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RE: Pro-dom tick box - 3/9/2008 12:21:06 PM

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*also wonders if womanliness should be registered because it's a frigging cool word*

I think you should submit it to the OED without a doubt :D

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RE: Pro-dom tick box - 3/9/2008 12:23:11 PM

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[This is where honesty kicks in, but also, having a report function, where if say, five people click a 'report pro-dom' box it would automatically leave them defaulted as a pro dom isn't difficult to do :)

I don't know I've not been to many other sites you could be right, maybe it does work.

At the moment the reporting system here is automated and I don't suppose that is going to change any time soon. The problem, with what you suggest, is unobjective people can toss accusations of being Pro this or Pro that at one another until the cows come home.

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RE: Pro-dom tick box - 3/9/2008 12:29:12 PM

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Do you seriously think anyone would be honest enough to tick the pro box thus minimising their audience?

I would. But Im honest like that.

Probably why I dont have a huge following and adoring fans....honesty seems to be frowned upon in the on line community.

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RE: Pro-dom tick box - 3/9/2008 12:33:56 PM

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There is always the exception to the rule but I honesty think you’d be in the minority.

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RE: Pro-dom tick box - 3/9/2008 12:34:04 PM

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Yes, indeed, Aileen. Yet another good reason for me to move back to London.

To the OP, I'm absolutely in favour of other checklist options to be ticked, but as others have noted, you'd be relying on the honesty of the person doing the ticking. Couldn't hurt, though.

Crap, lunch is burning. Must remember not to look at hot photos and cook at the same time.

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RE: Pro-dom tick box - 3/9/2008 12:35:23 PM

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This is the same bitch fest that gets tossed around from time to time....pro dommes and how bad they suck...Pro Dommes and how mean they are because they think they should be paid for their time...blah blah blah...

Look...Im not flamming any one...think what you like, but in all honesty, from where I stand...I LOVE what I do...I dont do the Domme thing ....I would rather just beat on people....which is MUCH more fun....and at the end....Im not expected to allow them any kind of release other than to cut them loose from where ever I have them tied to.....which makes Me more than happy.

Like I said above....think what you want about Me...say what you will to Me...it doesnt change the fact that I do what I do because I love what I do...not for your money...and not for any other reason than because its something I love and can prove to be lucrative at the same time.

How many people can say that they HONESTLY have a job that they LOVE and look forward to?

How many people can say that they get up in the morning and the thing that pays their bills is the thing that they love doing more than anything else?

you see a shit load of shirts that say I would rather be fishing or I would rather be shopping but how many do you see that say I would rather be working?

So....get irritated, get mad...report, stomp, scream and yell...maybe itll do you some good. But it WONT change the fact that we are out there....and we do this...and we come to places like this and have just as much a right to be here as you do. Just because we dont lie or hide what we are doesnt make us wrong.

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RE: Pro-dom tick box - 3/9/2008 12:36:38 PM

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There is always the exception to the rule but I honesty think you’d be in the minority.

Im okay with being a minority....at least I stand for something.

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RE: Pro-dom tick box - 3/9/2008 12:40:38 PM

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I dont think the OP intended to insult Pro Dommes just that it wasnt waht he wanted. Sir is an ex Pro Dom and I have no issue with them at all, I do think the 18 year old Pro Dommes who "do online only and wanta tribute" are a pile of BS but to be honest if i was a Domme id do it pro too. :D

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RE: Pro-dom tick box - 3/9/2008 12:46:29 PM

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I dont think the OP intended to insult Pro Dommes just that it wasnt waht he wanted. Sir is an ex Pro Dom and I have no issue with them at all, I do think the 18 year old Pro Dommes who "do online only and wanta tribute" are a pile of BS but to be honest if i was a Domme id do it pro too. :D

Oh I agree 110% that the "just add water" silicone goddesses that think because they are bitches and have a nice body make it a hard row to hoe for the rest of us that do real work and are very good at what we do..

I think when I get insulted is when women like Me who do this with respect and love for the life and for the people we work with ( as I do make EVERY effort to establish some kind of at least rapport with the person I work with even when it doesnt seem practical due to stupidity, or what have you) have been lumped in with the women who are hookers turned D/s.

I mean....this isnt something you can just pick up. Ive been studying, learning, reading, and working with this life style for over 10 years. Every day I learn and see something new...and thats what makes Me love it.

But you get these bitches...just add water and a bad attitude and BLAM....suddenly every one is a Domme.

Hell...I dont even know you that well and I can tell you coloured that you could borrow one of My floggers and you could do it. Even if you werent a Domme. Which is what also kills Me....most of these women....if shoved into the face of some one like Me, would, kneel, whimper and beg to not be ass raped and humiliated like the pig sluts that they are.

It really makes Me sick.

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RE: Pro-dom tick box - 3/9/2008 12:51:24 PM

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Personally I am a sadist, i can do the pain side, but im not a Domme nope nope nope nope and I wouldnt be able to do it, I feel sorry for anyone taken in by it to be honest because I think if you are going to pay then it should be paying someone who actually knows what they are doing and I think having a passion for something means you know what you are doing.

