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Griswold -> RE: someone please explain this (4/17/2008 8:01:47 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: jezzabelle19

ok what is up with the capping like Y/you and other things like that when do you use it and why? (by the way im new into this so i dont know a lot)


Actually...that's an incredibly complex question...and knowing that you're new here...be careful...a lot of men will try to take advantage of you...on the subtlest of pretext's.

(Wanna have sex?).

And let me just state at the outset...I mean that in the most submissive of ways.



graceadieu -> RE: someone please explain this (4/17/2008 8:08:15 PM)

It annoys the piss out of me.

But I guess if it gets some people off, or gives them psychological satisfaction, I'm not going to stand in their way. Just don't feel obligated to do it! Especially to complete strangers.



SteelofUtah -> RE: someone please explain this (4/17/2008 11:04:18 PM)

Does that mean that you would be obligated to do it if we were on a first name basis?

Would you do it in a Train? Would you do it in the Rain? Would you do it with a Fox? Would you do it in a Box?

Where was I going with this??

I forgot.

I am Tired and should most likely go to bed.

Steel



slavegirljoy -> RE: someone please explain this (4/18/2008 2:50:36 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: Stephann

You're welcome to take offense where none was intended if you wish.

Stephan


Stephan,
No offense was taken and i never suspected any was intended.  i didn't mean to sound as though i was offended by your post.  i simply wanted to express my own views on this topic and to express a counterpoint to the views that you stated.  i understand and value your opinion.  i only wanted to express my own opinion and add another perspective to this discussion. 
  
joy
Owned servant of Master David



UncleNasty -> RE: someone please explain this (4/18/2008 4:03:07 PM)

I'm with grace. It annoys me too. It only annoys the piss out of me if there is someone around to piss on.

Uncle Nasty



DS4DUMMIES -> RE: someone please explain this (4/18/2008 4:52:09 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: CalifChick

Awww cmon, Kystie!  You mean you don't like it when you see the following examples (that I have seen here):

Is someO/one going to answer that part of the question? <-- you would really type someOne to a dominant??
When I talk to M/my sub... <--- seriously... capitalizing "my" and then not knowing if you consider yourself dominant or not??
Are A/all of you... <--- the word isn't even a pronoun or a noun, gimme a break!

Cali





Ahhhhh...online ebonics :)



graceadieu -> RE: someone please explain this (4/22/2008 9:30:02 AM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: SteelofUtah

Does that mean that you would be obligated to do it if we were on a first name basis?

Would you do it in a Train? Would you do it in the Rain? Would you do it with a Fox? Would you do it in a Box?

Where was I going with this??

I forgot.

I am Tired and should most likely go to bed.

Steel


Haha. Nah, I just mean that a sub doesn't have any obligation to kow-tow to some random stranger on the internet, just because they're a Dom.



stella41b -> RE: someone please explain this (4/22/2008 11:02:56 AM)

Rasta Ozzy on Collarme
Decide fe check a little Domme for he
And when him check out dem thing him read
Him stop and wonder if him smoke too much weed
Him hand 'pon him jaw Lord
Dem words him read mek him meditate
Comprehension so hard Lord
Ozzy wonder about what means educate
And mek up him mind Lord
When a capital letter decide him date
And writing plain English
Might not be enough to sign him fate

(write to Me)
No I no fe seek a Queen
(O/our lifestyle)
I no check but a me feel green
(W/we like T/them)
What you know it kind of change
(Y/you and M/me)
But a me think it strange
(H/him and H/her)
What you know you no sight for reap
((W/we and D/dem)
Scratch me head when me pull me pipe
(D/dem and D/dey)
Hush me mouth and watch de brethren here
Understand I de words dem write so queer

Mistress Marcie, she pull up a stool
She fe question Ozzy how him so fool
Using proper grammar, and the whole lot
To write about D/s, she never did hear about that
Well Dommes and de Masters
Give he time they try explain
It's just simple writing
To show up de humble de letters change
But Ozzy wonder
Him show him not sure about that
Him ask if it's normal
In BDSM to write like a pratt

(write to Me)
No I no fe seek a Queen
(O/our lifestyle)
I no check but a me feel green
(W/we like T/them)
What you know it kind of change
(Y/you and M/me)
But a me think it strange
(H/him and H/her)
What you know you no sight for reap
((W/we and D/dem)
Scratch me head when me pull me pipe
(D/dem and D/dey)
Hush me mouth and watch de brethren here
Understand I de words dem write so queer

Ozzy get another c-mail
From a little Domme who live up de hill
Never guess who you think him meet
Mistress Sophie from across him street
She wrote in plain English
Ozzy tink she a in him bag
Him write with de capital
Mistress Sophie she a lose her rag
She tek up de flogger
And mek pretty patterns on Ozzy back
Some like it, some don't
It's as simple as dat

(write to Me)
No I no fe seek a Queen
(O/our lifestyle)
I no check but a me feel green
(W/we like T/them)
What you know it kind of change
(Y/you and M/me)
But a me think it strange
(H/him and H/her)
What you know you no sight for reap
((W/we and D/dem)
Scratch me head when me pull me pipe
(D/dem and D/dey)
Hush me mouth and watch de brethren here
Understand I de words dem write so queer

Sincerest apologies to Pluto Shervington..




