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Do you wonder if everyone can tell? - 2/5/2008 1:53:52 PM

MistressVnus

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A catheter with urnine bag strapped to your leg under your clothes. Then out for dinner.
You are told to order red wine. Then you have to go to the bathroom and place some of that urine into your wine glass.
You now have white wine when the waiter comes back. He notices. How do you explain!! *hehehehehehe*
Or, you have an electric cock ring on. Out to dinner. Right in the middle of a bite the juice is jolted!!
If female, you have a remote pocket rocket or other device inserted. Out to eat. The vibrator gets turned on.
Piss pants.....(I haven't done this yet but I'm dying to)....you have piss pants on....are made to drink lots of water throughout dinner. Then ordered to piss yourself. Right there.

Have you ever experienced anything like these scenarios? Did you feel like everyone could tell even though they couldn't? Was it humiliating, yet exciting?

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RE: Do you wonder if everyone can tell? - 2/5/2008 1:57:52 PM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: MistressVnus

A catheter with urnine bag strapped to your leg under your clothes. Then out for dinner.
You are told to order red wine. Then you have to go to the bathroom and place some of that urine into your wine glass.
You now have white wine when the waiter comes back. He notices. How do you explain!! *hehehehehehe*
Or, you have an electric cock ring on. Out to dinner. Right in the middle of a bite the juice is jolted!!
If female, you have a remote pocket rocket or other device inserted. Out to eat. The vibrator gets turned on.
Piss pants.....(I haven't done this yet but I'm dying to)....you have piss pants on....are made to drink lots of water throughout dinner. Then ordered to piss yourself. Right there.

Have you ever experienced anything like these scenarios? Did you feel like everyone could tell even though they couldn't? Was it humiliating, yet exciting?

My fantasies of public humiliation run more along the lines of descression, something that only he and I know about that he can make me squirm with a whisper or a word but wouldn't infringe on the non-consent of others around us.

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RE: Do you wonder if everyone can tell? - 2/5/2008 2:04:17 PM

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I've had a lot of dinners out with a remote egg inside. Can they tell? I don't know but it didn't seem like it, plus he wouldn't zap me while a wait person were at the table.

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RE: Do you wonder if everyone can tell? - 2/5/2008 2:05:54 PM

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While I find it exciting to be sort of publicly humiliated (vibe in panties, say, in a public place), I'd be hesitant to do anything that had the possibility of others ACTUALLY noticing...simply b/c I'm uncomfortable with exposing others to my kink.

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RE: Do you wonder if everyone can tell? - 2/5/2008 2:11:50 PM

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quote:

While I find it exciting to be sort of publicly humiliated (vibe in panties, say, in a public place),

Let's stick with this part. No one said anything about other's "actually" knowing but, rather, you "feeling" like they can tell.
How does that mess with your head. Do you enjoy it even in the distress of wondering if they know? Does the wondering excite you?
What is it about that "sort of publicly humilated" experience that excites you?? hmmmmmmm?

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RE: Do you wonder if everyone can tell? - 2/5/2008 2:12:44 PM

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A woman could get away with the catheter bag easier than a guy because that could be easily hidden under a skirt. I think covert public play is hot....I am looking forward to exploring that soon. Of course being mindful of those around you.

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RE: Do you wonder if everyone can tell? - 2/5/2008 2:13:52 PM

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something that only he and I know about that he can make me squirm with a whisper or a word but wouldn't infringe on the non-consent of others around us.

Exactly!!! Only you two know. But does it FEEL like everyone can tell? And if so, does that excite you? Scare you?
Humiliate you? Or "E".....all of the above?

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RE: Do you wonder if everyone can tell? - 2/5/2008 2:14:21 PM

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dunno, a bulky sort of sweater and pleat front pants........hey there are people running around all over with colostomy bags and whatnot........

doesn't seem to be brain surgery.

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RE: Do you wonder if everyone can tell? - 2/5/2008 2:16:50 PM

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Thank You!!!
Like...someone might just NEED to have that catheter in. DUH????
What if someone did figure it out? So what? Would they know it is BDSM related? I think not.
It isn't like you're whipping someone in public.
This is about head fuc*s.

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RE: Do you wonder if everyone can tell? - 2/5/2008 2:39:21 PM

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Since i was in 3rd or 4th grade trying to will away the erection before i got called to the chalk board. of course they notice, just too polite to say anything (how is that for maintaining the fantasy.)

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RE: Do you wonder if everyone can tell? - 2/5/2008 2:44:01 PM

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ROFL. I love that life dilema all boys must to through.
I have heard the story told many times. And it still cracks me up. I am SO glad women don't have to endure that.
But I guess hard nipples can be just as bothersome. Unless your into smuggling raisons.

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RE: Do you wonder if everyone can tell? - 2/5/2008 3:10:42 PM

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Not to the extent of peed pants, I would not want someone coming behind and sitting in a seat or booth where some ones pee was, nor would I want a bus person wiping the seat, thinking it was water then wiping the table.

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RE: Do you wonder if everyone can tell? - 2/5/2008 3:30:44 PM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: camille65

I've had a lot of dinners out with a remote egg inside. Can they tell? I don't know but it didn't seem like it, plus he wouldn't zap me while a wait person were at the table.

Why not? That' when it's fun....and hot!

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RE: Do you wonder if everyone can tell? - 2/5/2008 3:41:47 PM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: MistressVnus

quote:

something that only he and I know about that he can make me squirm with a whisper or a word but wouldn't infringe on the non-consent of others around us.

Exactly!!! Only you two know. But does it FEEL like everyone can tell? And if so, does that excite you? Scare you?
Humiliate you? Or "E".....all of the above?

That would be SOOOOOOOOOOOO hot *pant pant*

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RE: Do you wonder if everyone can tell? - 2/5/2008 3:43:45 PM

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I have a public scenario fantasy that is too hot to mention; if I told you, I would have to kill you.

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RE: Do you wonder if everyone can tell? - 2/5/2008 3:52:10 PM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: sexyred1

I have a public scenario fantasy that is too hot to mention; if I told you, I would have to kill you.

....... well if that's not a tease......

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RE: Do you wonder if everyone can tell? - 2/5/2008 3:58:44 PM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: SoCurious2Feel

quote:

ORIGINAL: sexyred1

I have a public scenario fantasy that is too hot to mention; if I told you, I would have to kill you.

....... well if that's not a tease......

I know...that is the fun part!!

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RE: Do you wonder if everyone can tell? - 2/5/2008 4:14:05 PM

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I do such things very regularly- mostly because I know I'm not important enough to anyone to really care or cause a fuss over. People are too stuck in their own lives and worried about what everyone else is thinking about them to possibly really pay attention what anyone else is actually doing.

And if someone does notice...well they can enjoy or not as long as they don't interfere.

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RE: Do you wonder if everyone can tell? - 2/5/2008 4:25:26 PM

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i never undstood what piss pants are and how they work.

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RE: Do you wonder if everyone can tell? - 2/5/2008 4:26:39 PM

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quote:

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I have a public scenario fantasy that is too hot to mention; if I told you, I would have to kill you.

*Looks around for someone who has a snuff play fantasy to find out about red's public scenario fantasy.*

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