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i am new here hello all - 3/1/2008 6:27:40 PM

curious74

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I am a Female curious about the lifestyle of Master/Slave relationships, I am very curious and open minded, have done research on the topic and would like someone to explain what a slave/submissive's womans role is...please and thank you

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RE: i am new here hello all - 3/1/2008 8:20:19 PM

peppermint

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Hello curious and welcome to collarme.

As to your question.....the answer depends on the two who are involved in the relationship. As each and every person is unique, each relationship the person forges is also unique. There are no hard and fast rules.

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RE: i am new here hello all - 3/2/2008 11:02:14 AM

Verdelet

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Hello curious,

It all depends on how one views a slave or submissive. In my house I have two slave girls. Each girl has her own duties. For instance, rashida is the servant or domestic slave. she washes, cleans, takes care of the house and when all chores are done, she then services my needs whether they are sexual or non-sexual. Then there is bj who is really the sex slave. But she too takes care of chores. Unlike rashida, I will take bj away from her chores so that she can tend to my sexual needs. Both girls do not work, per their choice, not mine. bj does have a craft hobby and come spring and summer she sells her crafts to bring in small wages.

It is often suggested that slaves do not work at all and only submissives do since they are part time in the lifestyle. Part time meaning they go to work, shop, take kids to soccer practice and only when there is privacy does the girl submit. I have never worked this way and have always dealt with slaves. Slaves submit 24/7 365 days a year and there is nothing part time about them.

As pepermint stated, each relationship, each couple has their own variant of submissive slave. Therefore you will always get a different answer. Hope this helps.

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RE: i am new here hello all - 3/2/2008 5:34:41 PM

meticulousgirl

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welcome to collarme,

as to your question there are "three roles" so to speak one is the Dominant who is in control, another is the submissive who submits to a Dominants wishes under negotiated terms and the last but, not least is where myself and many others are at as slaves....we submit completely personally i have no limits, i ask permission to do just about everything. My suggestion would be to go into the BDSM section of this thread, and just start reading the forums out there, once your done with that there is a search tool for the forums and most things your wondering about can be found in previous topics, if you cant find the answer your looking for please feel free to start a new thread in one of the lifestyle threads as many, more people read those than the intro's section on a daily and forever basis.

anywho welcome to collarme, my box is always open if you want to ask more questions.

~meticulous~

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RE: i am new here hello all - 3/3/2008 6:52:50 AM

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curious,

Welcome to CM, to learn; just spend some time on the boards.

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