Poetryinpain -> RE: someone please explain this (4/22/2008 11:16:26 AM)

Oh, Stella! My sides hurt now. That was inspired!

(I know - it was inspired by Pluto Shervington, but to make it so appropriate was pure Stella.)

pip, [insert yellow clappy things here]



LPslittleclip -> RE: someone please explain this (4/22/2008 5:42:33 PM)

my M'Lady told me when i asked her about it that it dated back before INTERNET when actual writing was done to communicate with the other members. that being said my M'Lady said that i should do it to please her so i do when addressing O/others



Poetryinpain -> RE: someone please explain this (4/22/2008 6:27:13 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: LPslittleclip

my M'Lady told me when i asked her about it that it dated back before INTERNET when actual writing was done to communicate with the other members. that being said my M'Lady said that i should do it to please her so i do when addressing O/others


I'm curious. I've seen you refer to "my M'Lady in many posts, and I feel this thread is as good a place as any to ask: what does M'Lady mean? I thought it meant "my Lady" as it did in Victorian times (and even today in England). Does it mean something else here?

pip, trying to understand



ResidentSadist -> RE: someone please explain this (4/22/2008 6:44:19 PM)

Aoccdrnig to a rscheearch at Cmabrigde Uinervtisy, it deosn't mttaer in waht oredr the ltteers in a wrod are, the olny iprmoetnt tihng is taht the frist and lsat ltteer be at the rghit pclae. The rset can be a toatl mses and you can sitll raed it wouthit porbelm. Tihs is bcuseae the huamn mnid deos not raed ervey lteter by istlef, but the wrod as a wlohe.

I/i can read the above better than if Y/you or my S/slave wrote like this to E/everyone...so why should W/we bother with this protocol?



mypain56 -> RE: someone please explain this (4/22/2008 6:51:13 PM)

i was taught it was sign of respect from a Mistress who happened to be my mentor. she would get on me constantly about the way i would address Dom/me online. Now it's so stuck in my mind that i just naturally do it. i cap Sir/Mistress and lower case submissive/slaves. Lower case i, upper cap, Daddy,Master,Him/Her/He/She when in reference to a Dominant. i think it's sign of respect, discipline,obiedience.... although my Daddy has never mentioned anything in reference too it, maybe He does acknowledge that i do it and that's all He cares about. Kind of like if it's not broke don't fix it.
 
Melly/srln:654-049-049



vampiresscammy -> RE: someone please explain this (4/22/2008 9:31:07 PM)

to the OP - find what you like, and do that, no matter what you pick someone will find some problem with it sooner or later, so just stixk with what you like, and to heck with the over persons issues



LadyPact -> RE: someone please explain this (4/23/2008 5:32:21 AM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: Poetryinpain

quote:

ORIGINAL: LPslittleclip

my M'Lady told me when i asked her about it that it dated back before INTERNET when actual writing was done to communicate with the other members. that being said my M'Lady said that i should do it to please her so i do when addressing O/others


I'm curious. I've seen you refer to "my M'Lady in many posts, and I feel this thread is as good a place as any to ask: what does M'Lady mean? I thought it meant "my Lady" as it did in Victorian times (and even today in England). Does it mean something else here?

pip, trying to understand

An honest question deserves an honest answer, pip.

You are basically right.  It is a hyphonated version of 'my lady'. 

Just around the time that I was considering a name for clip, I realized there was also a need to decide what it was that he would call Me.  From My own evaluation, I had some reasons that I chose not to have him call Me 'Mistress'.  Of course, one of those being that he wasn't collared to Me, but I didn't want him calling Me Ma'am, like every other Dominant female.  I've always been a stickler for a sub involved in a dynamic with Me not calling Me by My first name (to Me it's a sign that something is terribly wrong at the moment and needs My immediate attention) so an alternative was needed.  I chose m'lady.

Time has passed and he is collared now.   He's earned the right to call Me 'Mistress' since then, and does on occasion.   However, between those, I had grown rather fond of m'lady, since he's the only sub who has ever called Me that.

So, when you see My sub say m'lady, you can take it to mean the same as 'the Dominant I'm collared to' or 'the Mistress I serve'.

Thank you for asking, pip.  I hope I didn't bore you.



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