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RE: Rant: How to deal with abusive people on CM? - 4/7/2008 4:35:38 PM   
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Thanks, holly, I do appreciate that.


the great thing about bad days, Level...they DO end eventually...and the next day the sun always seems just a wee bit brighter


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RE: Rant: How to deal with abusive people on CM? - 4/7/2008 4:37:53 PM   
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I still think it'd help to slam someone's head in the commode.

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RE: Rant: How to deal with abusive people on CM? - 4/7/2008 4:45:51 PM   
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ORIGINAL: IXian

Seriously, I'm a bit surprised at the behavior of a certain user her on CM.
The person in question sends me an threatening letter because I added her to my favorites list, and when I point out to her that my favorites list isn't hers to command she then insist I shouldn't even look at her profile.
Well, now she says she and friends of her has reported me as a stalker. *sigh*
Not that I'm particulary impressed or intimidated by such behaviour, she's definetively not on my favorites list anymore. And i do pity the people that has to deal with her IRL if this is how she behaves online.

Seriously, don't people even read the http://www.collarme.com/personals/help.htm page before leaving their common sense behind?

Oh well, I do know that this is a onesided representation. But back to the topic in question. Are ther eany recommended policy on how to reply to those that show such behavior other than block and ignore?

IXian.


Well, with the mood I'm in, if you can send them to my house, I'll gladly stick their head in the toilet, and slam the lid down on them a few dozen times.
You my dear, need a new mood...this one's for you...
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=eONhto0x_nI   too cutesie??? Fine, settle for this then...but then you have to cheer up because you have to rock out, no matter how dreary...
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=KF7g6cOoymA

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RE: Rant: How to deal with abusive people on CM? - 4/7/2008 4:52:41 PM   
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Status: offline 		Thanks, tulip. I enjoyed the Stones, Katrina, well, I appreciate the sentiment.

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RE: Rant: How to deal with abusive people on CM? - 4/7/2008 4:54:45 PM   
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RE: Rant: How to deal with abusive people on CM? - 4/7/2008 5:05:15 PM   
kdsub


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Status: offline 		Maybe I'm confused... this person did not contact you first... did not ask for your interest... asked you to remove them from your list...but you want to give them a hard time?

This requires no action on your part other than don't contact them... they want nothing to do with you.

Just because they may not of treated you with the respect you think you deserve is no reason to hassle them.

I don't mean the above as a criticism of your intentions... the person is just not receptive... It is their loss... I'd just let it go.

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RE: Rant: How to deal with abusive people on CM? - 4/7/2008 9:19:53 PM   
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ORIGINAL: IXian

Seriously, I'm a bit surprised at the behavior of a certain user her on CM.
The person in question sends me an threatening letter because I added her to my favorites list, and when I point out to her that my favorites list isn't hers to command she then insist I shouldn't even look at her profile.
Well, now she says she and friends of her has reported me as a stalker. *sigh*
Not that I'm particulary impressed or intimidated by such behaviour, she's definetively not on my favorites list anymore. And i do pity the people that has to deal with her IRL if this is how she behaves online.

Seriously, don't people even read the http://www.collarme.com/personals/help.htm page before leaving their common sense behind?

Oh well, I do know that this is a onesided representation. But back to the topic in question. Are ther eany recommended policy on how to reply to those that show such behavior other than block and ignore?

IXian.


Well, with the mood I'm in, if you can send them to my house, I'll gladly stick their head in the toilet, and slam the lid down on them a few dozen times.


I told you people those toliet seats were damn dangerous!

and no.. it still hasnt grown back in yet.

*chuckles like mad*

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RE: Rant: How to deal with abusive people on CM? - 4/7/2008 9:34:31 PM   
Real_Trouble


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Status: offline 		Ignore or block stupid people and move on.

Unless they do something criminal, there is really no need for more than that.  You will find that people will prove remarkably adept at digging their on grave in most cases.

Complaining on here will just lower other people's opinions of you otherwise - as you can see from some of the previous comments.  Maybe right, maybe wrong, but always works that way.


