Collarspace Discussion Forums


Home  Login  Search 

RE: Do you wonder if everyone can tell?


View related threads: (in this forum | in all forums)

Logged in as: Guest
 
All Forums >> [Community Discussions] >> General BDSM Discussion >> RE: Do you wonder if everyone can tell? Page: <<   < prev  1 [2] 3   next >   >>
Login
Message << Older Topic   Newer Topic >>
RE: Do you wonder if everyone can tell? - 2/5/2008 4:29:58 PM   
camille65


Posts: 5746
Joined: 7/11/2007
From: Austin Texas
Status: offline
quote:

ORIGINAL: windchymes

quote:

ORIGINAL: camille65

I've had a lot of dinners out with a remote egg inside. Can they tell? I don't know but it didn't seem like it, plus he wouldn't zap me while a wait person were at the table.


Why not?  That' when it's fun....and hot!
 Because I whimper. Sometimes loudly  ,so he promised he wouldn't do that to me anymore lol.

_____________________________


~Love your life! (It is the only one you'll get).




(in reply to windchymes)
Profile   Post #: 21
RE: Do you wonder if everyone can tell? - 2/5/2008 5:22:47 PM   
ForeverOwned


Posts: 269
Joined: 2/5/2008
Status: offline 		i am proud of the  way that we live, and i don't try to hide it.

i enjoy the fact that when we're at a social event everyone comments on how in love my husband is with me and how good we treat each other.

It gives me such  a warm feeling that i wish we could bottle the feelings that we have and share them with everyone. So that  they will feel as good as we do.

(in reply to camille65)
Profile   Post #: 22
RE: Do you wonder if everyone can tell? - 2/5/2008 5:30:02 PM   
DiurnalVampire


Posts: 8125
Joined: 1/19/2006
From: Nashville, TN
Status: offline 		I prefer using Fox's ... natural reactions.. as humiliation. He tends to be a bit of a prude and the simple idea of having a visible erection is mortifying for him. I know what comments will get reactions, and often while we are out walking or driving I will make sure he has a bit to think about. I have also gotten him rather aroused in a movie theater, and then sent him our for popcorn.

For Angel, it has been panties under his jeans.  Not such a horrible thing, since its usually easily hidden except Angel has problems keeping his jeans up. Becasue he is so very slender and his hips and waist are about the same size, even a cinched belt doesnt help keep them where they should be. So, when we go out shopping, he wears panties (or diapers depepending on my mood) and I wil have him carry packages so that both hands are occupied in the parking lot. Jeans slide, hands are full and cant pull them up and he consitantly wonders if anyone might have gotten a glimpse of pink before we reached the car.

DV


_____________________________

I will be your Dominate if you will be my submit - Fox

Snarko Ergo Sum
If you cannot change your mind, how are you so sure you still have one? -proverb

*Owner of Fox - collared 10/13/07*
VampiresLair

(in reply to ForeverOwned)
Profile   Post #: 23
RE: Do you wonder if everyone can tell? - 2/5/2008 5:30:39 PM   
Griswold


Posts: 2739
Joined: 2/12/2007
Status: offline
quote:

ORIGINAL: MistressVnus

A catheter with urnine bag strapped to your leg under your clothes.  Then out for dinner.
You are told to order red wine.  Then you have to go to the bathroom and place some of that urine into your wine glass.
You now have white wine when the waiter comes back. He notices.   How do you explain!!  *hehehehehehe*
Or, you have an electric cock ring on.  Out to dinner.  Right in the middle of a bite the juice is jolted!!
If female, you have a remote pocket rocket or other device inserted.  Out to eat.  The vibrator gets turned on.
Piss pants.....(I haven't done this yet but I'm dying to)....you have piss pants on....are made to drink lots of water throughout dinner.  Then ordered to piss yourself.  Right there.

Have you ever experienced anything like these scenarios?  Did you feel like everyone could tell even though they couldn't?  Was it humiliating, yet exciting?



Uhmmmm...no.

(in reply to MistressVnus)
Profile   Post #: 24
RE: Do you wonder if everyone can tell? - 2/5/2008 6:02:01 PM   
sweetnurseBBW


Posts: 2464
Joined: 1/26/2006
From: North Carolina
Status: offline 		I had to wear a vibe that my Master at the time had the remote and we went out to eat. He would indiscriminately turn it on and off. I honestly didn't care if anyone knew. I am the type that gets excited if I think everyone else knew.

