RedMagic1
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Correct, Raechard. If you see a friend who looks down, and you want to make yourself available, don't ask that. Make a statement: "You look terrible." "You look down." Then they can respond by opening up, instead of the kneejerk societal reflex of "Fine."
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Not with envy, not with a twisted heart, shall you feel superior, or go about boasting. Rather in goodness by action make true your song and your word. Thus you shall be highly regarded, and able to live in peace with all others. - 15th century Aztec
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