Aylee
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ORIGINAL: yourdarkdesire something about this handfasting/marriage at age 16 just sounds fundamentally wrong Perhaps they could exchange a promise ring? After finishing high school an engagement ring and then marriage after college? Also Shahar, you might want to ask them where they are going to live and what they are going to use for money. Student jobs are not usually known for being well-paid. And 16 is too young to enter into contracts for things like a lease, electricity, water, cable, yadda yadda. Marriage may not be a good idea; of all the couples on Teen Mom (MTV), the only one still together is the pair that gave up their child in an open adoption. Even they had a rocky time of it. Would Bo charge T with statutory r-word? T's up for 2-20 years at this point. This is why I suggested the slower route for commitment. No matter how well intentioned I just do not see this turning out well. Although I do have to give kudos to the idea of getting married/hand-fasted because of pregnancy.
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