_____________________________

Sir Pain's pain slut

(in reply to MistressVnus)
Profile   Post #: 25
RE: Do you wonder if everyone can tell? - 2/5/2008 6:56:39 PM   
MistressVnus


Posts: 1036
Joined: 1/4/2008
From: Central Florida
Status: offline
quote:

i never undstood what piss pants are and how they work.


Well, in the past, they were just a very tight fitting pair of latex shorts with a "puffy" area in the groin and seat so you could piss/shit yourself but it wouldn't leak out.  They have become highly sophisticated over the years and now come equipped with enema bag and/or piss bag.  Use your imagination here.  There is no cleaning up in a restaraunt seat.  Although I'm sure it must feel that way to the person having to piss or sheeeeat themselves in the middle of the public area.

http://www.marquis.de/onlineshop/product_info.php?products_id=1235
http://www.sfdi-hauteng.de/product_info.php?products_id=3916&language=en

You can find more ...just seach..."latex piss pants"


_____________________________

In the ties that bind,
Mistress Venus
http://www.mistressvenus.com

"I'm not IN the lifestyle. The lifestyle is in Me!"

(in reply to snowboardinpa)
Profile   Post #: 26
RE: Do you wonder if everyone can tell? - 2/5/2008 6:58:42 PM   
MistressVnus


Posts: 1036
Joined: 1/4/2008
From: Central Florida
Status: offline
quote:

Not to the extent of peed pants, I would not want someone coming behind and sitting in a seat or booth where some ones pee was, nor would I want a bus person wiping the seat, thinking it was water then wiping the table.


Please see my note to snowboardinpa.  There is no cleaning up.  There are some links in my response to snowboard where you can see more how it works.  The piss pants and all.


_____________________________

In the ties that bind,
Mistress Venus
http://www.mistressvenus.com

"I'm not IN the lifestyle. The lifestyle is in Me!"

(in reply to LadyHathor)
Profile   Post #: 27
RE: Do you wonder if everyone can tell? - 2/5/2008 7:05:52 PM   
Leatherist


Posts: 5149
Joined: 12/11/2007
Status: offline 		I've taken girls out with diapers under thier outfits plenty of times. Sometimes under a fairly short skirt. Covered them by about ten inches, bending over would expose them. Thicker cloth diapers under pants would show a noticible bulge.  Very few people ever showed much notice,but the girls felt pretty spotlighted by the whole experience-especially when thier bladders were too full to hold back anymore-and they flooded them.

And I wasn;t too worried,if  anyone gave us any crap over it-I could just sass them back for picking on a poor incontinent woman. Lot of girls out there with bladder control issues.

And I hope your tops are reading this-and going "hmmmmm"

_____________________________

My shop is currently segueing into production mode.

I'm not taking custom orders.

(in reply to BRNaughtyAngel)
Profile   Post #: 28
RE: Do you wonder if everyone can tell? - 2/5/2008 7:09:05 PM   
Lashra


Posts: 4900
Joined: 2/9/2006
Status: offline 		I've put a vibrating cockring on him and vibrating nipple clamps while out at a restaurant. He has gone out with his fingernails painted and had to pay the cashier, a few times he's worn a bra under his shirt and you could tell it. So far thats been the extent of our public humilation play.

~Lashra


_____________________________

“We can never judge the lives of others, because each person knows only their own pain and renunciation. It's one thing to feel that you are on the right path, but it's another to think that yours is the only path.”






(in reply to BRNaughtyAngel)
Profile   Post #: 29
RE: Do you wonder if everyone can tell? - 2/5/2008 9:48:23 PM   
Kana


Posts: 6676
Joined: 10/24/2006
Status: offline 		Isn't half the fun of doing public stuff walking on the edge of the knife?
The thought for her that someone may find out, the fear, the hope, the ecstacy and the agony ?
Knowing that at any moment he may do something that will reveal her for everyone to see, and that he is just enough of a sonofabitch to do it, if for nothing else than his pure amusement.
The realization for him that he can make her squirm, dance, twist and jump at possible exposure.
You want fun with a submissive, go out to dinner with me at one of those places that has paper on the tables and gives you crayons.
I have written things that made the waitress blush and run for the kitchen.
And that was the beginning


(in reply to BRNaughtyAngel)
Profile   Post #: 30
RE: Do you wonder if everyone can tell? - 2/5/2008 11:28:12 PM   
MaamJay


