soul2share
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Joined: 12/18/2007 From: somewhere out there..... Status: offline
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I just got off the phone a bit ago with my son, I thought he was down with a cold or flu, but he told me that his maternal great grandmother died last Friday, and I am just beside myself. I loved her tons, she was the best grandma anyone could ask for! And her daughter, my son's gma, ended up in the hospital, they don't know if it was a heart attack or stroke, or the stress. I feel so awful that I can't be there for him to just fold him up in my arms and let hin cry. I hope he lets himself grieve, when he lost his paternal gpa, he held it inside and it finally broke loose one night when he was staying with me....scared the crap out of me...he was sobbing like I've never heard. His parents talked him out of going to the funeral......sometimes I'd really like to kick his dad in thee ass....I don't do funerals, but I know that for a lot of people, they are necessary for closure. My son also mentioned that she died almost 7 years to the day that her husband, great gpa, did. She was always such a vibrant woman, I can't believe she's gone. {sigh} I feel so helpless as his mom right now. And sad, I loved her like a grandma when I was still married to the ex.
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I have to stop saying "How stupid can you be?"...people are starting to take it as a challenge! *Not a fuck was given.*
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