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cjan -> RE: OMG: My great uncle was in the KKK! (4/24/2008 6:11:39 AM)
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I, of course, agree that we are not, individually, responsible for the past or accountable for anyones' action other than our own. I'm thinking, however, that since this topic has come up, and the issue of personal responsibility, it might be an opportunity to examine our own attitudes regarding prejudices and conditioning. I grew up in Chicago which is a great town, a town of neighborhoods. The neighborhoods are, to a large extent ,composed of ethnocentric and ,in some cases, racial groups. That makes for an interesting city with obviious benefits but, also, has certain consequences. One of those consequences is prejudice that is passed from generation to generation and is deeply rooted in the social fabric. I was surprised, years later, to find how deeply rooted some of these prejudices may be, ecven to the extent that one may be unaware that one has lingering vestiges of them. For example. I remember as a young man, on my first visit to Europe, being in a cafe in Paris and struggling to place my order with the stereotypical ly rude Parisian waiter who refused to acknowledge that he understood perfectle well what I wanted. A well dressed black man took a seat at an empty table next to mine and I noticed the thought cross my mind that this black man was gonna have a helluva time getting coffee or a bite to eat. Yes, I was naive. Of course, the black gentleman spoke perfect French , but I learned a lesson. Another example is how, even today, if a black person happens to cut me off in traffic, the thought that jumps into my mind is a racial curse. I understand that, as humans, we do not control the thoughts that come to mind. We may , however , chose our words, responses and actions. To me, it's useful to keep in mind that I have to be alert to thoughts and attitudes that spring up, as well as be aware that prejudice, unexamined , can cause havoc.
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