Posts: 2101
Joined: 9/2/2005
Status: offline 		Yes I very much enjoy covert public play as both sub and Domme. Remote controlled devices ... yum! Wearing a buttplug or anal beads or putting them in My sub. Wearing a rope "bra" and "panties" under my clothes ... or having him wear a rope harness.  Having to ask permission to go to the toilet. Giving the sub a pair of crotchless panties to put on (for the first time ever!) while he is in the toilet at a restaurant. (OMG he took AGES, I was considering sending in a search party LOL ... and he still had them on wrong!). Even doing all the talking as a Domme for 2 male subs, driving the waiter nuts was fun LOL! For Me the key is that the general public haven't consented so be mindful of that.

As a sub i am quite exhibitionist, so Master has to rein me back if anything LOL! W/we seem to make a bit of a speciality of lookouts ... for some flashing of breasts, upskirts, a spanking, and W/we did get a bit of a fuck in on a picnic table on the Nullarbor plain (for the uninitiated ... a deserted desert plain that separates west and east Australia ... just one road goes across it!) ... till a bloody truck came LOL! Bastards followed U/us from lookout to lookout after that so W/we never did get to finish. So if you're approaching an Aussie lookout ... look out!

Maam Jay aka violet[A]

_____________________________

Life is a song ... and I love singing it! (By me!)

(in reply to Kana)
Profile   Post #: 31
RE: Do you wonder if everyone can tell? - 2/6/2008 12:09:16 AM   
sub4sub123


Posts: 51
Joined: 2/2/2008
Status: offline 		I have peed my pants in public, and yes people could tell, but I was pregnant at the time and one of the gals thought my water broke! She tried to call 911!   He made me explain that I had peed before she could call.  I told her that I peed and started to cry, the waitress was so nice she said that she had done that when she was pregnant too. It was humiliating, but it was fun.

(in reply to MaamJay)
Profile   Post #: 32
RE: Do you wonder if everyone can tell? - 2/6/2008 4:55:37 AM   
MistressVnus


Posts: 1036
Joined: 1/4/2008
From: Central Florida
Status: offline
quote:

People are too stuck in their own lives and worried about what everyone else is thinking about them to possibly really pay attention what anyone else is actually doing.


Ain't that the truth!!  Heck, most times a woman can be getting assaulted by her boyfriend in a parking lot and everyone will just walk on past.  And we worry about a little moan or groan.  *sigh*

I did, however,  have a fem/slave orgasm during breakfast out due to an inserted rocket.  She was pretty discreet about it but it kind of looked like she might be having a minor seizure.  *chuckle*  I did notice, and so did my slave,  that an eldery couple were looking at her wondering...what the hell?  I'm sure they had no idea what the real cause was and probablay couldn't figure out why I thought is was so funny.  *chuckle*


_____________________________

In the ties that bind,
Mistress Venus
http://www.mistressvenus.com

"I'm not IN the lifestyle. The lifestyle is in Me!"

(in reply to LuckyAlbatross)
Profile   Post #: 33
RE: Do you wonder if everyone can tell? - 2/6/2008 5:00:30 AM   
atursvcMaam


Posts: 1195
Joined: 5/10/2004
Status: offline
quote:

ORIGINAL: sexyred1

I have a public scenario fantasy that is too hot to mention; if I told you, I would have to kill you.


Promises promises.

_____________________________

live hard, die young and leave a good looking corpse when you die.
Love ya, but, when the zombies start chasing us, i am tripping you.
The glass is always full, the question is, "with what?"

(in reply to sexyred1)
Profile   Post #: 34
RE: Do you wonder if everyone can tell? - 2/6/2008 5:02:48 AM   
atursvcMaam


Posts: 1195
Joined: 5/10/2004
Status: offline 		Thanks God for tight sweaters, and chilly days.  (Quite often the reason behind my dilemna through the years) 

_____________________________

live hard, die young and leave a good looking corpse when you die.
Love ya, but, when the zombies start chasing us, i am tripping you.
The glass is always full, the question is, "with what?"

(in reply to MistressVnus)
Profile   Post #: 35
RE: Do you wonder if everyone can tell? - 2/6/2008 5:31:31 AM   
MistressVnus


Posts: 1036
Joined: 1/4/2008
From: Central Florida
Status: offline 		HAHAHAHH!! The cause and effect of dilemmas and how they affect each other. (Was that redundant?) Hey, that might make a good thread.

