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Idea's for Humilation play in bedroom - 3/5/2008 12:59:39 PM   
HumilatemePlz


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I am new here, and I am involved with someone who is new to BDSM.. He wishes to please me by filling my desires which includes being Humilated. Problem is when I try to explain to him what it is I am looking for, he doesnt understand. He isnt into it, he enjoys spankings, using toys on me, some bondage, and other light stuff. I am not into Heavy S&M and he isnt into it either. So I am wondering if anyone would be able to give us Idea's on how he can embaress me when making me submit. When I try to explain to him I feel I am working out my desires, and if I know what is coming, it takes the thrill away from it from me.. Any Idea's? Thanks. Please feel free to leave graphic idea's on my profile mail if you feel it shouldnt be posted here.
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RE: Idea's for Humilation play in bedroom - 3/5/2008 1:01:32 PM   
Justme696


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(or is that a bit to much)


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RE: Idea's for Humilation play in bedroom - 3/5/2008 1:04:03 PM   
colouredin


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Status: offline 		You could have him go ha ha you smell and point and laugh, thats really humiliating esp if he does it in the supermarket


Serious there is another thread on this with links to previous topics
http://www.collarchat.com/m_1649955/tm.htm
there you go


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RE: Idea's for Humilation play in bedroom - 3/5/2008 1:07:54 PM   
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You know how to talk to a woman lol.


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RE: Idea's for Humilation play in bedroom - 3/5/2008 1:08:10 PM   
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RE: Idea's for Humilation play in bedroom - 3/5/2008 1:12:25 PM   
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He could make you bark like a dog or snort like a big.


Like a big what?
 
the.dark.

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RE: Idea's for Humilation play in bedroom - 3/5/2008 1:21:03 PM   
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Status: offline 		A few ideas here.

1. The sluttly whore treatment.  Where he treats you like fuck meat, and calls you names such a Dirty little fucking whore.   Spanks your pussy and threatens to fuck you till you can't move anymore and blah blah blah... 

2. The Animal Treatment.  Collars you up with a lease.   Makes you crawl around on the floor.. leash slide between your legs and up the cheeks of your ass.  Forcing you to drink from a bowl and things like that.   Could make you his personal "FUCK PIG"... and force you to make squeeling noises while he does you from behind, while slapping your ass.   Forcing you to make louder and louder noises, to the point that people could hear it outside.

3. Toliet bowl bitch visit -  Head face down in the bowl with the seat lifted up.  Dunking your head in the bowl periodically.   "Tell me bad you love fucking my cock bitch"..  basically, placing you in a situation where you verbally humilate yourself.   Can be as simple as you repeating back the names he calls you.   If he calls you a "Slutty fucking bitch" then asks "What are you"... you must repeat it back.   If it's not loud enough or you don't sound like you mean it,  Your head is forced face deep into the cold water.   You hair gets and wet and messy!  Basically this will mess up your make-up and your hair.    In short it humilates you for all the time you spent getting yourself all dolled up for him or other people.  Plus you are face down into a not so nice place that people Piss and such.    The ironic part is the the Toliet generally is cleaner then more people's kitchens.  That is if it's been cleaned on a regular basis.   Not something to do in water that still has an chemicals cleaners in it though.   Safety for your eyes and posioning can be an issue.   Make certain it's good clean water.  

These are a few ideas here....  it's a cross of humilation and degrading things here. Perhaps these things are a little too extreme.

He can always, force you to flash a truck driver while driving down the road together or something a little less involved.  

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RE: Idea's for Humilation play in bedroom - 3/5/2008 1:23:37 PM   
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RE: Idea's for Humilation play in bedroom - 3/5/2008 1:32:58 PM   
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ORIGINAL: Chloelicious

Just

You know how to talk to a woman lol.



i read a lott..and study the females in detail. I know what they want

lol


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RE: Idea's for Humilation play in bedroom - 3/5/2008 1:39:14 PM   
Chloelicious


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You sure look wayyyyyy better then Mel Gibson ;)


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RE: Idea's for Humilation play in bedroom - 3/5/2008 1:44:18 PM   
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RE: Idea's for Humilation play in bedroom - 3/5/2008 1:50:05 PM   
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Status: offline 		lol sorry that really made me giggle,. i dunno why 

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RE: Idea's for Humilation play in bedroom - 3/5/2008 1:56:52 PM   
HumilatemePlz


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ORIGINAL: Justme696

perhaps peeing over you?
(or is that a bit to much)



This is something neither of us are into, but thanks for replying

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RE: Idea's for Humilation play in bedroom - 3/5/2008 2:00:01 PM   
HumilatemePlz


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ORIGINAL: Owner4SexSlave

A few ideas here.