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RE: Rant: How to deal with abusive people on CM? - 4/7/2008 10:04:27 PM   
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Perhaps refine the criteria by which you choose your favorites? What are they anyway?
Female and breathing? Those are mine.

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RE: Rant: How to deal with abusive people on CM? - 4/7/2008 11:29:15 PM   
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We'll see.
 
I still think it'd help to slam someone's head in the commode.


I hope your day got better, Level.  If not, I can send a couple of people over for your little exercise. 

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RE: Rant: How to deal with abusive people on CM? - 4/7/2008 11:53:15 PM   
Emperor1956


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Status: offline 		OH NO.  you posted the "Walking on Sunshine" video.   You know what that means, don't you?  A puppy HAS TO DIE.  Its true.  Every time a bell rings in heaven, an angel gets its wings; and every time someone plays "Walking on Sunshine", a puppy dies a horrible death.   That Katrina chick is the Eichmann of the canine world.   Sorry.  I have to do something now...here Fifi...come here....

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RE: Rant: How to deal with abusive people on CM? - 4/7/2008 11:54:42 PM   
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OH NO.  you posted the "Walking on Sunshine" video.   You know what that means, don't you?  A puppy HAS TO DIE.  Its true.  Every time a bell rings in heaven, an angel gets its wings; and every time someone plays "Walking on Sunshine", a puppy dies a horrible death.   That Katrina chick is the Eichmann of the canine world.   Sorry.  I have to do something now...here Fifi...come here....

E.


And a kitten in new jersy implodes......leaving only a disgusting furball behind.

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RE: Rant: How to deal with abusive people on CM? - 4/7/2008 11:57:42 PM   
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Status: offline 		Actually, Leatherist, the kittens blow up when someone plays that OK-GO video on the treadmills.

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(yah, this one always cheers me up, too)

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"What's for breakfast? What do you say, Piglet?"
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RE: Rant: How to deal with abusive people on CM? - 4/7/2008 11:59:07 PM   
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Actually, Leatherist, the kittens blow up when someone plays that OK-GO video on the treadmills.

E.


Pleaty more where that came from, and it keeps the latino maid busy.

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RE: Rant: How to deal with abusive people on CM? - 4/8/2008 3:49:42 AM   
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Status: offline 		I believe my sister-in-law is having a blue light special on kittens right now.........3 litters.

Grumbling about idiot rednecks that don't spay and neuter................

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RE: Rant: How to deal with abusive people on CM? - 4/8/2008 3:56:49 AM   
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We'll see.
 
I still think it'd help to slam someone's head in the commode.


Me me me.  Pick me.  It satisfies my watersports and breathplay cravings.

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RE: Rant: How to deal with abusive people on CM? - 4/8/2008 4:10:34 AM   
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We'll see.
 
I still think it'd help to slam someone's head in the commode.


Me me me.  Pick me.  It satisfies my watersports and breathplay cravings.
I am not a huge fan of watersports, but damn it Aileen, you just got my attention... I think it is more the aspyxiation though. "Taking your breath away." And I guess there's something in me that looks at that lovely picture of yours and knowing you would enjoy it, well... Let me go start drinking some water...lots of water.



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RE: Rant: How to deal with abusive people on CM? - 4/8/2008 4:13:51 AM   
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ORIGINAL: Level

We'll see.
 
I still think it'd help to slam someone's head in the commode.
I hope your day got better, Level.  If not, I can send a couple of people over for your little exercise. 


I bet I can guess who . Thanks, good lady.

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RE: Rant: How to deal with abusive people on CM? - 4/8/2008 4:15:02 AM   
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ORIGINAL: Level

We'll see.
 
I still think it'd help to slam someone's head in the commode.


Me me me.  Pick me.  It satisfies my watersports and breathplay cravings.


You you you.

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RE: Rant: How to deal with abusive people on CM? - 4/8/2008 4:19:23 AM   
Aileen1968


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We'll see.
 
I still think it'd help to slam someone's head in the commode.


Me me me.  Pick me.  It satisfies my watersports and breathplay cravings.


You you you.




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