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Hiswifeon7707 -> what is a "boi"? (3/12/2008 1:46:12 PM)

i am sure this has been discussed and discussed but i am relatively new to the lifestyle and i have seen this word used to describe very different things?
what does it mean to be a "boi"?




ottRopesandKnots -> RE: what is a "boi"? (3/12/2008 1:47:17 PM)

"i have seen this word used to describe very different things?"

Oh no...

There's a whole thread on this from last week.




faerytattoodgirl -> RE: what is a "boi"? (3/12/2008 1:48:14 PM)

calls out boijen....here boi....come here....thats a good boi  [:D][:D]




colouredin -> RE: what is a "boi"? (3/12/2008 1:48:32 PM)

http://www.collarchat.com/m_1684371/mpage_1/key_boi/tm.htm#1684371

obliging with said thread




sassysexygirl -> RE: what is a "boi"? (3/12/2008 1:49:17 PM)

google is our friend ~~

Boi (plural: bois) is a term used within the lesbian community to denote a submissive butch in the BDSM community and a young butch in the butch-femme community.[1] It is also used as a term of endearment for butches by femmes.[1] It may also be used in the gay community to refer to a young-appearing (or relatively young) bisexual or gay male, especially one who has effeminate characteristics.[1] The term can also be used by anyone who wishes to distinguish from heterosexual or heteronormative identities.[1] The term is commonly used by those who are female to male transgendered as well.[1]
It may also refer to a female-born or female-bodied person—sometimes transsexual, transgendered, or intersexed, sometimes not—that generally does not identify as, or only partially identifies as feminine, female, a girl, or a woman. Some "bois" identify as one or more of these, but they almost always identify as lesbians, dykes, or queers. Many are also genderqueer or practice genderfuck. Bois may prefer a range of pronouns, including "he", "she", or gender-neutral pronouns such as "hir", "sie", "zie", and "ey".[2] The term has found increasing usage in the larger LGBT culture


gemmie




Hiswifeon7707 -> RE: what is a "boi"? (3/12/2008 1:54:56 PM)

ok, thank you
i was confused by its use by both males & females




lusciouslips19 -> RE: what is a "boi"? (3/12/2008 2:00:39 PM)

 
I'm still confused! It seems everyone calls themselves or someone Boi. Gay, lesbian Bi, tri or whatever.[sm=ofcourse.gif]




DesFIP -> RE: what is a "boi"? (3/12/2008 2:24:58 PM)

Apparently anybody can use the term as long as they aren't heterosexual exclusively.




darchChylde -> RE: what is a "boi"? (3/12/2008 3:53:37 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: DesFIP

Apparently anybody can use the term as long as they aren't heterosexual exclusively.


DAMMIT!!!  And here i was about to create a new profile for darchBoi.




Prinsexx -> RE: what is a "boi"? (3/12/2008 4:16:11 PM)

i'm a goyl have just decided......
which means slave femme to a man and bisexual domme to a woman....
unless someone used the term goyl before me...then who are they where are they and i want to meet her




Madame4a -> RE: what is a "boi"? (3/12/2008 4:27:49 PM)

[sm=horse.gif]

Oi!




MsKittyBlack -> RE: what is a "boi"? (3/12/2008 4:32:47 PM)

I'm here to answer your prayers people...I have a fan club...our discussion topic was last week. You have to wait another 30 days before I have open enrollment again.

MsKitty's Boi jen aka boijen
"Let The Bodies Hit The Floor!!!"




BoiJen -> RE: what is a "boi"? (3/12/2008 4:36:31 PM)

may as well make an appearance as myself




Prinsexx -> RE: what is a "boi"? (3/12/2008 4:51:08 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: BoiJen

may as well make an appearance as myself

fron a goyl to a boi: pleased to make your aquaintance [:D]




BoiJen -> RE: what is a "boi"? (3/12/2008 4:53:00 PM)

no problem...they called my name at least three times so I had to ;)




faerytattoodgirl -> RE: what is a "boi"? (3/12/2008 5:50:55 PM)

there's the hottie.




Ebonybbw -> RE: what is a "boi"? (3/12/2008 6:19:27 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: sassysexygirl

google is our friend ~~

Boi (plural: bois) is a term used within the lesbian community to denote a submissive butch in the BDSM community and a young butch in the butch-femme community.[1] It is also used as a term of endearment for butches by femmes.[1] It may also be used in the gay community to refer to a young-appearing (or relatively young) bisexual or gay male, especially one who has effeminate characteristics.[1] The term can also be used by anyone who wishes to distinguish from heterosexual or heteronormative identities.[1] The term is commonly used by those who are female to male transgendered as well.[1]
It may also refer to a female-born or female-bodied person—sometimes transsexual, transgendered, or intersexed, sometimes not—that generally does not identify as, or only partially identifies as feminine, female, a girl, or a woman. Some "bois" identify as one or more of these, but they almost always identify as lesbians, dykes, or queers. Many are also genderqueer or practice genderfuck. Bois may prefer a range of pronouns, including "he", "she", or gender-neutral pronouns such as "hir", "sie", "zie", and "ey".[2] The term has found increasing usage in the larger LGBT culture


gemmie


In the community I come from boi... means... my guy.... my friend...   I have a sub who chose to be called Boi ****  Hmmmmmmmm, are you telling me he is bisexual... ???




SailingBum -> RE: what is a "boi"? (3/12/2008 7:19:43 PM)

its fer ppl tht cnt spel boy




chatondamore -> RE: what is a "boi"? (3/12/2008 7:41:07 PM)

Both of em are Hotties. :)

Hi Miss Kitty and BoiJen :) *waves*




JoanieHoney2001 -> RE: what is a "boi"? (3/12/2008 9:29:03 PM)

I'll second Chatondamore's comment!!

Jo




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