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BlackPhx -> RE: keeping it secret (5/1/2008 1:28:23 PM)
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ORIGINAL: ProfJoe
Most of all, at the bottom of the desktop I have a counter. Today it is 761 days till Swamp Thing finds her own bog to destroy! Meanwhile, tonight I want to wake her around 3:30 or so ... I have these nipple clamps and an interest in some oral service. But we'll have to see what 3:30 brings and if how bad a day she's had at work.
Best wishes on your adventure -- creativity is the watch word.
Prof Joe
Ahh the dreams of the soon to be disillusioned. They talk a good game, they promise they are leaving, they even start dating someone seriously or check out colleges...and then. You mean it costs to live on my OWN!?!?!?!
They start adding up, rent (maybe shared but it's THIER Money (WAH)), Utilities (wash, rinse, repeat), Car Insurance, Health Insurance, Food, well come on you know the drill you have been paying it for how long? That is when they realize, hey it's not so bad here, all that stuff is taken care of AND I get my laundry done.
I literally had to move TWICE to get my oldest out of the house. He got married to a woman with a child, and brought her HOME to live, while expecting another. I litterally moved into a rental that was too small for them, as well as ex2b and me as, well, I decided I no longer wanted to get out of bed, walk across the house and take care of my grandson who was caterwailing 18 inches from his mothers head while she slept on. Laziest female I have ever met and a bad enough cook that when she made lasagna, we gave it to the dog and she looked at me as if to ask why i was trying to poison her, then took it into the back yard and buried it.
Omega, not sure how old yours is, but getting used to a new town/school/meeting people is going to be fun angst for him. You may have to pry him out the door with a crowbar, but once he gets interested in the local activities it is going to be hard to pry him back in the door.
There are several thngs you can do however that can reinforce the play without being obvious about it. Formal Manners and Protocols (never touching a door unless he has indicated it is ok, otherwise waiting for him to open them for example) is one of them always using Sir, Yes thank you, etc. which is also a good example for the Um. Under clothing torments are easy enough to add without anyone being the wiser. I used to have a clitoral triangle and a hood piercing that could be weighted, belled, or leashed through a pocket, it could make for some interesting times at the mall. Easily hidden but very much at the forefront of the mind. A great number of the things that you do on a regular basis can have a BDSM slant if you thnk about it. Resting his head in your lap as he reads or watches TV. Cooking things you know he enjoys, secret looks and signals that tell you where to go and what to do...without words.
Go for it and enjoy life, you are not shutting out your UM, and he will always come first if he is ill or has homework a project, game whatever, but that doesn't mean you and your Lord can't have more of your time as well. Discretion is the biggest game of all if played right.
poenkitten
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