1. The sluttly whore treatment.  Where he treats you like fuck meat, and calls you names such a Dirty little fucking whore.   Spanks your pussy and threatens to fuck you till you can't move anymore and blah blah blah... 

2. The Animal Treatment.  Collars you up with a lease.   Makes you crawl around on the floor.. leash slide between your legs and up the cheeks of your ass.  Forcing you to drink from a bowl and things like that.   Could make you his personal "FUCK PIG"... and force you to make squeeling noises while he does you from behind, while slapping your ass.   Forcing you to make louder and louder noises, to the point that people could hear it outside.


These are a few ideas here....  it's a cross of humilation and degrading things here. Perhaps these things are a little too extreme.

He can always, force you to flash a truck driver while driving down the road together or something a little less involved.  


Thank you! although the noise level has to be careful we have kids at home, and most happens at night when they are in bed, would hate to wake them up!


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RE: Idea's for Humilation play in bedroom - 3/5/2008 2:07:41 PM   
kittinSol


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Just speaking from experience...

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RE: Idea's for Humilation play in bedroom - 3/5/2008 2:11:12 PM   
HumilatemePlz


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Status: offline 		I sent another one a email as they responded privately... My *friend* or Dom is still new to this lifestyle humilation isnt something he has had alot of play with. So he isnt sure, I have talked to him and he said that he would be willing to play out scene's and then have me blog them and post so others could read what he is doing to me with the help of others until he gets a grip on it. And then he might still make me post  That idea is something I am sure will cause me to be humilated. I have sent him stories I have read, but most are hard core, and all include sharing. Something he isnt into and I am not either. Being teased that he is going to play with me in front of others is a turn on, but not something I think I really want. I will talk to him and see what he says about posting a short story here on what I see as humilation for others to get a idea of what I want. My Profile also gives a idea to what I am into. I do like the idea of him taking me out in the middle of no where and spanking me, and using me withthe idea of being caught, although knowning we cant. He is into light spankings nipple play and bondage..., my ideas when it comes to humilation scenes are Punishment scenes, school girl, naughty wife, bratty girlfriend, and medical scenes *although dont have alot of medical gear* Thanks all for the idea's. Hope to get more!

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RE: Idea's for Humilation play in bedroom - 3/5/2008 2:12:26 PM   
HumilatemePlz


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ORIGINAL: jenf

crawl on hands and knees...make you beg to get pleasured...write (his name)'s cumhole on your stomach with an arrow pointing downwards...kiss his feet, suck his toes...butt plug with a tail on it...


Thanks! good idea's 

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RE: Idea's for Humilation play in bedroom - 3/5/2008 2:33:56 PM   
lusciouslips19


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ORIGINAL: lusciouslips19

He could make you bark like a dog or snort like a big.


Like a big what?
 
the.dark.

 
oops . like a pig.

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RE: Idea's for Humilation play in bedroom - 3/5/2008 5:48:18 PM   
Noah


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ORIGINAL: lusciouslips19

quote:

ORIGINAL: Darcyandthedark

quote:

ORIGINAL: lusciouslips19

He could make you bark like a dog or snort like a big.


Like a big what?
 
the.dark.

 
oops . like a pig.

Not to be nosy but
maybe he should tell you you spell like a big.

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RE: Idea's for Humilation play in bedroom - 3/5/2008 6:00:24 PM   
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ORIGINAL: Owner4SexSlave

3. Toliet bowl bitch visit -  Head face down in the bowl with the seat lifted up.  Dunking your head in the bowl periodically.   "Tell me bad you love fucking my cock bitch"..  basically, placing you in a situation where you verbally humilate yourself.   Can be as simple as you repeating back the names he calls you.   If he calls you a "Slutty fucking bitch" then asks "What are you"... you must repeat it back.   If it's not loud enough or you don't sound like you mean it,  Your head is forced face deep into the cold water.  


One of my favs.

BadOne

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