Its like teaching I am sure that many people could teach, I wanted to teach history i love history but they are removing it as a compulsary subject here and people said "yeah well why not teach something else" lol because i dont have the passion for anything else it would be totally unfair on the pupils.

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RE: Pro-dom tick box - 3/9/2008 12:55:52 PM

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I dont consider Myself a pro Domme...I consider Myself a Pro Sadist....I dont want the power of telling some one what to do...I want to hear them scream...I want to see what they can take before they beg Me to stop. I want to see the physical limits hit and then.....over come.

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RE: Pro-dom tick box - 3/9/2008 12:58:53 PM

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ORIGINAL: Kirren

This is the same bitch fest that gets tossed around from time to time....pro dommes and how bad they suck...Pro Dommes and how mean they are because they think they should be paid for their time...blah blah blah...

It wasn't meant to be, far from it in fact.

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RE: Pro-dom tick box - 3/9/2008 1:00:39 PM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: Kirren

This is the same bitch fest that gets tossed around from time to time....pro dommes and how bad they suck...Pro Dommes and how mean they are because they think they should be paid for their time...blah blah blah...

It wasn't meant to be, far from it in fact.

Oh I know....but its like I said...it pisses Me off that the fake women that run around claiming to be what I am...and have been....ruin it for some one like Me...who is real...sincere and good at what she does.

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RE: Pro-dom tick box - 3/9/2008 1:02:23 PM

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Hm. It should be mentioned that I did perv yer profile..nice tats. I have 16 Myself...hoping to get another soon...

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RE: Pro-dom tick box - 3/9/2008 1:13:55 PM

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Oh I know....but its like I said...it pisses Me off that the fake women that run around claiming to be what I am...and have been....ruin it for some one like Me...who is real...sincere and good at what she does.

Don't worry so much about it, they are SO easy to spot, they don't know ANYONE in real life, none of them are known to anyone on the scene, they can't even tell you how they learnt things that take serious practice to perfect...they seem to think you can just become a pro-domme over night which is absolute BS.

I've lived and breathed the British fetish scene for about six years and could only recommend ONE pro-domme from all that time. It would be a vouch but I've never had a pro session and nor would I. I could vouch for her though as I've done demonstations in clubs with her and I know and many people I know would trust her absolutely.

Now before I even thought about a pro-session, which I wouldn't, I'd want that type of word of mouth security before I let someone loose on me...I can't think of anything more dangerous.

As you've said though, you know what you're doing, have an army of people who would recommend you so you're one of not very many who do what they do properly!

As for these 'online' dommes...that's another story but I could wet myself laughing at the very concept!

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RE: Pro-dom tick box - 3/9/2008 1:19:47 PM

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Oh honey..I have wet Myself laughing at them...

I think theres one...I cant/wont say the name....but shes like a size 2 with a popcicle in her mouth...giant fake boobs....and screaming pay to talk to Me...

I think there was another that said you had to be able to send her 50-100$ to even talk to her...

Look...Ive met some intelligent people on here that I would pay to talk to....just because they are funny as hell.

Ive met some others that I would pay to have buried neck deep in My front lawn so that I could mow them down with the grass come summer.

In all honesty....a pro session can teach you alot. If its the right person...and sometimes you can get things you wouldnt get from any one else...and of course its good if you dont want an attachment or what have you.

Personally...I like what I do because I get to try soooo many different things...and I loooove peoples reactions and the vast array of them that I get.

BUT! I dont just walk in and start tying and beating. I suggest coffee and a nilla meet first...so I can decide if this person really knows what they are doing. I can see their mind and what they want...and I can decide what they can take.

Example...I had a guy claimed he was a pain slut. Took him to coffee. He spilled some on him and was in tears over the sting...mind you it was on his chest....yet he wanted Me to use blades and wax on him.

Needless to say...there was no session.

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RE: Pro-dom tick box - 3/9/2008 1:25:08 PM

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In all honesty....a pro session can teach you alot. If its the right person...and sometimes you can get things you wouldnt get from any one else...and of course its good if you dont want an attachment or what have you.

I totally agree with you, without a demand there wouldn't be a supply.

I have found a way around this though by talking to potential partners and not getting involved if we don't match. I know not everyone can be picky and I can afford to be BUT it took me five years to find someone I wanted to properly submit to and not many want to wait that amount of time.

Swings and roundabouts I guess...

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RE: Pro-dom tick box - 3/9/2008 1:25:26 PM

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I just read your profile Kirren and I gotta say the line "i dont wanna keep you I just wanna beat you" REALLY made me giggle :D

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RE: Pro-dom tick box - 3/9/2008 1:31:49 PM

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I just read your profile Kirren and I gotta say the line "i dont wanna keep you I just wanna beat you" REALLY made me giggle :D

I laughed at that too :)

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RE: Pro-dom tick box - 3/9/2008 1:44:17 PM

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Kirren is that Jewell Marceau in your third profile photo because it really looks like her.

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