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RE: So, I'm a racist bitch..WTF? - 3/19/2008 10:14:58 AM

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Ok I'm sorry call me ignorant but what exactly is race play? Because I'm starting to view it as something like age play, etc.

it is lilMiss, if you look at the link in My last post or google under " race play in BDSM" you can find some helpful links----

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RE: So, I'm a racist bitch..WTF? - 3/20/2008 7:36:37 AM

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ORIGINAL: LadyHathor

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Ok I'm sorry call me ignorant but what exactly is race play? Because I'm starting to view it as something like age play, etc.

I missed the link
Thank you for pointing it out Ma'am

it is lilMiss, if you look at the link in My last post or google under " race play in BDSM" you can find some helpful links----

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RE: So, I'm a racist bitch..WTF? - 3/20/2008 7:44:20 AM

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I don't know how many times I have been contacted by women of other races, then they follow up with something like "well I am (fill in the ethinicity here) is that a problem?" To which I reply "I am a mutt that is mostly caucasian, is that a problem?"

Oddly enough, I rarely hear back from them.

*snicker*

Have I mentioned I love your posts, LaT?? *grin*

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RE: So, I'm a racist bitch..WTF? - 3/20/2008 7:45:57 AM

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Diane.. you are NOT a racist bitch from what I have seen. EVERYONE has their styles of play, and preferences. Ignore the twats. *hugs*

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RE: So, I'm a racist bitch..WTF? - 3/20/2008 7:50:34 AM

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they hate being rejected so they lash out in a childish manner.

Ditto for what she said. Don't even worry about them D, they aren't worth it. I'm sure they will run along and find some other Domme to play with.

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RE: So, I'm a racist bitch..WTF? - 3/20/2008 7:53:01 AM

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This is the 3rd time I've been called a Racist bitch. I tell people in a very nice way that I am not into race play. WTF is wrong with some of these subs?

Just letting off steam.

Diane

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Though it`s never nice to be called an ugly name like that.

If it`s cyber,don`t even give it a 2nd thought.

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RE: So, I'm a racist bitch..WTF? - 3/20/2008 7:55:41 AM

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Didn't you know? All white people are racists, unless they send all of their money to Al Sharpton, and live like Hari Krishnas, wandering around airports, and apologizing to anyone tinted darker than they are.

;)

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RE: So, I'm a racist bitch..WTF? - 3/20/2008 8:07:03 AM

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Funny that this should come up right now, when there's a big to-do over the cover of Vogue (I think that was the magazine) showing a popular black athlete and an equally popular white model together. The objections seem to be that it is racial stereotyping. And yet, when we say no thank you to someone of another race (for whatever reason), we're racist?

I don't say no to anyone for reasons having to do with their ethnicity. But when they throw that ethnicity in as a reason for me to accept them, that's a red flag to me. Who's the racist?

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RE: So, I'm a racist bitch..WTF? - 3/20/2008 8:14:21 AM

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ORIGINAL: LadyHathor

Unless I am wrong here and I am sure D will correct Me, she did not say "race", She said " race play"--which is a whole different ballgame than 2 people of different races forming a relationship---I for one have no issue with race, but I will not engage in race play.

http://www.alternet.org/rights/20656/

You are right, I said "race play"...I am not a racist....

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RE: So, I'm a racist bitch..WTF? - 3/20/2008 8:16:24 AM

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Didn't you know? All white people are racists, unless they send all of their money to Al Sharpton, and live like Hari Krishnas, wandering around airports, and apologizing to anyone tinted darker than they are.

;)

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RE: So, I'm a racist bitch..WTF? - 3/20/2008 7:42:03 PM

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So many people on here have such fantastic responses that I have nothing I can add! Kudos to all of you who realize this is not at all a race issue, it's a personal choice issue. BRAVO!!!

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RE: So, I'm a racist bitch..WTF? - 3/20/2008 8:58:03 PM

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If you must respond, don't list a reason. Just say that you are not compatible.

However since many men find rejection so hurtful that they need to lash out in response to it, most of us have given up and just don't respond.

You are less likely to get a nasty comment if you don't answer at all than if you do send them a polite no thanks.

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RE: So, I'm a racist bitch..WTF? - 3/20/2008 9:00:07 PM

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Fast Reply

Thank you to everyone who replied.

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RE: So, I'm a racist bitch..WTF? - 3/20/2008 9:20:29 PM

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It is exactly the same as being told you are not sub enough because you refuse to do--------(fill in the blanks).

Anyone who uses this type of technique to get what they want imho is not worthy of my time.

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