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CalifChick -> RE: Bratty Submissives and the question Why (3/8/2008 7:05:37 PM)

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ORIGINAL: CreativeDominant

I have stated on here before that I don't do brats or SAMs of the whiny, disobedient, defiant nature.  I can handle playful and I can handle those who sometimes want to be reminded a bit forcefully that they agreed to submit. 

(snippage)

...I happen to think that those few times I do not or those few times that I look at you in a certain way and state that I am done answering questions will be understood, accepted  and obeyed. 


Slow down, I'm furiously scribbling in my notebook.  Okay, duly noted.

Cali





MariaIsabel -> RE: Bratty Submissives and the question Why (3/10/2008 3:07:36 PM)

yea but im a pain slut so sometimes the red bottom and teasing even when sir is not happy ends up in quite a fun night. sometimes a few nights later but still fun.



MariaIsabel -> RE: Bratty Submissives and the question Why (3/10/2008 3:10:58 PM)

yea sir is bratty at times thinking its cute but he does forget that every so often that he becomes my slave boy and i can torture him but that tends to result in no playing for a few days and a very red rump.



UncleNasty -> RE: Bratty Submissives and the question Why (3/18/2008 1:23:20 PM)

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ORIGINAL: CalifChick

In my book, a brat is someone who knows how to behave appropriately and chooses not to. This is not the same as sassy, or spirited.

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This dynamic could also be stated as "doing the worng thing when you know what the right thing is."

That to me is so unhealthy on so many levels. I don't tolerate the behavior. Not to the point of trying to "train" or "punish" it away. No, I just walk away. Staying is a sure fire way to remain mired in the same destructive dynamic indefinitely.

Progress and growth on many levels is my desire. Not a destructive and downward spiralling cycle.

Uncle Nasty




Real_Trouble -> RE: Bratty Submissives and the question Why (3/18/2008 4:24:42 PM)

It depends on the tenor, for me.

I certainly do not mind people who have some backbone to them; in fact, I prefer it.  I've never been the type to appreciate those who do not have a bit of fire to them, but likewise, the expression of it matters as well.  People who will argue with me in an intelligent manner, or who are clearly looking to see when I am willing to press them are the ones that interest me.

Someone who is just childish and immature, or disagrees for no reason beyond enjoying being troublesome definitely will not score any points with me; that kind of thing I do not enjoy, and for me, that tends to be what I consider "bratty".  But, words are all about perception, and kink is frequently about personal preference.

Your mileage may vary.



DarkSilentWishes -> RE: Bratty Submissives and the question Why (3/20/2008 1:04:17 AM)

HAHA I am such a brat... I don't mean to be, it's just my personality type... Does being a bratty spoiled princess make me any less submissive? Some say yes... but that means that they do not know me... When someone has captured my mind and my heart it belongs solely too them... I'll still act out, stomp my foot, whine to get my way but after my 'lil temper tantrum I'm back to being my normal self... Some of us will always be little girls... *shrugs*



SaraZeal -> RE: Bratty Submissives and the question Why (3/20/2008 6:37:01 AM)

I like the little girl role a lot, but don't associate childish with immature or bratty. To me it's about requiring guidance more than about getting my way. I can be very mature even as a little girl, and I don't personally like being bratty. I can be curious, playful, yes, but I also don't consider that brattyness.



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