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Deliena -> RE: Don't read - i am moaning!!! (4/10/2008 8:53:31 AM)

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ORIGINAL: SteelofUtah
So If you put them in a Box with a Radioactive Isotope and Sealed the Box would they Be Alive or Dead??

**Inside Joke**

I hope CheshireSmile plays along, I was only having fun.

Steel


I didn't know Schrodinger's cat was ginger! LOL :D

Had this experience when I first signed up to CM (as was single at the time), found being attached and very very upfront about it helps - but doesn't stop it, as a previous poster stated, delete and block my friends, delete and block




BlackPhx -> RE: Don't read - i am moaning!!! (4/10/2008 9:01:24 AM)

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ORIGINAL: Justme696

a slave that tops her MAster when he requires it? And you complain about Doms that want to be Dommed?
What is the difference   lol...you are a slave...you don't Top.. (well shouldn't)




Ummm I don't top my Master but I am one HELL of a Top even though I am a Slave. I am Slave to only one person. Period. Any sub or slave that enters the house would fall under my domination as well as my Masters, that is something he and I both agree on .

poenkitten




Gwynvyd -> RE: Don't read - i am moaning!!! (4/10/2008 9:02:57 AM)

*chuckles* that is what drew me to a sub here a while back.. he listed his cats name as Schrodinger. Any one with that twisted of a sense of humor had to be great. *smiles*

Wankers abound.. just ignore them if they do not suit you hun.

Any one that is a proud owner of a uterus gets thier inbox crammed with offers that should not pertain to them if the clueless ones bothered to read. Only so much blood in a body I suppose. Sometimes I wonder how they type.. or even cut and paste.

Gwyn




parttimehotty -> RE: Don't read - i am moaning!!! (4/10/2008 9:05:24 AM)

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ORIGINAL: Lynnxz

First of all, I was picturing something else when I read the title.

Secondly, the whole "Obey me now plz kkthx" is (mostly) limited to online wankers. Just ignore them, they aren't worth your time. [&:]



Me too! i thought this was going to be a nasty thread! [:o]




Daddyslilpookie -> RE: Don't read - i am moaning!!! (4/10/2008 9:08:16 AM)

Here, here! To ignoring the wankers[sm=ignore.gif]




lanie38 -> RE: Don't read - i am moaning!!! (4/10/2008 9:21:56 AM)

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ORIGINAL: DMFParadox

Sweet, another thread complaining about wannabee's.  I love these.

Here's a thought: ignore your inbox, contact only those 'masterly' profiles you are interested in yourself, and tell them to email you somewhere else.  That puts YOU in charge of who you hear from.

Don't want to do that?  Suffer in silence, please, darlin'.  You get what you're askin for, and those Masters/Doms who you're wantin to salivate for like Pavlov's puppies probably don't give two pissants about your inbox woes.  Though they might be more polite about it than me.

As for protocols, there are none.  Some subs are craving exactly what you can't stand, some doms and masters are going to be like kids pitching a fit, some will be 'mature', some will say they'll be utterly inflexible and 'dominant', some will be utterly flexible and 'dominant', and some will see either as being stupid or spineless/masterly or masterful.  Don't like what you see?  Too bad, it's a funhouse mirror; the only person you're really seeing right now is you.


ditto from me...

To the OP, it's a FREE online Adult sex site...I'm not sure what you expected...but it's pretty much the same as any other...it's YOUR job to weed out the ones you're not compatible with, the posers, wannebees, whatevers??!!..It's just like in *real* life...




Prinsexx -> RE: Don't read - i am moaning!!! (4/10/2008 9:22:41 AM)

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ORIGINAL: Gwynvyd

*chuckles* that is what drew me to a sub here a while back.. he listed his cats name as Schrodinger. Any one with that twisted of a sense of humor had to be great. *smiles*

Wankers abound.. just ignore them if they do not suit you hun.

Any one that is a proud owner of a uterus gets thier inbox crammed with offers that should not pertain to them if the clueless ones bothered to read. Only so much blood in a body I suppose. Sometimes I wonder how they type.. or even cut and paste.

Gwyn

I would have named my Yorkshire terrier Nietzsche  were she not a bitch.
She's called Princess (just because she is a bitch lol).
And yes I can top any woman (don't quote me on that though). I guess alpha female slaves are also a misunderstood minority.




EchoPet -> RE: Don't read - i am moaning!!! (4/10/2008 9:31:15 AM)

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Secondly, what is wrong with basic manners and following D/s protocol? Surely it is just plain wrong to make demands of an already owned slave. i would even suggest that it is bad manners to demand a free sub obeys You just because You are a Dom...

Ah, i love old fashioned respect on both sides of the dynamic; it goes a long way in my book. This is not me being bratty, honest, though i admit to being moany lol!

Gabrielle x


Oh, agreed!  My favorite phrase is "I may be a submissive, but I'm not YOUR submissive."  I actually have had very few problems myself though.  I mean, of course there have been some odd messages here on CollarMe and other kink-related sites, but it's easy enough to delete and block them.  In offline life, when men find out I'm a sub, I think most of them just kinda go "lucky him" referring to my Master, or some want to know why.  And of course I have a couple of friends who like to joke about the lock around my neck, one who even playfully tries to unlock it with all the keys on his keyring to "steal me away" (to which my Master just laughs everytime).

