tonight to drag the past into the light Page: [1] 2   next >   >>
Jump to:





New Messages No New Messages
Hot Topic w/ New Messages Hot Topic w/o New Messages
Locked w/ New Messages Locked w/o New Messages
 Post New Thread
 Reply to Message
 Post New Poll
 Submit Vote
 Delete My Own Post
 Delete My Own Thread
 Rate Posts




Collarchat.com © 2025
Terms of Service Privacy Policy Spam Policy

0.203