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Just had a huge shock - 3/21/2008 8:31:00 AM

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I just learned that Dave, a good friend from a site i used to belong to, has died. He had very high blood pressure for years, which couldn't be brought under control. He died in his wife's arms of a brain bleed. Our last words were hard ones and we never spoke after that.

Let this be a lesson for everyone. Make up with those we've had a fight with, we never know when those hard words may be the last spoken.

This has come as a horrible shock and i now wish i had made amends before it was too late. Please ppl, learn from this, contact someone you've had a fight with, pride is no good once it's too late...

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RE: Just had a huge shock - 3/21/2008 8:37:25 AM

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I am sorry for your loss.

Between friends harsh words may be spoken; that is what friends are for.

The God of the Dead knows that you both meant well.

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RE: Just had a huge shock - 3/21/2008 8:40:25 AM

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sorry for your loss *hugs*

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RE: Just had a huge shock - 3/21/2008 8:55:21 AM

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eep...thats whats going to happen to my 65 yr old dad.... although he stopped smoking years ago to help... me on the other hand... ill have a clot or a heart attack...cause they sure as hell am not helping me (the dr's) cause they only care whats on their charts and not what actually is happening... ugh...

i bet thats what they did to your friend...told him nothing they can do...there is always something that can be done...look at my dad...at 65 (and still going) with the same issue as your friend...

its so sad..

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RE: Just had a huge shock - 3/21/2008 8:59:18 AM

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My heart goes out to you on hearing such sad news.

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RE: Just had a huge shock - 3/21/2008 9:04:27 AM

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The OP is correct. I been there. Live each day as it was the last.

I wish I could tell you it is no big deal. That doesnt solve anything.

Life is an art- we learn as we go.

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RE: Just had a huge shock - 3/21/2008 9:27:30 AM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: faerytattoodgirl

eep...thats whats going to happen to my 65 yr old dad.... although he stopped smoking years ago to help... me on the other hand... ill have a clot or a heart attack...cause they sure as hell am not helping me (the dr's) cause they only care whats on their charts and not what actually is happening... ugh...

i bet thats what they did to your friend...told him nothing they can do...there is always something that can be done...look at my dad...at 65 (and still going) with the same issue as your friend...

its so sad..

Not true at all, faery. His doctors have been trying to get his BP under control for years. Nothing they tried worked...

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RE: Just had a huge shock - 3/21/2008 9:28:33 AM

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i am so sorry. *hug*

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RE: Just had a huge shock - 3/21/2008 9:30:28 AM

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quote:

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The OP is correct. I been there. Live each day as it was the last.

I wish I could tell you it is no big deal. That doesnt solve anything.

Life is an art- we learn as we go.

that's right, pa. I see so many ppl who let the small, pointless stuff get them all stressed...and the fact is the majority of it is small stuff. If there's something you can do to change it, do so. Otherwise there is no point in getting upset, it changes nothing anyway.

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RE: Just had a huge shock - 3/21/2008 9:30:46 AM

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I_am_so_sorry_for_your_loss

So...forgive_yourself?

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RE: Just had a huge shock - 3/21/2008 9:32:56 AM

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Not true at all, faery. His doctors have been trying to get his BP under control for years. Nothing they tried worked...

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ok then the dr's here in toronto suck. im moving to montreal....cause the ones here are not even giving me any suggestions to help me. they do the same tests every year...they dont consider what i tell them that is happening...cause they only see whats on their charts.. pfft... since what your saying is that they tried...mine are not trying..no new tests..always the same ones...

montreal! here i come!

lock your door phoenix!

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RE: Just had a huge shock - 3/21/2008 9:37:54 AM

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Not true at all, faery. His doctors have been trying to get his BP under control for years. Nothing they tried worked...

Phoenix

ok then the dr's here in toronto suck. im moving to montreal....cause the ones here are not even giving me any suggestions to help me. they do the same tests every year...they dont consider what i tell them that is happening...cause they only see whats on their charts.. pfft... since what your saying is that they tried...mine are not trying..no new tests..always the same ones...

montreal! here i come!

lock your door phoenix!

He lived in Manchester, England so that's where you need to head....i'm locking my door anyway *grin*

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RE: Just had a huge shock - 3/21/2008 9:40:18 AM

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He lived in Manchester, England so that's where you need to head....i'm locking my door anyway *grin*

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crap...if i were to go that far away it would be to sweden or france... im already a citizen of france as it is... yes lock your door anyway cause i might make a surprise visit...i dont need a passport to go to montreal! just a greyhound ticket!

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