_____________________________

In the ties that bind,
Mistress Venus
http://www.mistressvenus.com

"I'm not IN the lifestyle. The lifestyle is in Me!"

(in reply to atursvcMaam)
Profile   Post #: 36
RE: Do you wonder if everyone can tell? - 2/6/2008 12:13:14 PM   
crystalmoon


Posts: 3
Joined: 3/17/2005
Status: offline 		i sometimes wear a remote control egg while out with my Master and yes at the time it dose feel like people know especially when he catches me unawares. One time stands out particularly i was ordering drinks at a bar and asked for a pint of bitter and a glass of red wiiiiiiiiine. When we are out i try watch his hand like a hawk he! he! and when he goes for the remote in his pocket i'm ready or so i think !!!! but he can teas me like that too sometimes  its worse when your ready for it and nothing happens. i also get very paranoid about the noise it makes im sure someday there will be a comment about what’s that low buzzing sound (i'm sure our new ones louder than the old one) fortunately pubs and restaurants tend to be busy noisy places, the library on the other hand would be so humiliating. Having said that i trust my Master completely so sharing such a guilt secret in public is such a fun thing to do just seeing the smile on his face makes it worthwhile.

< Message edited by crystalmoon -- 2/6/2008 12:17:19 PM >

(in reply to MistressVnus)
Profile   Post #: 37
RE: Do you wonder if everyone can tell? - 2/6/2008 12:20:27 PM   
meticulousgirl


Posts: 969
Joined: 2/20/2007
Status: offline 		Neither of us are public play fanatics infact i'm not sure that i could ever really handle it.  I've been through the vibrating egg in my ass thing with my previou Owners and it was fun (w.o the whole pee thing attached) i've been through having to bend over in a store to be spanked, and i've been through the whole take your panty's off and give them to me under a table at dinner, sure it was fun but, it didn't really do anything for me

~meticulous~

(in reply to BRNaughtyAngel)
Profile   Post #: 38
RE: Do you wonder if everyone can tell? - 2/6/2008 12:35:33 PM   
Sub03


Posts: 600
Joined: 4/30/2005
Status: offline 		My former Dom was seriously into public play. Pretty much whatever he thought he could get away with I have done......boy could I tell some stories lol. But I am a bit of an exhibitionist so it was all fun, though that thought that other people may know or might see was always on my mind.

_____________________________

owned by painarranger

I am His loyal slave

(in reply to meticulousgirl)
Profile   Post #: 39
RE: Do you wonder if everyone can tell? - 2/6/2008 3:03:18 PM   
HalloweenWhite


Posts: 1028
Joined: 6/20/2005
Status: offline
quote:

ORIGINAL: MistressVnus

A catheter with urnine bag strapped to your leg under your clothes.  Then out for dinner.
You are told to order red wine.  Then you have to go to the bathroom and place some of that urine into your wine glass.
You now have white wine when the waiter comes back. He notices.   How do you explain!!  *hehehehehehe*
Or, you have an electric cock ring on.  Out to dinner.  Right in the middle of a bite the juice is jolted!!
If female, you have a remote pocket rocket or other device inserted.  Out to eat.  The vibrator gets turned on.
Piss pants.....(I haven't done this yet but I'm dying to)....you have piss pants on....are made to drink lots of water throughout dinner.  Then ordered to piss yourself.  Right there.

Have you ever experienced anything like these scenarios?  Did you feel like everyone could tell even though they couldn't?  Was it humiliating, yet exciting?



I'm not sure I'd like to go as far as the situations you mentioned but outdoor humiliation is something I'd like to play with and explore, the creative challenge of being as extreme as I could be but without anyone noticing would make for a -lot- of fun.

(in reply to MistressVnus)
Profile   Post #: 40
Page:   <<   < prev  1 [2] 3   next >   >>
All Forums >> [Community Discussions] >> General BDSM Discussion >> RE: Do you wonder if everyone can tell? Page: <<   < prev  1 [2] 3   next >   >>
Jump to:





New Messages No New Messages
Hot Topic w/ New Messages Hot Topic w/o New Messages
Locked w/ New Messages Locked w/o New Messages
 Post New Thread
 Reply to Message
 Post New Poll
 Submit Vote
 Delete My Own Post
 Delete My Own Thread
 Rate Posts




Collarchat.com © 2025
Terms of Service Privacy Policy Spam Policy

0.172