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The Joy of teasing a submissive woman! - 1/24/2008 4:03:32 AM   
OTK007


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Status: offline 		Ah yes, I am a natural, very Dominant Big Daddy.  I am so into teasing a submissive woman and edge play.  Denying Orgasm until I'm ready.  The begging and frustration in the eyes is a total turn on for me.  The feeling of power and control is what does it for me. 
 
I would like to get feedback on this type of play.  Please offer your thoughts.  Thank you.

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RE: The Joy of teasing a submissive woman! - 1/24/2008 4:05:21 AM   
laurell3


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RE: The Joy of teasing a submissive woman! - 1/24/2008 4:28:13 AM   
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Status: offline 		I dunno. I think OP thinks it's a good thing though.

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RE: The Joy of teasing a submissive woman! - 1/24/2008 4:48:09 AM   
laurell3


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Status: offline 		Well ok then.  Personally orgasm control has limited value for me.  While I will do it of course if ordered, as a measure of control allowing me orgasm repeatedly is much more likely to get more fluid and greater responses.

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RE: The Joy of teasing a submissive woman! - 1/24/2008 5:05:41 AM   
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Status: offline 		i'm happy that it works for you and yours however for me and mine - i don't have to beg. they don't have to feel power and control to dominate me. 

to each his own.

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RE: The Joy of teasing a submissive woman! - 1/24/2008 5:16:01 AM   
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Status: offline 		I hate being denied orgasms! Fortunately, he likes watching me have them so much that he rarely denies me. I do have to ask permission of course

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RE: The Joy of teasing a submissive woman! - 1/24/2008 5:24:37 AM   
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RE: The Joy of teasing a submissive woman! - 1/24/2008 5:25:35 AM   
Dari


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allowing me orgasm repeatedly is much more likely to get more fluid and greater responses.


<grin>  Pun intended?

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RE: The Joy of teasing a submissive woman! - 1/24/2008 5:27:55 AM   
Phin


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Status: offline 		not my thing either, I love to watch a woman orgasm. it gives me a rush. But I do understand how it would be a turn on for you if that is your thing.

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RE: The Joy of teasing a submissive woman! - 1/24/2008 5:29:46 AM   
laurell3


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quote:

ORIGINAL: Dari

quote:

allowing me orgasm repeatedly is much more likely to get more fluid and greater responses.


<grin>  Pun intended?



LOL no I didn't even think about it actually.  Good catch!

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RE: The Joy of teasing a submissive woman! - 1/24/2008 5:31:32 AM   
venusinblu


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Status: offline 		Orgasm denial? Yucky! I'd rather eat my own body weight in raspberry custard than go along with that caper! ..




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RE: The Joy of teasing a submissive woman! - 1/24/2008 7:34:19 AM   
DesFIP


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Status: offline 		Drawing a line here between control, say being brought to the edge and not shoved over repeatedly during a day or for an hour straight and then given a totally overwhelming orgasm that leaves me shaking helplessly while he grins in delight and true denial which involves no orgasm for days, weeks or months on end. The first is great fun. As far as the second goes, nope. A couple of days of being teased and denied and I stop sleeping. Keep it up longer and my attitude tanks, I get bitchy and full of self pity, not helped by the sleep deprivation. Beyond that, I shut down and can't be aroused again, at that point we're roommates, not lovers, and I don't submit to a roommate. Also at that point I start to look at getting more pets, dogs, horses etc. Hell, if I'm living with a roommate, it should be one of my choice, where I'm in control. And what better than a dog who thinks I'm wonderful and wants nothing better than to be petted and come for rides?

I was celibate for five years  without problems because I had the world's sweetest golden retriever. I got lavished with unconditional love. Cried into her fur when I needed and never got pushed aside or humiliated for my feelings. Unless my partner is doing things that are better for me than that, I'd take a pet anyday over human complications. Vibrators are cheap, if all a dom can do is orgasm play then I'll pass, thank you.

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RE: The Joy of teasing a submissive woman! - 1/24/2008 7:42:42 AM   
SassySarijane


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Status: offline 		Orgasm teasing and denial only goes so far with me. Some is ok and heightens arousal and intensifies the orgasm. Constant, drawn out or frequent such play will actually have the opposite affect on me and kill arousal and interest in sex, sometimes for very extended periods of time.

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RE: The Joy of teasing a submissive woman! - 1/24/2008 8:04:42 AM   
SimplyMichael


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RE: The Joy of teasing a submissive woman! - 1/24/2008 9:37:56 AM   
TreasureKY


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quote:

ORIGINAL: DesFIP

...I had the world's sweetest golden retriever. I got lavished with unconditional love. Cried into her fur when I needed and never got pushed aside or humiliated for my feelings. Unless my partner is doing things that are better for me than that, I'd take a pet anyday over human complications.


How very true, Celeste!   

When it comes to love and acceptance, you can't go wrong with a good dog.  I've never had a dog who didn't have time for me or had better things to do.  They were perfect companions... never grumpy or needing time alone.  They didn't judge my emotions or berate me for liking what I like.  They didn't criticize how I did things or look for ways I could "improve".  They lapped up all the attention I could give them and showed equal devotion to me.  They were always ready to cuddle and be a comfort.  Plus, I never had to wonder what priority I held in their lives or whether they were bored with me.

lol... I think I'm going to start recommending a dog to all the new subs who come here lamenting all the sucky doms they've come across.  It might save some heartache, as well... I can't imagine a dog asking them to look for a second owner. 


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RE: The Joy of teasing a submissive woman! - 1/24/2008 9:41:29 AM   
laurell3


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ORIGINAL: SimplyMichael

I am a supernatural grandfather supersized dominate and I have just one question, what is this female orgasm thing?


It's a magic spell, you have to be in the secret club to know it...sorry!

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RE: The Joy of teasing a submissive woman! - 1/24/2008 9:52:02 AM   
Leatherist


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Status: offline 		I prefer teasing like, "do you know aht I am going to do to you in about fifteen minutes?"

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RE: The Joy of teasing a submissive woman! - 1/24/2008 11:52:05 AM   
ebonysweet


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Status: offline 		i agree that after a bit, it just gets frustrating and is enough to start making you kind of mad.  it becomes the female equivalent of "blue balls" and who likes that?  is this a good place to ask that type of question?

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RE: The Joy of teasing a submissive woman! - 1/24/2008 12:11:26 PM   
MasterWilliam55


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Status: offline 		Actually, teaching a woman to cum on command is preferable to me. But every now and then I like to switch the play and deny her an orgasm, but god help me if I don't make up for it later.  These little subbies can be mean bitches when they want. Those jock straps with a tin cup come in handy. Said in jest, but we all know subbies who  shall we say, are a little more forward than others.  Slaves now are another matter...grins

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RE: The Joy of teasing a submissive woman! - 1/24/2008 12:17:18 PM   
StrawberryGirly


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Status: offline 		Man... Denial of orgasm has no effect on me. I never orgasm anyway! :S

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