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Owner4SexSlave -> RE: How to introduce someone...slowly.....??? (5/19/2008 2:36:52 AM)
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Are you more interested in seeing if she has interest in it first? If so, having her understand. Or are you wanting to know about D/s regardless so she can relate to you?
I've gotten into the topic of D/s and BDSM, because a girl expressed how she had the whole femists view point, that she in fact hated it. Ended up having a 4 hour conversation, and I was totally open with her about BDSM.
There have been times, when I've made kinky jokes. I tend to see how people react to the jokes at times. Hell, have had a few good conversations start up in some places with complete strangers. However, kink talk is centered around D/s.
Hell, you could simply start talking with her about the different kinds of relationships that your vanilla friends have. D/s is or not there if you look hard enough. Many guys refering to their Girlfriends as "The Boss", you could simply start with light hearted conversation about that. She what she has to honestly say or express about that one. It may or may not suprise you what her reaction or point of view is on the matter.
If you don't want to come off all sexist sounding about D/s, talk about from the angle of a women being in charge. Switch it around to a Man being in charge. D/s is a tricky topic because of the Sexist based conditioning behind it at times.
Make it clear that it's not a sexist thing, not unless that's how you honestly view things. Meaning the Man should always be in charge. D/s is anything but sexist in my book. Then again, my book is written by it's own Twisted Auther.
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