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slavegirljoy -> RE: Matching the Imagination. (6/9/2008 4:17:25 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Dnomyar How much does your imagination influence your lifestyle? 90 - 95% of how i am living my life is directly related to what i imagined as my ideal life. i have no idea where those figures came from. They just popped into my head and seem right to me, somehow. Everything that i ever imagined i wanted my life to look like, since i was quite young, has finally become reality. Of course, there is also the reality of having to deal with the unexpected and unplanned for events that life throws at us. But, that is being dealt with in a way that fits with how i have imagined my life. To me, if i hadn't imagined it, how could i have found it? In order to know what i was looking for, in the first place, i needed a vision of it in my head. Of course, i never really believed that i would actually achieve what i imagined but, i never gave up on my vision and, after many, many years of searching and trying different things with different people, i now have what i imagined (and so much more than i ever expected). joy Owned servant of Master David

MidMichCowboy -> RE: Matching the Imagination. (6/9/2008 5:43:26 PM)
Hey, I'm very flexible. As long as she doesn't mind if I carry her off and do whatever I want with and to her, I'm good. (What's a safeword????)

daddysliloneds -> RE: Matching the Imagination. (6/9/2008 6:03:02 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Dnomyar Are we on CM to find someone who matches our Imagination. Would we compromise our imagination if the person had different kinks. Seems like people in LDR's would have to have very vivid imaginations. How much does your imagination influence your lifestyle? huh? i have a wonderful imagination! you could give me four rocks or a piece of chalk, and i could entertain myself all day with them! i highly doubt that it's just going to go away because of mine or my partners kinks! my imagination influences things in my life, but not my lifestyle; something i learned would happen when i was just a wee tike; unless of course, i were ungodly rich; then i'd be eccentric for sure! i don't seem to understand what having a great imagination would have to do with whether or not a ldr would work? unless of course, you're talking about the people who try to put to task, control, web-cam or orgasm control/denial/give, etc. their significant other while they are apart. however, believe it or not, there are some of us that don't buy into that bullshit because we have busy and full lives when we're away from each other ; it's not something we need/want , and it works out fine for us!

LadyHibiscus -> RE: Matching the Imagination. (6/9/2008 7:15:37 PM)
I think I am looking to match my hopes, rather than my imagination.

Maya2001 -> RE: Matching the Imagination. (6/9/2008 7:33:09 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Dnomyar Are we on CM to find someone who matches our Imagination. Would we compromise our imagination if the person had different kinks. Seems like people in LDR's would have to have very vivid imaginations. How much does your imagination influence your lifestyle? I think all of us are somewhat guilty of having an imaginary/fantasy ideal of a partner which is likely over what we will end up with if we are really honest about ....I can image having a dom that looks like this http://a1259.g.akamai.net/f/1259/5586/5d/images.art.com/images/-/Robert-Redford--C10040585.jpeg Does it mean I am settling if I instead accept a Dom that doesn't??? In my opinion ..no ... Reality is I will be happy is I find a Dom that I am attracted to mentally/in part physically.. ..who meets my needs and who I enjoy being with and that I trust and am comfortable with and who also feels the same way about me ...If I find that person then I have met my actual ideal ...We also have fantasies that is what propels us through life whether is winning millions in the lottery ..fantasies about how we will spend retirement..our dream person ..the dream job... imaging have sex with a person but in your imagination your 30 years younger Fantasties are rarely things we expect to come true but it is nice thinking about ..most people have a grounded reality of the minimum they expect , the fantasy is the top tier About a year ago I start an online friendship with a Dom who is an actor/director/playwright for months we had chatted about things like travel, our personal lives, careers, music, our familiesmedical systems in US and Canada, Bdsm interests, politics etc and at point he had mentioned he directed and acted in some porn and bdsm movies and I delevoped some imaginary fantasy images of what would look like [:)] and be like about 7 months into he asked if we could meet..he is in NC and I am in Ont and shortly after sent a picture of himself which of course was nothing like where my imagination took me..but of course I am imagining him as a lot younger as well.. and we both discussed how our time would be spent together with some fantasy/imagination thrown in which was way more than what we actually did bought we were still comfortable with each other and enjoyed our time together enough so to plan another get together this July and once again some fantasy/imagination is throw in again ..if we do a 1/4 of what we imagine we will still have a great time. Imagination also plays a part in the overall relationship we would enjoy if we could take it long term but reality is the border issues and careers make it impossible, but it does not stop us from talking about and fantasizing about but we are ground enough in reality to accept it won't happen so still seek but will meet now and again if the opportunities present themselves...when GM announced the closure of the plants in the US and the Truck plant here ...he contacted me right away to ask if it was my plant(it wasn't) partly out of worry for me and because it opened up new possibilities for a possible future. Even though our relationship is long distance it is not one bassed on online scening, if you recalls the days before the internet and spending time on the phone with a girlfriend chatting and talking it is much the same here

Leatherist -> RE: Matching the Imagination. (6/9/2008 8:23:28 PM)
I make images reality.

MidMichCowboy -> RE: Matching the Imagination. (6/10/2008 1:22:56 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: LadyHibiscus I think I am looking to match my hopes, rather than my imagination. This is probably the hardest part. To have a dream that remains unfulfilled ...

Dnomyar -> RE: Matching the Imagination. (6/10/2008 4:46:43 AM)
Are not hope and imagination intertwined? thank you Maya. You had a great responce.

Deliena -> RE: Matching the Imagination. (6/10/2008 12:30:25 PM)
I don't think we're matching imaginations either, although finding people with compatible inspirations is important. I have a strong imagination and a lot of my sexuality is mentally driven, whether triggered by scent, sound (including speech), text or day dreams. My Master values this as my imagination helps us come up with creative ideas for play that satisfy both of us as well as coming up with creative solutions for the problems our daily lives through at us.

MasterFireMaam -> RE: Matching the Imagination. (6/11/2008 2:28:02 AM)
A LOT. Imagine (if you will) a recording of THIS (skip to the end) http://youtube.com/watch?v=pAMjucl6Urs&feature=related in one earphone and THIS http://youtube.com/watch?v=APmHR2bmQgw in the other...while tied down. Over and over and over... Master Fire

Lumus -> RE: Matching the Imagination. (6/12/2008 3:44:51 PM)
My imagination impacts every facet of my existence. Y'all only see a shadow of me, here. I have not, in my 35 years, met a person whom I was aware of [or would admit to] having the same breadth of imagination that I do. My son demonstrates signs of it; when he's my age he'll probably be far more demented [err, creative] than me. Ergo, I don't look for someone to match my creativity, just someone who can appreciate it for what it is. And lo, I have my Rain. And it was good. [:)]

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