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RE: Profile Feedback - 2/18/2008 9:07:35 AM

LadyLynx

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To the OP: My only real objection is to your screen name, (though it isn't really an objection,lol. muddled thoughts;))
Because you have the word Master in your nic, but labeled as a switch, that is going to put some people off. subs and Dominants alike. Of course you may think, " Oh well if they are bothered by it, then I won't waste my time with them" And since I think that too, when people object to my being a switch. But this is just to give you a heads up, if you havn't thought of it already. Other then that, I like your profile, A good length to tell about you and your life. A nice range of interests. And your cute too:)

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RE: Profile Feedback - 2/18/2008 9:12:10 AM

SteelofUtah

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Bright Colors and Monkeys, everyone loves Monkeys.

Also be as Condesending as possible and then flat out lie. Subs LOVE that!

Also Try to Crossreference everything you do with the fact that you are interested in Theroy and have NO actual Experience in ANY of it, by repeting the Phrase "Never done it but I bet I'd be GREAT at it"

And at the end of your "About Me" section DEMAND Nude Photos with them holding up Todays Newspaper to prove that they are really the one in the picture and that at least it is a current photo.

Make at least 4 references to NO UGGO'S in your profile.

And if all else Fails simply remind them that you are a TWUE Master Trained in the Secret 1000 year old School of Olde Grard Masters which proved you are Perfect in EVERY way.

I hear these work REALLY well at getting a LOT of people to LOOK at your profile..... even if it is just to laugh and call you a douche bag.

As Always

Steel

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RE: Profile Feedback - 2/18/2008 9:22:05 AM

SailingBum

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quote:

ORIGINAL: LadyLynx

To the OP: My only real objection is to your screen name, (though it isn't really an objection,lol. muddled thoughts;))
Because you have the word Master in your nic, but labeled as a switch, that is going to put some people off. subs and Dominants alike. Of course you may think, " Oh well if they are bothered by it, then I won't waste my time with them" And since I think that too, when people object to my being a switch. But this is just to give you a heads up, if you havn't thought of it already. Other then that, I like your profile, A good length to tell about you and your life. A nice range of interests. And your cute too:)

I have a theory about ppl that put master, lord dom goddess maam those types of nicks. They are so insecure in the position in the kink world that they HAVE to label themselves as such to validate their status to others. Go figure.

BadOne

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RE: Profile Feedback - 2/18/2008 9:26:07 AM

subtee

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Okay, I've lost total respect for you as a bum now. Self-labeling for validation, hmmmm?

So disappointing...

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RE: Profile Feedback - 2/18/2008 9:51:57 AM

SailingBum

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ORIGINAL: subtee

Okay, I've lost total respect for you as a bum now. Self-labeling for validation, hmmmm?

So disappointing...

Yea I know. I've disappointed ppl a lot more important than you in my life. Am I going to lose sleep over it...prolly not

BadOne

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RE: Profile Feedback - 2/18/2008 10:29:21 AM

MsSonnetMarwood

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Logan!

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RE: Profile Feedback - 2/18/2008 10:41:46 AM

whateverhewants

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It was straightforward informative and concise. very well written.

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RE: Profile Feedback - 2/18/2008 10:50:51 AM

HerLord

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So as it happens, I have an etiquette question that applies to this topic.
I had made a what I thought was a simple considerate "we are not a match." comment on a note I left someone as a notification to them, that I was not expecting them to have to run and hide from stalker or even really need to further reply. My question is... Was this in bad form? I got thouroughly lashed as being egotistical in thinking that all that visitied my site were looking for a match from me... Not real sure how I expressed it wrong, or if I did... But is there protocol that could reduce the hostility in responses/non-responses?

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RE: Profile Feedback - 2/18/2008 11:06:33 AM

SailingBum

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quote:

ORIGINAL: HerLord

So as it happens, I have an etiquette question that applies to this topic.
I had made a what I thought was a simple considerate "we are not a match." comment on a note I left someone as a notification to them, that I was not expecting them to have to run and hide from stalker or even really need to further reply. My question is... Was this in bad form? I got thouroughly lashed as being egotistical in thinking that all that visitied my site were looking for a match from me... Not real sure how I expressed it wrong, or if I did... But is there protocol that could reduce the hostility in responses/non-responses?

I like to help but I'm real sure I wouldn't as I get flamed lots. Typically I just shrug it off. However if your in a hole the first thing to do is stop digging. I use the ignore command quite a bit as I found a few that "stalk" my post for whatever reason.

BadOne

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RE: Profile Feedback - 2/18/2008 11:12:49 AM

HerLord

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After having quite a few herty laghs at some of the retorts I've seen from your posts, I can only imagine some of the flaming you get. I am aware that this "path" come with a certain amount of see how thick my skin is, but at the same time, if there is protocol and or "guidelines" to follow, then no need to get rude and not take the time to learn them.

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RE: Profile Feedback - 2/18/2008 11:22:15 AM

subtee

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People will "flame" you for kindly answering that you're not a match, and they'll flame you for not answering at all. Can't win for losing. If you're a polite person, it will probably make you happier to keep responding with a considerate comment, but there is no protocol, per se.