And speaking of "Doms" who actually want you to top them... ugh.  When my ex-husband and I first started dating, he knew I was submissive and had just gotten out of a D/s relationship.  He was curious about it all, so I introduced him to everything, books, toys, etc.  He tried to be my Master... but in the bedroom actually wanted to be the bottom.  I was so upset when I showed him all the toys and he said he didn't want to use them on me, but wanted me to use them on him.  It was so hard for me to top him... but I finally just had to because, at least in my mind, it was something my Master wanted, therefore by doing it I was still submitting to his wishes.  It probably was a contributing factor in the demise of our relationship/marriage though.




Dnomyar -> RE: Don't read - i am moaning!!! (4/10/2008 9:37:05 AM)

Chesire I was ok with your post until you mentioned men double your age.  Take this [sm=doghouse.gif][sm=doghouse.gif]




Poetryinpain -> RE: Don't read - i am moaning!!! (4/10/2008 9:40:00 AM)

The saddest thing is that the type of person who messages you without reading your profile is hardly to be expected to go to the trouble of reading the forums. The folks reading this are (for the most part) those who take the time to read a profile. People reading and responding to forum posts aren't here just for the wank, they are here to exchange ideas and really get to know others.

It can be a safety valve, though. And you can be pretty sure that the people you're grousing about aren't reading it.

pip, I'm just here for the articles




kittinSol -> RE: Don't read - i am moaning!!! (4/10/2008 9:42:31 AM)

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ORIGINAL: Justme696

you are a slave...you don't Top.. (well shouldn't)



Why not?




colouredin -> RE: Don't read - i am moaning!!! (4/10/2008 9:45:31 AM)

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ORIGINAL: kittinSol

quote:

ORIGINAL: Justme696

you are a slave...you don't Top.. (well shouldn't)



Why not?


Its a rule, just like a Dom shouldnt like spicey food (totally masochistic that is, and NO Dom is allowed to be masocistic) Dont ya know the rules girlie?




kittinSol -> RE: Don't read - i am moaning!!! (4/10/2008 9:49:51 AM)

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ORIGINAL: colouredin

Its a rule, just like a Dom shouldnt like spicey food (totally masochistic that is, and NO Dom is allowed to be masocistic) Dont ya know the rules girlie?



Justme's comment strikes me as odd, after thousands of pages of debate on these fora, all of which seem to point to the conclusion that there is no right and wrong in BDSM relationships, and no twue way. I thought the rules were that there were no rules. Young lady [sm=shame.gif] .





colouredin -> RE: Don't read - i am moaning!!! (4/10/2008 9:51:20 AM)

I agree, however the arguement may well be its not one true way but my way (even though the way he wrote it didnt imply that at all) its silly, a label that you apply to yourself doesnt instantly mean that you cant like something, thats like saying because i like tennis i cant like football CRAZY (i like neither by the way sport sucks)




FRSguy -> RE: Don't read - i am moaning!!! (4/10/2008 9:55:40 AM)

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ORIGINAL: colouredin

quote:

ORIGINAL: kittinSol

quote:

ORIGINAL: Justme696

you are a slave...you don't Top.. (well shouldn't)



Why not?


Its a rule, just like a Dom shouldnt like spicey food (totally masochistic that is, and NO Dom is allowed to be masocistic) Dont ya know the rules girlie?



Not really sure about that one.  I know that one for of suprise I do to my girl is that I go out and get a double order of those jalapeneo popers (cant spell any of that) .  Anyways, by the time evening has come around its usually worked its way into my system so that when she is on her knees and I have her by the hair doing forced oral suposidly it burn like hell all the way down. I dont do it that often but I do enjoy it on ocasion (the peppers not the forced oral thats kind of a regular thing)




RCdc -> RE: Don't read - i am moaning!!! (4/10/2008 9:58:52 AM)

There isn't a Ds protocol, just common sense in all walks of life.  BDSM is no different.
But it's just a block and ignore thang anyhoo.
 
Oh and D - submissives and slaves can and do top - there is no shouldn't about it - it is called obeying Masters (or Mistress)[:D][;)]
 
the.dark.




kittinSol -> RE: Don't read - i am moaning!!! (4/10/2008 10:04:55 AM)

I imagine that if a Dominant told a submissive to dominate, simply because it completely goes against the submissive's nature, it would be a very painful, uncomfortable thing... that's soooooooo perverse [8D] .




RCdc -> RE: Don't read - i am moaning!!! (4/10/2008 10:17:56 AM)

Perverse?????         .oh yes.[sm=yahoo.gif]
 
the.dark.




LaTigresse -> RE: Don't read - i am moaning!!! (4/10/2008 3:52:03 PM)

using FR...

I know a female slave that is so sadistically evil and just looooooooovvvvvves to top, another female slave I know. Watching and instructing is also quite enjoyable.

Pffffttt, to silly rules. I will write my own book thank you!




RCdc -> RE: Don't read - i am moaning!!! (4/11/2008 12:50:48 AM)

This is Darcy

I echo the advice to ignore the morons who manage to squeeze themselves through your letterbox. We occasionally get mails from people who have clearly not read our profile, and either ignore them, or send a quick note back suggesting that, in the case of the slaves/subs/insertyourowndesignation, that the most basic of qualities to be able to serve would be the ability to read and understand simple sentences.

Honestly, sometimes we wonder how these morons generate enough power in their tiny minds to keep their fingers typing* [;)]



*with apologies to Lex Luther, movie fans [:D]




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