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RE: How would you define the role of a Daddy Dom? - 5/29/2008 3:08:03 PM

MstrObjectmaker

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Who and/or what is a Daddy Dom?

a Dom who believes that "nurturing", "guiding", "protecting" and "teaching" are traits exclusive to those who call themselves "Daddy".

...or they just like the sound of it.

I thought as much myself.

Thanks.

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RE: How would you define the role of a Daddy Dom? - 5/29/2008 6:01:55 PM

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i would like to respond to Leatherist's comment about a Daddy Dom being an enabler. My experience with my Daddy is quite the opposite. As a matter of fact my Daddy is the first man in my life to tell me no and mean it. i have been quite spoiled. i have twisted the men in my life around and always got my way. My father (my biological parent), never told me no and if he did i would cry and get my way. i have always gotten by in life flirting and batting my eyes and having men give me what i want. i have always used my looks and personality to my advantage. i am an independent woman, my Daddy embraces this part of me and encourages it. i am a professional and i do very well in a male dominated profession in which the only other woman in my office is my asst, in a office of over 50 people. i thrive in my field, i have the respect of my peers in my field. My Daddy does not enable me in anyway and does not allow me to pout, cry or talk him out of anything. In fact he gives me the discipline and makes me face the consequences of my actions. He has given me what i always wanted...a man i do not have wrapped around my finger. So this would not apply to my Daddy. i would agree some Daddy's do have the knight in shining armour complex and want to rescue and save their little girls. i am not someone who needs this. i have craved a man who would tell me no and now i finally have him.

In response to MstrObjectmaker: i do have sex with my Daddy...as much and as often as he will allow. It is not age play. i am 42 and he is 51. It is more of a softer way to approach me. He is my Daddy and my Master. Daddy is his soft side and Master is the strict, firm side of him. i can tell by his tone of voice, the way he carries himself and the look in his eyes when he is in "Daddy mode" or "Master mode". He takes me to sub space quite often when we have sessions, he likes to describe it as Master takes me there and Daddy brings me back. i must say this fits for us. It doesn't for everyone. i would also like to say we (my Daddy and i) dont allow others to define us or our relationship. i think you make your relationship what you want it to be.

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RE: How would you define the role of a Daddy Dom? - 5/29/2008 8:10:21 PM

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So, do daddydoms have sex with their little girls? I read a post by a dom who's gf is the little girl of a daddydom. it seemed odd that she would have a daddydom, and a boyfriend. Please educate me

Some do, and they'll tell you that doesn't make it equivalent to incest play. Some don't, but they'll say that if they did it wouldn't be incest play.

They can justify however they like, but if you're calling someone "Daddy" all the time and sucking their dick, it's incest play. Not that there's anything wrong with that...

As always, just my opinion. Feel free to substitute your own.

I very much disagree with your assumption.

You are basing your idea on what "Daddy" means to you...it does not exist in that context for everyone.

Im curious what he was supposed to base his beliefs on???

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RE: How would you define the role of a Daddy Dom? - 5/30/2008 5:43:05 AM

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In response to MstrObjectmaker: i do have sex with my Daddy...as much and as often as he will allow. It is not age play. i am 42 and he is 51. It is more of a softer way to approach me. He is my Daddy and my Master. Daddy is his soft side and Master is the strict, firm side of him. i can tell by his tone of voice, the way he carries himself and the look in his eyes when he is in "Daddy mode" or "Master mode". He takes me to sub space quite often when we have sessions, he likes to describe it as Master takes me there and Daddy brings me back. i must say this fits for us. It doesn't for everyone. i would also like to say we (my Daddy and i) dont allow others to define us or our relationship. i think you make your relationship what you want it to be.

Thank you "hiswetness",

I found your discription of the two different sides of your "Daddy" very illuminating.

And I would have to say that, that is how I have begun to see myself, on the one hand I am gentle and loving with a propensity for giving TLC, but on the other hand I am also a strict authoritarian who is fairly sadistic.

So the combination of both "Daddy" and Master I would say does go someway to describe the kind of man I am.

Thank you for your imput.

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RE: How would you define the role of a Daddy Dom? - 5/30/2008 6:42:44 AM

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ORIGINAL: SailingBum

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Some do, and they'll tell you that doesn't make it equivalent to incest play. Some don't, but they'll say that if they did it wouldn't be incest play.

They can justify however they like, but if you're calling someone "Daddy" all the time and sucking their dick, it's incest play. Not that there's anything wrong with that...

As always, just my opinion. Feel free to substitute your own.

I very much disagree with your assumption.

You are basing your idea on what "Daddy" means to you...it does not exist in that context for everyone.

Im curious what he was supposed to base his beliefs on???

BadOne

Of course, you are right on this... .

My point was an explanation of why I personally disagreed with his conclusion.
To me, there is a big difference between using the word "Daddy" and have it represent safety, nurturing guidance and having someone fantasize about sex with their male parent.
Calling someone Daddy does not automatically mean they are thinking of the latter.

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