~Pokes his skin...poke...poke~

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RE: Profile Feedback - 2/18/2008 11:24:17 AM

SailingBum

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quote:

ORIGINAL: HerLord

After having quite a few herty laghs at some of the retorts I've seen from your posts, I can only imagine some of the flaming you get. I am aware that this "path" come with a certain amount of see how thick my skin is, but at the same time, if there is protocol and or "guidelines" to follow, then no need to get rude and not take the time to learn them.

Well Im a call it as I see it kinda guy let the chips fall where they may. I've been called abrasive before or my ppl skill could use some sort of fancy upgrade big surprise. The key for me is I truly don't care what others think of me. If they don't like what I have to say move on I'm not losing sleep over it. Noone is getting out of here alive so have fun and be yourself.

BadOne

< Message edited by SailingBum -- 2/18/2008 11:26:19 AM >

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RE: Profile Feedback - 2/18/2008 11:31:08 AM

HerLord

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quote:

ORIGINAL: SailingBum

quote:

ORIGINAL: HerLord

After having quite a few herty laghs at some of the retorts I've seen from your posts, I can only imagine some of the flaming you get. I am aware that this "path" come with a certain amount of see how thick my skin is, but at the same time, if there is protocol and or "guidelines" to follow, then no need to get rude and not take the time to learn them.

Well Im a call it as I see it kinda guy let the chips fall where they may. I've been called abrasive before or my ppl skill could use some sort of fancy upgrade big surprise. The key for me is I truly don't care what others think of me. If they don't like what I have to say move on I'm not losing sleep over it. Noone is getting out of here alive so have fun and be yourself.

BadOne

We have much in common. I have also been informed by superiors at work that I do not play well with others... Sound familiar?

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RE: Profile Feedback - 2/18/2008 11:35:34 AM

SailingBum

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quote:

ORIGINAL: HerLord

We have much in common. I have also been informed by superiors at work that I do not play well with others... Sound familiar?

Must be why i own the joint. They have to put up with me lol.

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RE: Profile Feedback - 2/18/2008 11:37:53 AM

HalloweenWhite

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I'm not able to offer yu advice on your profile, I'm afraid-I think Mine is pretty bad but I can't seem to write -anything- I'm happy with, and believe Me, Ive tried over and over! lol.

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RE: Profile Feedback - 2/18/2008 11:40:45 AM

HerLord

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Bum... you are doing very little to reassure everyone of your "bum" title...LOL I will own my truck again here shortly... That spendy peice of plastic in my back pocket needed some time to re-instate itself... LOL\

WAY too much rooster cruisen... (cross lifestyle language barrier acknowledged)

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RE: Profile Feedback - 2/18/2008 11:54:26 AM

SailingBum

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My nick has to do with I will sail on anyones boat that has cold beer and the ability to tell great sea stories. Just like fishing stories they get biger and better with age. Not to hijack the thread but one of my favs.... One of the crew got hurt really bad he is laying there moaning his shoulder is looking like a coathanger. We happend to have a doc on board crewing he checks him out and says get me a bottle of rum <standered equipment> The guy is moaning whats the rum for doc.... the doc says it's for me cuz i aint never seen no shit like this before. We all busted out laffing.

BadOne

< Message edited by SailingBum -- 2/18/2008 11:55:24 AM >

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The beatings will continue until morale improves.

According to SwithNSpanky
We are all so very lucky to have you with us to impart your great wisdom.

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RE: Profile Feedback - 2/19/2008 5:46:22 AM

MasterLoganAndrews

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quote:

ORIGINAL: subtee
You made the OP last night and you forgot about it already this morning? Perhaps it is as ChainedExistence suggested and you're too busy?:

Actually it was less than an hour later. The ironic thing is that if I had gone back the next morning I would have probably remembered to check the thread first. That's why I talk about having a mind like a steel sieve (a play on the "mind like a steel trap" for those who don't get it). I just thank God that my wife loves me as I am, spotty memory and all.

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RE: Profile Feedback - 2/19/2008 5:57:48 AM

MasterLoganAndrews

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quote:

ORIGINAL: MistressNoName
But I think what you may be experiencing by way of lack of responses...

Thank you so much for that feedback. Very insightful. It also showed me another point where my post implied something I didn't intend. (Isn't community involvement grand?!?). While I certainally have my feelers out there, I'm honestly not expecting to get a lot of hits, at least on the personal level. I will say that I've managed to gather a few new members for the local groups before the thread started ( and a couple after.). My comment about the lack of success was more FYI than complaint.

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RE: Profile Feedback - 2/19/2008 6:01:41 AM

MasterLoganAndrews

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quote:

ORIGINAL: SteelofUtah
Make at least 4 references to NO UGGO'S in your profile.

Ok now I feel really newbie. I also feel lazy enough not to try to hunt this out on the net, but instead ask it here:

What does UGGO mean?

(This is also a sly trick to get it explained to the others who might not know but won't admit. But, SHHHHH!...don't tell)

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