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Rudeness~Politness - 4/24/2008 9:28:45 AM   
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Misty here.
 
I don't think sending a compliment to someone is being Rude.
 
Tell me if I'm wrong,
but if you are trying to let someone know
that they have a great page and profile,
their shouldn't be any question
as to whether or not it is Rude.
 
It is a Compliment! Hello??
 
Anybody else have any thoughts?
 
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RE: Rudeness~Politness - 4/24/2008 9:31:20 AM   
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"wow babes your pic is totally hot" - says on my profile dont write that to me
"hey babe great profile so where are you from" - duh if you read my profile you wouldnt have to ask

see context is everything

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RE: Rudeness~Politness - 4/24/2008 9:31:22 AM   
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Yeah I think you run into a lot of strange people lately.

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RE: Rudeness~Politness - 4/24/2008 9:32:37 AM   
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i agree with you, but have been surprised and summarily dismissed for this with either no or a terse response.  to that i say "to each their own"  translate it into russian and then back, where it comes out to say, "everybody masturbates in their own way".  i smile, snicker and move on.

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RE: Rudeness~Politness - 4/24/2008 9:37:35 AM   
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Misty, I suppose it depends on how you worded it, whether the other person had had their coffee that morning, and what the email before yours had said. So many variables go into our reactions (being mere humans, y'know).

I have sent people compliments on their profiles and on their forum posts. Fortunately, they have all been accepted in the spirit in which they were written.

My advice is just to shrug and ignore. Their reaction to something you thought was polite does you no harm, and it gives you more insight into their personality.

pip, always striving to be polite


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RE: Rudeness~Politness - 4/24/2008 9:37:38 AM   
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There are tons of strange people everywhereLOL. To the op I don't see anything wrong with people posting compliments. Just as long as they don't cross any lines, but if they cross any lines, I get very annoyed and those people go on the block list

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RE: Rudeness~Politness - 4/24/2008 9:42:26 AM   
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From the tee archives:

"Nice tits, I wanna bite that cunt and rape your ass."

Flatterer.

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RE: Rudeness~Politness - 4/24/2008 9:45:38 AM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: subtee

From the tee archives:

"Nice tits, I wanna bite that cunt and rape your ass."

Flatterer.


So you did get my message after all, huh?

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RE: Rudeness~Politness - 4/24/2008 9:46:43 AM   
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See I compliment people all the time.

"Nice Tit's wanna suck my cock?"
"Hey you are just good looking enough to fall at the bottom of my 'I'd hit that if I were desperate' scale so Wanna Cam?"
"Are you sure you aren't a Man cause those are mighty muscular shoulders"
"I'm Horny and out of all the people who are online right now you seemed like the easiest to convince to let me put it in your butt"

I mean these are HIGH compliments I always wonder why the girls get so mad. I mean come on. I could have said "Nice Gash."  but I don't wanna steal Domiguys lines.

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RE: Rudeness~Politness - 4/24/2008 9:48:53 AM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: subtee

From the tee archives:

"Nice tits, I wanna bite that cunt and rape your ass."

Flatterer.


And this didn't get you swooning??

I mean comeone what does a guy have to say to get you to let hium bite your cunt and rape your ass? I ask because I think I agree with Flatterer here Tee.

So would any of my other lines work on you??

Steel

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RE: Rudeness~Politness - 4/24/2008 10:00:35 AM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: MadRabbit

quote:

ORIGINAL: subtee

From the tee archives:

"Nice tits, I wanna bite that cunt and rape your ass."

Flatterer.


So you did get my message after all, huh?


I did. Thank you kindly. I was so overwhelmed with submission that I plummeted--plummeted to my knees where I've been ever since, puddling on the floor and waiting for you to come and smack a collar on my neck.

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RE: Rudeness~Politness - 4/24/2008 10:04:46 AM   
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I dunno,women get all upset when I tell then they would look great in diapers. Did I err?

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RE: Rudeness~Politness - 4/24/2008 10:05:16 AM   
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ORIGINAL: SteelofUtah

And this didn't get you swooning??

I mean comeone what does a guy have to say to get you to let hium bite your cunt and rape your ass? I ask because I think I agree with Flatterer here Tee.

So would any of my other lines work on you??

Steel


Um...I think my favorite is this one:
quote:

"I'm Horny and out of all the people who are online right now you seemed like the easiest to convince to let me put it in your butt"


It makes me feel special, being singled out from "all the people who are online right now," and you seem to recognize that I'm not a completely easly sleezy subby slut since you'll have to "convince me." So yes, that would work. [Waiting...]

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RE: Rudeness~Politness - 4/24/2008 10:09:24 AM   
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I send people compliments--what irritates Me is when I don't get a thank you, especially from make subs who are whining that that are looking and can't find someone!

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RE: Rudeness~Politness - 4/24/2008 10:14:05 AM   
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Tee quit bitching. At least I spelled all the words all right.

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RE: Rudeness~Politness - 4/24/2008 10:23:49 AM   
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That's true. More and more that's becoming more attractive due to its rarity.

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RE: Rudeness~Politness - 4/24/2008 11:03:48 AM   
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I've never been so happy as when I got the message 'Nice tits girlsub I wanna fuck you till you tear'

Seriously I found Him, the Domly Dom for me.

I'm crying thinking of what we've shared....

'...till you tear'

I'll never find better.

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RE: Rudeness~Politness - 4/24/2008 11:08:35 AM   
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Ok I should add that I do get compliments, mostly on honesty in my profile and the latest entry in my journal.

And I always say thanks, sometimes to no reply sometimes leading to a nice conversation, so compliments are good.



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RE: Rudeness~Politness - 4/24/2008 11:14:41 AM   
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yes people compliment me on my tattoo's....and some on my titties....and rare ones on my long locks of red hair.

which definately means they never read the profile.


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RE: Rudeness~Politness - 4/24/2008 12:23:37 PM   
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I always reply, even if it's just 'thx'.

And I'll send compliments when I think theyre warranted. Usually something like "I enjoyed your profile/post/journal entry.  Occasionally I'll compliment a physical attribute (nice hair!), but I make a point of also commenting on something written in the profile. As someone else pointed out, the rude responses (thankfully rare) let me see something of the person on the other end. The no-responses I assume mean that either my mail has gone into the bulk folder, the person gets so many emails that they havent gotten to mine, or theyre just rude..LOL

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