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MissMorrigan -> RE: Mono Relationship - Using Another As Punishment (5/24/2008 8:28:10 AM)
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Hello Batshalom, you are one insightful lady. Thank you for your reply, it resonates with what I know of my submissive. I haven't been able to get back to this thread until today, it's been a hectic week at work for me. I do think I was over-analysing the gesture Reality was making. While I always have the final say-so, I do like to have his input and suggestions. I know he loves me implicitly and is devoted, I sincerely believe that in his own way he was telling me what he'd be prepare to endure for my happiness, but also that he gained a lot of reassurance with my response.
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ORIGINAL: batshalom
~fast reply~
My first reaction is that he wants your assurance that while it might be hot, you wouldn't actually do it. It may seem like a fantastic fantasy to him, but monogamy seems to be such an issue that perhaps he wants / needs the embrace of your reassurance.
He: Here it is, I am giving up this hard limit.
You: No, my dear, (or whatever you call him), it is not something I'm interested in pursuing. You fulfill all my needs and desires.
I don't know about you, but as a sub who has been in a similar situation, such a thing would make my day (and it did). ~smiling~
(Please note that I don't think he's being manipulative - the above scenario sounds manipulative to me. I think he truly wants to please you and would give up a lot in order to do so.) I am happy for you to have found such a devoted submissive.
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